Many times, people's pain is not in the body, but in the deepest part of their hearts.
Last night, my friends had dinner and drank some wine. Gentlemen have nothing to gossip about, they all know the root of the matter, so don't brag. All the troubles in their lives evaporated with the strength of the wine, and then they broke up. They went home to find their mother. Sometimes men drink this. When I say men, I don't include boys who are wet behind the ears. You may fight in bars, drive fast and make trouble everywhere after drinking. These uncles have always been obedient to life and reality. Those frivolous things can be stories to us, but they are definitely not now. Take a taxi home even if you are drunk, because there is no one behind, and the responsibility lies with yourself.
The world is not pure land, and each has its own sufferings. Some bitterness can be sprinkled on the wine table, and some can only be kept in my heart. Have you ever seen several big men crying in the street? If there is, it will be the most tragic and heartbreaking voice in the world.
Tired life does not boast a person's body, but it can hurt a heart. You can rest when you are tired, but you can only bear it silently when you are tired.
Hard work is physical exhaustion, and painstaking work is psychological exhaustion and pain. You can fall asleep when you are tired and wake up on a sunny day. But when your heart is tired and you can't sleep at night, open your eyes until dawn, because your heart never sleeps. If you are trapped, you will feel uncomfortable; When you are sleepy, you are bitter, just like an invisible prison. There is no shackles, no exit, but there is nowhere to escape.
You can resist when you are tired. If you have to quit, take a rest and recharge your batteries. When you are tired, you don't know how to control yourself. As the days passed, the burden in my heart increased day by day. Over time, there are too many words in your heart, but there are some feelings, that is, you can't say for sure. Sometimes you find yourself a little sad.
Some pain, how can not let go of forgetting; My grievances and setbacks are deeply imprinted in my mind. I want to talk occasionally, but I don't know who I can talk to. People will gradually become silent. In the past, a talkative person gradually became silent. At first he couldn't say anything because of the pain, and no one said anything about it. Later, even if someone listened, he didn't want to talk.
In fact, the most desperate thing is not fatigue, but that no one understands; The most frustrating thing is not giving, but not getting a response; Most people don't want much, just an understanding look, a hard hug, a positive word, or even a word of no blame, which is enough to get through the confusion again and again.
No matter how tired and competent you are, you will be tired after a long time. No matter how indifferent you are, there is a soft corner in your heart. There is no sunshine in the dark, and there is a place in everyone's heart that the sun can't shine.
We are all eager for warmth, but we are afraid of being hurt, so we slowly learn to hide, know how to disguise, and erect a solid wall before others approach. This is a hotbed of demons.
Man, a strange animal, is a contradictory synthesis, often in the confusion of hesitation and longing, caught in a one-way street of expectation and resistance, not far away but unable to turn back;
Perhaps, we are not as strong and invincible as we seem, but reality tells us that we cannot be weak. In the past, when I couldn't hold on, I would choose not to open an umbrella and release my demons when it rained heavily. Even if someone hears my howling and shouting, I will never see the tears on my face. When the rain stops, I will smile and recover.
There is only one heart, and it can't hold too many things. If you are really tired, occasionally give yourself a weak opportunity.
Find a cool place to live for your mood, leave the good in your heart and the painful behind. Learn to let go and spend time with yourself.