After the yoga instructor's class last week, my classmate Xinxin excitedly invited me to watch her dance Latin. Cha-cha, rumba, she has mastered all kinds of dances with different dynamics.
Dressed in Latin clothes, when the music started, she threw herself into it, looking noble and sexy. Watching the video recording, I cried for a moment when I recorded rumba. To say why I was moved, I was probably shocked by the way she danced with me. I feel such a big difference among my peers in my circle of friends. A friend commented, "I really envy her for dancing so well." Actually, me too.
Xinxin is a very gentle and generous girl. Because we are the same age in the same school, we can get along well in yoga class. She said that she studied Latin dance since she was a child and persisted for ten years. Now she takes advantage of weekends to attend Latin dance classes in two dance halls. But these two dance halls are located in different counties, so every weekend, I have to get up early and take a bus for two or three hours to go to the dance hall in the county, wear seven centimeters of Latin shoes for a day, deal with various problems of students, and then come back by car before the dormitory closes at night. Once and for all, the fare alone accounts for a small part of the substitute fee, and eating is particularly irregular. Every time I come back, I am exhausted, my legs are sore and my feet are swollen.
While listening to this, I am tired of her. I don't understand why I should do this to myself. She carefully arranged her hair in front of the mirror and said, "Because I like Latin dancing, I enjoy dancing when I put on my dancing shoes, so I am willing to dance no matter how tired I am." The tone is still gentle, but it is certain.
Next month, she will go to Zhengzhou to take the national Latin dance teacher qualification examination. When she told the news, she still seemed so gentle and calm, but only those who know her can know that she spent a period of practice in gnashing her teeth.
There will always be such a person around us, who knows exactly what he likes and wants, so no matter how tired or bitter he is, he will persist and eventually become what he wants.
I envy such people, because the way they insist on doing something seriously is really cool and dazzling.
-02-
Since when do we just sit on the side of the road and applaud others? When did we start saying, "If only I were half as good as him"?
We do something mostly out of interest, and rarely can we stick to it all the time. Just like when I first entered college, I planned to run and punch in every night to lose weight. A few weeks ago, I really wanted to punch in, but suddenly one day there was a lot of homework, so I hesitated to run. Looking at a lot of homework, I thought of my panting pain when running, so I comforted myself and thought that I wouldn't gain a lot of meat if I didn't run for a day anyway. In this way, I compromised. With the first time, there will be a second time. Later, there were ridiculous but convincing reasons such as cold weather and bad mood. Over time, there is no punching in every day and no playground at night. When a friend asks, he is always too busy to answer. As for what he is busy with, he is probably busy coming back to brush variety shows every night.
Do you have the feeling that you are busy every day, but you can't tell what you are busy with. There is no plan, no deadline, and every day you are busy and empty, with no sense of accomplishment and happiness?
I agreed to review CET-4, but after memorizing the words for a few weeks, I stopped inexplicably. I agree to do sit-ups and practice vest line every day, but I don't know why it is forgotten. I promised to practice calligraphy every day, probably because I was afraid of being heckled by my friends, and finally gave up.
Just think, if you persist in these things, you should be a great person now.
Perhaps he can already speak fluent spoken English, has a fat-free symmetrical figure, writes charming fine print, and exudes a scholar atmosphere from the inside out. ...
But why has it been planned for so long that it has not been realized for more than ten years? It's not that the goal is too big, but that I'm too lazy to stick to it seriously.
-03-
In her article "You have reached the age of reinventing yourself", Curly Wei 'an mentioned that "many things, prerequisites are very important, but what is more important is the conditions you create for yourself the day after tomorrow. What you look like now is largely shaped by yourself in the past. "
Many friends around me are very self-disciplined and excellent. Some insist on running to participate in marathons, some are keen on photography to take beautiful photos, some insist on dancing because of their love, and some learn tea art at their own expense. Now they are national tea artists.
Perhaps because of the influence of these glittering people around me, I dare not relax myself any more. I gnashed my teeth in the ballroom, practiced posture by reciting words over and over again, tried to teach in public, and was busy with different things every day. So when a child in our department told me, "Senior, I think you are excellent, and your college life is what I imagined," I laughed to myself and felt that I had finally become as enviable as my friends.
I have been very busy recently. I have to be in charge of several things at the same time, which is time-consuming and laborious. I am very tired every day. I can sleep till dawn when I watch my favorite variety films, and I can't help crying for several nights. I have long planned to go out to play with my roommate, but I just can't spare the time. They all have their own opinions. Finally, I cried in the quilt for a long time after I sent Weibo one night, and I did what I should do the next day.
I want to tell you that when you start to insist on doing something, although life has become very ritualized, you will encounter many difficulties, time constraints and the incomprehension of your peers.
I hope you don't give up easily because of external reasons. We all have to go through a period of trying to shut up and not complain, then we can shine, go to cooler places and become cooler people.
? -04-
If you don't know what to do now, let's stick to something in the last 50 days of 20 17:
A get up early every day, eat regularly, go to bed early and smile.
B, insist on reciting words every day
C. Keep reading every day and finish reading a book every week.
D, keep exercising every day, whether it is running or dancing, and put an end to mobile phone diseases.
E, insist on not playing mobile phone in class (work)
Contact your parents and friends once a week.
G, find their own strengths and tap their interests.
If you feel fat, you should stick to exercise to lose weight. If you think you want to take the postgraduate entrance examination, you should bear loneliness and keep reviewing. If you have procrastination, you should put a deadline on your plan. Don't just think, do and persist.
Persistence is a long-term habit, and things that persist are small things. Everything is a process of confrontation with yourself. Maybe you feel bored day after day, but I want to tell you that you don't know how cool and charming you are when you insist on doing something.