And how lucky you are to meet the right person. For example, Korean actress Choo Ja Hyun married Ethan, who is two years younger than her.
Zhihu once had a heated discussion: Which is more terrible for a woman to marry the wrong person or not to marry?
Straight men jump up and down to argue about how terrible it is to support women not to get married, and even come up with many theories such as yin-yang harmony and endocrine disorders to prove that women should get married and have children.
Most women choose the former: no matter how hard you work and how excellent you are before marriage, once you marry the wrong person, everything you had in the first twenty or thirty years will be destroyed.
Xiaoru and Xiaorong are girlfriends of the same age. Xiaoru literature and art, love reading, love affairs. I have been in sweet love with my boyfriend for three years and got a marriage certificate, but my boyfriend's family changed and lived together for one year without a wedding. As a result, Xiaoru was taken for examination by her husband's family with ulterior motives because she was never pregnant. After Xiaoru's report came out, the doctor made it clear that she had almost no possibility of being a mother. Boyfriend gave up Xiaoru without nostalgia under the threat of her mother.
They broke up. From then on, Xiaoru decided to work hard, study hard in her spare time, take all kinds of certificates, travel and keep fit, just to become a better person. Xiaoru spent ten years in the empty window. Even though there were many suitors, she didn't start any relationship easily and was in no hurry to settle down.
Finally, at the age of 36, she met the only thrill, a divorced man who also experienced years of precipitation. He is knowledgeable and gentle, and his most important interests are the same.
On the wedding day, Xiaoru said: If you don't meet the right person, you'd rather be alone all your life than start a marriage casually.
Only an unsuccessful marriage can be truly happy. Because the cost of marrying the wrong person is really higher than not marrying too much for a lifetime.
Xiao Rong's story, after graduating from her university, has just set foot on the society. She is optimistic and positive, and full of passion for the job she likes. When I came back from a long trip, it was already one o'clock in the morning when I got off the train. Xiao Rong, who was too tired, fell asleep in the taxi. When I got off the bus, I paid the money in a daze and left my wallet in the car. After several twists and turns, I found my wallet and was chased by a car rental driver as a girlfriend for no reason.
None of my relatives and friends like this boyfriend. Economic ability is not the main problem, lazy, drinking and playing cards. But Xiao Rong, who was careless, overcame all difficulties and married him. After marriage, he showed his true colors, not only gambling, but also drinking and domestic violence. Because the man was gambling outside, he turned off his cell phone for fear that Xiaorong would disturb him. Xiaorong was pregnant with twins first, but she miscarried because of poor care. After that, he gave birth to a son, and even the men in the month yelled at him and waited on him.
After the marriage, Xiaorong never had the high spirits at the beginning of his work, his grades plummeted, and he was unkempt and mentally haggard all day. So ten years later, I was diagnosed with cancer on the eve of my 36th birthday. When she got the report of collapse, the man was still bragging on the wine table.
If a woman marries the wrong person, it will ruin her half life, if not her whole life.
Unmarried women must open their eyes to see the Chu people remarry before they get married, because it is easier to hold your hand than to grow old with your son. Someone casually said this sentence, but only achieved the first four words.
Women should always marry love and personality, not houses and cars. Don't get married hastily because of face. Because marrying the wrong person is more terrible than not marrying 10000 times!