1, a letter from a mother to her daughter, you can briefly describe the growth process of her daughter first. Then you can describe the impressive things that happened between yourself and your daughter and the feelings caused by them. Finally, you can describe your expectation and encouragement for your daughter.
Letter from mother to daughter 1
Bao Tong:
Yesterday you said you had something to discuss with us tonight. Dad and I have been looking forward to it. When you exercise in the gym at night, we start to discuss. You said that in May, the school would organize the third grade children to have a five-day field survival training. It is said that when you go to an uninhabited island, you live in a tent, eat only to meet the nutritional needs of your body, and your luggage should resist by yourself. The most terrible mosquito bite requires all students to have a physical examination in advance, and you have to get a special vaccine. The descriptions of sisters' faces make you feel creepy. Your final conclusion is "horrible and disgusting".
So you're struggling and want to hear our opinion.
Your father and I really want you to attend. You want me to give you a reason to participate. I said two or three things in a hurry, saying that you would be annoyed; In a motivational way, you say, "This is no longer useful to me." Facing you, my mother is really helpless. But when mom and dad walked on the mountain last night, they talked all the way and were worried. Through video or voice, I am worried that things will backfire, so I have to choose this communication method. I hope you can listen to your mother's opinion.
First: Field survival training is a traditional project of the school for many years. Although dangerous, it can be preserved for a long time, which shows that it is necessary and meaningful for children of your age. This is an impossible project in middle schools in China. Since we have traveled across the ocean to study far away from our parents and relatives, it is to be able to receive the education of others in all directions. Education is not only the study of cultural knowledge, but also the cultivation of independent thinking, courage to challenge and teamwork, which is lacking in domestic education.
Second: Any kind of experience can enrich your life experience. After experience, you can have the right to speak. I'm sure your sisters have all heard the horror descriptions of her sisters, but they went bravely, so they will have the capital to show off to you. You have never participated in such activities, so you have no experience in this field. The organization of this school gives you an opportunity to challenge and improve yourself, and it is also a strong proof that you dare to improve and challenge yourself in future school applications.
Third: you have never been a weak person. Each of you came to Singapore after careful selection. What they care about is not only your academic performance, but also your ability. As you said, every People's Republic of China (PRC) is not a fuel-efficient lamp, including you. When you were very young, you liked challenges. From kindergarten to primary school to middle school, you are strong in all aspects of your classmates. Now, as a PRC, we should actively show our abilities in all directions, and don't let the teachers who choose you and those locals look down on us, let alone let your junior high school classmates change their views on you. Baby, giving up easily is not your character. You used to be good, but now you are better. Mom and dad firmly believe this.
Fourth: fear is like a curse, which can slowly imprison your life. Everyone is afraid of things they have never experienced, because they are unfamiliar. After experiencing them, you will find that it's actually no big deal. If you give up this opportunity at the instigation of others and encounter similar things in the future, you will habitually continue to choose to give up and choose to escape. Fear of this activity will gradually narrow your life path like the Monkey King's hoop. Baby, if you can overcome it bravely this time, you will find that the horror and nausea you imagined beforehand are not serious enough to hinder your progress. On the contrary, it will make us fearless, and the future world will become broader and brighter in front of us. Think about it: after such a horrible and disgusting thing, what else can I not do?
Here, my mother tells me about my donkey trip experience: the first time I went to a long-distance donkey trip with Aunt Chen, I was also uneasy and worried about many things. But I keep telling myself: I have only experienced it once before I can decide whether to give up in the future. So, I went boldly, and there was a trend I couldn't accept. Mom couldn't attend before because she had to take care of you. From then on, my mother will become a "wild donkey" again. If my mother had chosen to give up, I wouldn't have experienced so many hardships of the journey: cold, heavy rain, hunger, drowsiness and fatigue, but at the same time, my mother couldn't appreciate Wan Xianshan in the heavy rain and Guo Liang Highway on the cliffs? You can't see the sea of clouds after the rain in Huangshan, and you can't see the rape blossoms all over the mountain?
Dear daughter, mother has a lot of work at hand, but in her heart, telling your mother what she thinks is an overwhelming and important job. In fact, mom still has a lot to say to you, but as smart as you are, she will make the right decision by herself. On the way of growing up, we will encounter many choices, but there is one thing we must do: I can do what others can do.
I hope you will always be healthy, brave and strong.
mother
Letter from mother to daughter 2
Sweet:
Sorry, my mother was very angry with you because your homework was delayed to 12 that day. At that time, I was thinking: Why is my daughter who used to be so proud of me so procrastinating now? Watching the children in the group progress, you are getting worse and worse. I can't help worrying!
Now that I think about it, it should be "what to do." I analyzed it carefully for three reasons: first, there was indeed a lot of homework that day. Second, because my mother was busy with work all day and didn't cultivate your good study habits, I didn't remind you in time when I was not focused on my homework. Third, my mother is too impatient to magnify one of your shortcomings infinitely.
At this moment, I remembered my mother who was walking with snails. I really shouldn't be so angry with you. I'm sorry, sweets, please accept my mother's sincere apology!
I remember a mother said: Educate children to encourage, demonstrate, let go and wait. Encouragement is promotion, demonstration is guidance, letting go is to let children grow up, and waiting is to give children time to grow up.
My mother will study hard in the group and learn more wisdom from her mothers. We will make progress together, thank you for growing up with her!
This is the first time your mother has written to you since you grew up!
First of all, mom wants to thank you for the happiness and happiness you have brought us since you came to our home. With you, your father and I can experience unprecedented happiness. As long as we can see you every day, our hearts will be full of happiness.
You are a very wise and clever boy. You have many advantages, but your mother is not good at expressing it at ordinary times and doesn't say it. Because mom is a traditional, stuffy, strong person with no sense of humor, she may hurt your young heart unconsciously. In the process of growing up with you, my mother always talks about your shortcomings and never talks about your strengths. Let me express it through this letter today.
You are a very sensible and filial daughter, and you will think of your parents and family if there is anything good. At ordinary times, I also care about my parents and considerate my grandparents. You are a very kind and fair little girl. Your kindness makes your inner world so pure and beautiful that your mother is often moved and infected by your kindness.
You are a sunny little girl. This makes everyone who meets you like you so much. You are the pride of mom and dad. You are the happy fruit of mom and dad, and you know how to make the family atmosphere happier. This is where mom must learn from you. When your mother is in the lowest mood, at the age of seven, you draw a happy smiling face every day, which says, "Mom, did you laugh today?" : "Mom, I love you!" "Mom, remember to smile!" Put it quietly in mom's bag. Every time my mother accidentally sees it, she will be surprised!
Once you did badly in the exam, and you cried sadly. In fact, your grades only test your mastery of knowledge for a period of time, and they do not represent your ability, let alone your future. Failure is the mother of success, in fact, the process of growth needs to taste setbacks. In fact, the exam is to test an attitude and seriousness towards learning. As long as you do every homework carefully and complete every task assigned by the teacher, "what you know is what you know, and what you don't know is what you don't know", you can learn it in time.
Another point is that today's work must be completed today, and it can't be put off until tomorrow, because over time, many a mickle makes a mickle, and eventually there will be many places that are not mastered. Finally, I want to say that you must pay attention to the wrong questions in your homework or exam. The wrong questions can reflect which questions you have not mastered well, so you must correct them in time before doing your homework every time.
Your mother has been thinking about your education since you were born. How can I become a strong and independent person with a strong inner world? In this way, when you grow up and face the complex society alone, you can cope with it calmly.
Mom spent a long time choosing Chinese classics for you. Just now, Rainbow just said that there is a subject, not a burden, but an improvement in understanding and speed of other subjects. That theme is classic.
There was also a time when you were a little slack in reading classics. You asked me, "Mom, is it really that good to read classics?" I've been telling you. I'll tell you later. Just listen to your mother and stick to it. So today my mother tells you why we should advocate reading classics and encourage reading the most valuable books. Because classics are the crystallization of the wisdom of our ancestors for thousands of years, which can be passed down forever.
Human life is limited. By reading some valuable books, we can explore the origin of human nature more directly, absorb the wisdom of life more easily, and stand on the shoulders of giants to enlighten our rationality more quickly. In this way, we can get twice the result with half the effort by absorbing the applied and professional knowledge to be learned in the future, broaden our horizons and have a broad mind, and make more comprehensive and reasonable plans and arrangements for various activities in our lives. This is what the ancients called "knowledge", which is what we call "cultural education" today. Apart from reading classics, I'm afraid there is no practical way to inspire reason, broaden one's horizons and cultivate one's temperament. So, how to read classics? Yuan, pleasure, interest and chastity are very important.
Metaphysics is the beginning of everything, and the beginning of things is like having a good way to start reading classics;
Constant is development. We make progress bit by bit in our continuous learning and improve our ability. The benefit is not only self-interest, but more importantly, we read the classics to make more families contact and benefit more families. Families reading more classics are naturally beneficial to society.
Jane, we need to stick to it for half an hour every day. As long as I insist, others will give me 10% and others will give me one thousandth. This is my road to success, a sunny and classic road!
Life is like a marathon. The key to victory is not a sudden outbreak, but a silent persistence. Even if there are a thousand reasons to give up, find yourself a reason to stick to it. Many times, success means sticking to it for one more minute. If you don't give up for one minute, there will be hope for the next. Therefore, no matter how hard and tired you are, as long as you keep going, the beautiful scenery that belongs to you will eventually appear!
So in the future life, I hope you can record your feelings with notes. It doesn't matter whether it's written well or not. As long as you are sunny, healthy, strong, independent and have your own thoughts! This is a beautiful demonstration! We should be proud of you.
Now that you have grown up, you have your own thoughts and secrets. Your mother respects you. As long as you are happy, she will support you. Sweetheart, remember: No matter when your study is good or bad, no matter what happens, my mother will always love you unconditionally. Now and in the future, her arms will always be open for you.
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Letter from mother to daughter 3
Dear children:
Hello!
Rain, so lingering in June, makes the summer, which should be unbearable, much cooler. This is also a good time for you to study quietly.
There are only a few short days left in a semester, and mother has written you nearly twenty letters. I always think that writing letters is a good mode, which can convey my thoughts more clearly than writing or telephone, and letters can be kept for a long time and revisited constantly. I found that you put about 80 letters written by your mother neatly under your desk. Every year before the start of the new semester, you should take them out and reread them one by one, and write back to your mother solemnly. Every time I write back, my mother cherishes it and often reads it many times. Do you think these letters are so precious? Although today is the era of e-mail and telephone, it is a very good channel to convey some thoughtful ideas by writing letters, so that we can leave precious memories together. Every year, we compile our letters into a book. This summer vacation, we will edit your fourth collection since you entered junior high school. These books at home are our treasures! Don't you think so, boy?
Looking back on the second day of junior high school, it is still quite turbulent for you. First of all, in the last period of the second day of junior high school, I studied hard and got the best grades. When I entered the first half of the second year of junior high school, my state fluctuated, my attention deviated in class, my study diligence was slack, and I failed the exam in the first half of the semester, which was very sad. Yes, you envy others' high scores of more than 500 points; Appreciate the great progress made by others in a down-to-earth manner; Regret that you have fallen into the trough, and even wonder if you really can't learn well. After learning from a painful experience, you should reflect and summarize in time and make adjustments quickly. Children, people who have made great achievements through the ages, are all people who have retreated from the abyss and formed nets. If Columbus is just a "fish in the forest", how can he have the feat of discovering the new continent without breaking the wind and waves and sailing? If Copernicus was just a "fish in the forest" and didn't take pains to observe and innovate, how could he write the masterpiece "On the Operation of Celestial Bodies"? If it's just a "fish in the forest" instead of opening the Silk Road, how can money connect the western regions with that handsome saddle horse? If it's just a "fish in the forest" and it doesn't open up sea routes, how can Jian Zhen have water romance in the East China Sea? Here, my mother has to say that you are "the one who backed away from the net in the face of the abyss". Half a year has passed, and you are still studying quietly, as quiet as a sponge absorbing water. Teacher Han praised you in front of her mother more than once, saying that you have a good figure. I hope you will keep it up! So far, you can proudly say, "I did it!" " "Boy, your good state will bring you good results. Recently, you scored 147 in the math test, ranking second in the class; 97 points in physics, the first in the class; 95 points in English, third in the class. No wonder today, after Mr. Han asked about your recent exam, he repeatedly praised you for being very good, very good! You once said to your mother, "This is my proper learning state, and this kind of achievement is my real level!" " "You see, it's you too. There is still a big difference between being serious and not being serious. It's still very different to work hard or not, isn't it? Sometimes, we really can't help admiring our lives. You see, a summer lotus that grows out of the sludge actually blooms as white and pure as snow; A thin black firefly can shine like a star in the boundless darkness. A small grass blooms like the ocean blue; A humble bird can serenade the violin on the branch; A soft boneless earthworm can swim freely in solid soil like a fish in the sea. Everything in nature has such great creativity. As the spirit of all things, do we also have unlimited potential? When my mother was in middle school, the first grade was the countdown of the class, and she started climbing in the second grade. By the third grade, she was already the elite of the class. Facts have proved that as long as we have a goal in mind and adjust our learning state, it is difficult for us to be excellent.
This week, my mother's last graduate came to her alma mater to visit her teacher after the senior high school entrance examination. After communicating with them, I have a lot to share with you. First of all, talk about physical examination. My mother's students summed up a word "practice". They are all masters of full marks in physical examination. Therefore, the experience is worth learning. They said, "In the third grade, teachers will give students special training. If you are not afraid of hardship, complete the exercise according to the teacher's requirements, and it is not a problem to get full marks in the physical examination when you graduate. " You had a mock physical examination on Wednesday, and 1 minute skipped 175, which was almost out of full mark 185. What excites you most is that you threw a solid ball. Other girls usually throw 2-3 meters, and you throw more than 6 meters at a time, which surprises you. Mom also joked with you: "It seems that the exercise of letting you move things from an early age is quite useful!" " Standing long jump, you jump out 1.85 meters. It is said that 2 meters is a perfect score. Hehe, it seems that all three events have to tap their potential! However, the foundation is still good. Mom is very confident about your physical examination in the third day of next year. You also said ambitiously, "I must get 50 points!" " "Indeed, it is not enough to talk without practice. Now, if you are not lazy in practice and summer vacation, plus the surprise of grade three, it should be no problem. Boy, all we have to do is act now! Secondly, talk about learning. According to my mother's students, there will be more homework in grade three, so we should be mentally prepared and do it quickly. They call it "brushing questions". It means not only doing more problems but also being efficient. In addition, don't underestimate the study of politics and history. The senior high school entrance examination accounts for 100. Their experience is to take notes carefully in class, pay attention to combing the knowledge structure, and have the ability to solve practical problems in combination with real life. Regarding the study of Chinese, they talked about the importance of reading extra-curricular books, including magazines and newspapers, especially reading more short stories. For example, during an exam, you read an article in Reader magazine: Blade in the Fog. You did a great job in reading that time. After the exam, you said, "I happened to see this article in the reader, and I was quite relieved when I did it." "Mom also has a suggestion. In daily reading, some short articles and fragments should be deliberately memorized, sometimes not necessarily the original sentence, but the general meaning should be recorded and expressed in your own words. In short, you should accumulate more and use more to help yourself achieve better results.
In a few days, the final exam of Grade Two will come. For you, this exam is of great significance and a basic stereotype of yourself. Remember your goal? This is a commitment to yourself and a responsibility! Children, commitment is not a piece of white clouds in the blue sky, carefree; Commitment is not duckweed on the water, floating around endlessly; Commitment is not a bunch of epiphyllum in the dark, it is fleeting; Commitment is not dew on the grass tip in the morning, it is bright and short-lived. Commitment is like a pearl, its crystal is the price of mussels' pain and the glory of mussels; Commitment is like a bee, its sweetness is the crystallization of efforts and the pride of bees; Commitment is like a meteor, its brilliance is the contribution of the hit meteorite and the brilliance of the meteorite; Commitment is like gold, its brilliance is the value of hard work and the happiness of gold diggers. I hope you can realize your dreams with practical actions and get the glory you deserve!
Finally, I will tell you two simple Chinese characters and see what they mean. "Up" and "Down" just because they pursue different directions determine the level of life. Everyone is choosing their own direction in life, boy, where are you going?
Wish: calm down and prepare for the exam!
Love your mother forever.
Letter from mother to daughter 4
More and more, my dearest daughter:
After attending the parent salon, my mother's mood can't be calm for a long time. In three months, you will be 14 years old. My mother has never talked to you so seriously.
On the drive home, I recalled the parents who talked about their children in the parent class and thought you were really excellent. You have so many advantages, such as setting goals early. Beijing Normal University is like an excellent seed, buried in your vibrant soil. As long as you take care of it diligently and give it proper light, rain and fertilizer, my mother believes that the seed will sprout and turn green, grow sturdily, bloom beautiful flowers and bear fruitful fruits. For example, your super receptive ability, new songs, new stars, new movies and new actors can be accepted quickly, which shows that you have a wide range of hobbies, are fashionable and avant-garde, and are not a nerd. For example, your fast and rich reading experience, reading is an invisible spiritual force. You can't live without friends. Of all the friends, two are the most indispensable. A friend is yourself, your inner higher self. Everyone has a higher self, but it is often asleep. You should wake it up. In order to make this higher self rich and powerful, you must also have another friend, that is, those good books, those great souls who live in good books. Fortunately, you have already felt the harvest and pleasure brought by reading, and my mother also bought some foreign literary works. Reading them will benefit you even more, both in vision and cultivation.
The software "Countdown to Life" scared me. It's only 1400 days since you left your parents when you were admitted to college. On this day, apart from your time at school and sleeping, I'm afraid there are only a few minutes to enjoy your parents' fun with you. How short! What's more, after entering the third grade, your courses are full, with 10 classes every day, leaving early and returning late, and your homework is heavy. My mother is worried that you can't eat enough and sleep, and your thin body can't cope with the burden of study, but you can do your homework and experiment happily, sleep late every day and get up on time. Looking at your dark circles, my mother has unspeakable heartache! Faced with the unchangeable exam-oriented education, my mother can do nothing at all. I hope you are not too tired. I hope you can learn something. Mom is always so contradictory, happy and sad behind your back, trying to get back the hug but afraid to say anything, just watching you grow up silently. You must remember your mother's staring at you in a daze. You asked me what happened, and I lamented that you had grown so big that you were taller than me accidentally. Where has all the time gone? Especially during the months when my mother went to study in Inner University, I missed you very much and cherished every minute with you.
Since growth is the inevitable law and learning is the inevitable way out, let's face it bravely and actively meet all challenges. As long as you want to fly, sharpen your wings and practice your flying skills repeatedly! Don't be afraid of being tired and suffering. Only by practicing your wings can you fly as high as you want. Whether it is the clear sky in Wan Li or the thunder and lightning, you can fight freely in the sky and fly high and steadily! My baby, a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Our ideal is a mountain peak, which needs you to conquer step by step with sweat and endurance. How many people give up halfway, and how many people look at the ideal peak in vain. My mother wants you to be the one who made it to the top. My mother is willing to supplement the nutrition and spiritual encouragement of your life behind you. Mom will cheer for you all the way and never give up!
Dear daughter, watching you grow up day by day, your youthful vitality gradually appears on you, and your mother envies you. It is good to have your own circle of friends. Good friends grow with you all the way. You will make different friends at all stages of your life, so you have to make a choice. People who are positive, sunny, optimistic and wise will make you happy and benefit, while people who worry about themselves and haggle over every ounce will make you suffer, refuse to keep negative energy away from "garbage people", make friends your help instead of resistance, and make friends your partners through thick and thin instead of indulging in shackles. This is your mother's suggestion. In adolescence, there are still some sensitive topics in the communication between boys and girls. I know that in your emotional world, there will be some outstanding boys who will impress you, and your outstanding performance will also attract the attention of boys. If you like others, it means that you have your own aesthetics and judgment. If others like you, it means that your daughter has a bright spot to attract others' attention. The more you go, the more mature your mind will be, and your mother won't tell you those big truths. The theoretical sentences in the ideological and moral class are irrefutable, and I believe you will grasp them well. Some emotions are buried in my heart, silently happy or faintly sad. The huge palm of time will gently erase everything and become clear. Only when girls are self-respecting and self-reliant can they have true friendship and love. What flowers bloom in what season, life has its own rules. Mothers expect their daughters' friendship flowers to bloom undefeated, and love flowers to bloom as scheduled in the most beautiful season of life.
Mom is more and more grateful to you for coming into this world to be my daughter, which makes me feel the happiness of being a mother. Although there will be some complaints from time to time, if I hurt your young heart, my mother says sorry to you. But mom really loves you, there is no doubt about it. What your father and I want most is to see you grow up healthily. The happiest thing is to see your smiling face every day. The happiest thing is that you shout "Dad-Mom-"sweetly. The most fulfilling thing is that the teacher posted the news that you won the prize in the group. Every award of yours is no less than the Nobel Prize of our family!
Life itself is a book, and we need to read it carefully and study hard. In order not to fall behind her daughter, her mother will study all her life. During my study in Inner Mongolia University, I devoted all my thoughts to your study. Every night, I wonder why people have to study thousands of miles in middle age. The pain of mother-daughter separation forced me not to waste time, so I soaked myself in the library to study hard and take notes. I hope I can live up to my ideals and miss my family. My mother has a deep understanding of this research: the university is really a good place. It is a kind of spiritual enjoyment to be admitted to an ideal university and listen to lectures by famous teachers. Daughter, the scenery in front is really beautiful!
Mother will also strengthen the study of cooking, and strive to improve food and standards, so that her daughter has enough physical strength and energy to study, exercise and fly!
Love your mother.
A letter from mother to daughter.
Dear daughter:
Hello!
Are you tired from military training these two days? But it should be interesting. There are so many classmates and instructors. When they encounter many unexpected situations, they will also encounter interesting things and exercise themselves. In short, they will gain something.
Life is like this step by step. Once upon a time, you were a child and suddenly grew up.
I didn't do well in the senior high school entrance examination, and I also reflected on myself. Maybe I asked you in such a hurry that you felt breathless. I know you have ambitions, and you are sad that you didn't do well in the exam. However, the playfulness of nature cannot be removed for the time being. There are so many new things coming to you, but you are at a loss and inevitably distracted. It's normal. Everyone goes through it. Failure in the exam is temporary. As long as you work hard, you can still gain something.
When I grow up, I know a lot, but I haven't understood it yet. For example, "young people don't work hard, and old people are sad". Understanding really depends on yourself.
The world is wider and more difficult for you now. Take you to Europe, and you will understand its broad meaning. But it's harder. I'm afraid you still don't understand. What is more difficult is that in this beautiful world, there are more and more things and the differences are getting bigger and bigger. If you are excellent, you want more things and there are many people competing with you. If you want them, you must make more efforts.
My mother loves you, so she is willing to provide you with as many conditions as possible. I hope you can live a free and happy life like your mother and live a better life than your mother through education and ability. Mom won't buy you anything because she doesn't want you to spend money indiscriminately. If it is what you need in your study and life, when has your mother never promised you?
Losing weight is very important, especially for girls. But don't mess around and don't hurt your health. Snacks, sugary drinks, etc. Are harmful to health, and beautiful sisters don't eat them. Eat regularly, but don't be too full. In addition, exercise is essential, not to mention exercise, and it is also possible to find an activity that consumes physical strength.
It is human nature to play, and adults love to play, but we should correctly handle the relationship between fun and study, just as adults should also handle the relationship between work. Playing is as efficient as learning. Play with high efficiency and can relieve addiction for a long time. The same is true of learning. If we emphasize efficiency and complete the assigned tasks in the shortest possible time, we will save time. In fact, anything is fun as long as you are interested. Reading novels is fun, writing is fun, memorizing words is fun, and doing math problems is fun. Mother is very interested in doing math problems. She can solve a difficult problem and feel indescribably comfortable. I don't know if you feel this way.
Well, I said a lot, and I don't know if you like it or not. In a word, you are our child. No matter how old you grow up, we will always love you. Wish you all the best. As long as you are on the road to progress, your mother will always support you!
Love your mother.
The above is collected by Bian Xiao, and I hope it will help you.