One day, on his way to work, Dr. Po happened to see a pair of parents who usually take a treasure bag to vaccinate together. At that time, they walked into the fitness center together, talking and laughing. Seeing this scene makes me both envy and admire them greatly!
It seems that the couple didn't lose their common interests because of the birth of their children. The key to their continuous love is that ... they can even leave their children and exercise together, which makes me envy. Because Dj Sophia Kao and I are your mother? Now we only go out to work, and the only time to exercise together is at home ...)
I deeply realize that the birth of a child will affect the relationship between husband and wife to a certain extent, because the process of taking care of the child is definitely hard and there will be friction. If both parties don't want to maintain and manage a good relationship between husband and wife, the family structure may gradually become problematic!
Looking back at the time when Xiaoroubao cried at night, Sophia Kao and I were exhausted every day, and we couldn't find time to be alone, because in the middle of the night, both of us seemed to be preparing for war. After 12, every time we sleep, we are very nervous and ready to face night terrors and crying from time to time. ...
In short, the two men took turns hugging, coaxing and shaking several times, thus ushered in the dawn. Then I went out to see a doctor, and Sophia Kao continued to fight with Xiaorou Bao. Xiaorou Bao may continue to lose his temper and cry during the day because he didn't sleep well the night before. ...
During that time, it was really easy for us to quarrel or sulk over a little thing. It was not until Xiaoroubao went to kindergarten and stopped crying at night that the relationship between husband and wife slowly returned to normal track.
In recent years, I found that the concept of parenting is slowly changing, and a new generation of parents began to take care of their children in different ways.
In the past, people thought that after the couple got married and the child was born, the father just went to work to make money, while the mother might have to quit her job, cut off the social circle of the former miss era and stay at home to take care of the child.
It's just that it's hard for parents to leave their children's company at the same time, and it's hard to have time for small dates, let alone exercise together! Even lack of interest in bed sports. ...
For this reason, many divorce cases of the elderly now are due to the fact that in the past, husband and wife swallowed their words for the sake of their children. When children grow up, because their responsibilities are over, they no longer need to tolerate or succumb to conflicts accumulated over the years. Finally, the husband and wife chose to go their separate ways and ended in divorce, but this is also a regrettable result!
In our generation, we pay more attention to the relationship between husband and wife, but we may be read by our elders: "Didn't we come like this before?" ! ","for the sake of children is sacrifice! "In the past, we didn't have a world of two people at all." ...
I think it's good to listen to the above words. Sacrifice and dedication like the older generation may not have a good result, because in modern times, children are often "chewed" but not prevented from getting old!
Finally, remind parents that after the child is born, they must make time to run the relationship between husband and wife! Because children are killers of time after they are born, they need to spend a lot of time taking care of them. When time is tight, we can only sacrifice the couple's own time ...?
Here are three solutions for everyone:
1. If the child is an angel bag, it is easy to take care of it without spending too much time. Please remember to surprise each other from time to time, increase the happiness of couples and keep love warm ~
When relatives and friends are willing to lend a helping hand, don't be too resistant just because others can't take care of their children in their own way! Because someone helps, couples will have a chance to breathe ... In fact, if relatives and friends really love and take care of children, some imperfections should be selectively ignored.
3. Seek foreign aid when no relatives or friends lend a helping hand. Sometimes it really takes a little money to buy a couple's own time. "The more four children go out, the better your life will be."
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"This article is the author's view on cooperative innovation, not his position."