17 years old, adolescence, they are always thinking about something and have some unique ideas and hobbies, which is normal.
There may be many reasons for liking BL. I don't think you have tried to understand why your daughter likes BL. But as soon as I found out about it, I was shocked There is no communication with the children at all. I think this is wrong. I took the learning machine without thinking. This will only intensify the contradiction between you. You have to find out what she thinks, and the two sides can only solve this problem with an equal attitude. Moreover, individuals extremely despise the concept of the first floor, and the problems that can be solved at home can only become "military repression" once they encounter teachers, which will cause children to feel more strongly disgusted!
In addition, as a hobby, you don't have to worry about what's wrong with her liking BL. Nowadays, many children pay attention to and even like BL for various reasons. They are called rotten women and gay men, which is just a general trend. In addition, more and more people understand and pay attention to GAY, a special group. I believe that in the near future, people will have a clear mind and everyone will accept it.
17 years old, still in a rebellious period, parents blindly instill their own ideas, which will only make children more disgusted. Aside from this matter, parents should not always think that what they don't accept is wrong. It can be said that this idea is very stupid. Because, at the age of parents, it is difficult to accept some new concepts and cultures. But children, they are exposed to a brand-new world that keeps pace with the times. They know how to innovate and tolerate new ideas, which is in great contrast with their parents. Over time, there is a gap between children and parents.
Besides, I think it is shameful for you to peek at your daughter's diary. This really involves people's privacy. Whether you are her guardian or not, you have no right to violate her human rights. It is immoral to say that it is small, and it is a crime to say that it is big. Don't do this in the future. If the child knows, it will cause many contradictions.
Finally, I really want to tell the landlord to pay attention to his identity image (nickname problem) in public! With a daughter of 17 years old, you must be 40 years old. Don't be too frivolous!