The most important thing is to make everyone feel that you are not carrying goods, but a very kind sister, or a colleague, or an elder, chatting and introducing your experience, or a good show 1 place for everyone to listen to, which is the most affinity.

Affinity is a Chinese character, and the pinyin is qιn héLi, which means the power to make people close and willing to communicate.

Affinity was originally a concept belonging to the field of chemistry, which refers to the correlation between one atom and another, but it is increasingly used in the field of interpersonal relationships. A friendly expression from one person to another usually describes that this person has affinity.

There is a saying: strength is gathered and strength is scattered! The two sides with affinity are the two sides with equal strength. This kind of friendly expression makes the two sides cooperate, with a sense of cooperation and inclination, and the power to work with * * *. Affinity is the reason for cooperation. With the intention of cooperation, the two sides will combine and cooperate.

Get to know yourself:

The most difficult thing in life is to know yourself. Only by knowing yourself deeply can we have a basis for understanding others. Therefore, knowing yourself well first is the cornerstone of truly having good interpersonal affinity. In the process of growing up, everyone has some wounds and problems. Maybe they will feel inferior, arrogant or self-centered in childhood.

Or suffered from various mental trauma, the existence of these problems will affect good interpersonal affinity in adulthood. Self-reflection is the beginning of understanding yourself deeply and not letting the shadow of childhood affect interpersonal communication.