Insist on exercise (walking, table tennis, cycling) during pregnancy, and gain weight after giving birth 18kg. But the legendary case of 107kg lost weight after giving birth is not obvious to me, and there is still 107kg after giving birth. I use fake (real) months to wash my hair and take a bath, eat whatever fruits and vegetables I want, and wear short-sleeved skirts. On the day when Yuezi was born, I didn't want to eat hot pot happily. Even I don't like spicy food. I just want a family of three to go out together for the first time. When going out, I carry a specially bought backpack in front, and my husband is holding the baby in the back. We went to a supermarket not far away. It turns out that the most ordinary warmth in the world can only be appreciated when you are around. It is more beautiful than mountains, rivers and the sea. Who said that a woman touched rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea and stepped into the grave of marriage? Actually, it is not. Family integrity will only make you more responsible, responsible and cherished. This kind of self is very good, and I can love that little person again. In times of trouble, there is nature, nature and love.
Having a baby is a good thing for me to forget the pain. When I saw a big belly in the street one day, I couldn't remember how I felt when I was that big not long ago, nor what my contractions looked like when I gave birth to a baby. All I know is that this is the most painful thing for me in 26 years. But giving birth to her is actually more insignificant than raising her.
Because I didn't go to work during pregnancy, I had a lot of time. Among all kinds of parenting classics, firstly, we recommend the encyclopedia of breastfeeding about rations, secondly, we can prepare the encyclopedia of Sears' intimate parenting about daily care, and recommend Heidi's pregnancy encyclopedia to expectant mothers.
My husband and I communicate with each other whenever we watch it, so we have always maintained a United front of feeding. I didn't prepare any milk powder, and the bottle sent by my relatives was specially hidden. I also began to feed clumsily on the delivery bed, seizing the golden time to start milk. The baby was crying when the doctor made rounds. She roughly pinched my chest a few times and said you didn't have milk. Go and buy some milk powder for her. After she left, the baby continued to suck hard. My husband and I ignored the doctor. She knows fertility best, but not necessarily breast milk. Just like natural childbirth, the road of exclusive breastfeeding should have firm confidence and a certain reserve of scientific knowledge, otherwise it will give up halfway, even before it starts, waiting to be framed by the old routine, endlessly confused and unable to refute when breastfeeding.
Half a month before my husband went to work after giving birth, I took care of the baby at home during the day. The hardest thing is not shoveling shit, but cooking. Halfway through the cooking, turn off the fire and give her a hug. Baby grandma came from Chengdu these days, and the rhythm slowed down. When she goes back next month, I will return to my former state.
There is nothing to be afraid of, because being a mother is just right.
Spring water is born, spring forest is in full bloom, and spring breeze is ten miles behind you-my baby.
I wish I could look back and grow old with deep affection-my husband.