Recently, I have often seen some words about how women should treat themselves well. In fact, the ancients have long known this problem.
Anyone who has studied ancient literature knows that in order to understand the origin, category, content and artistic features of Yuefu in the Han Dynasty and its position in the history of China literature, it is necessary to learn a Yuefu poem. It's Shang Mo Sang.
Qin's daughter, Luo Fu, is beautiful, loves life, is hardworking and healthy, and knows how to resist temptation, live high.
Although she is a character in ancient literary works, she definitely comes from life. How should women treat themselves well? From the ancient beauty Luo Fu, we can see an example.
Today, I appreciate this poem again and find that it can be interpreted as follows: What kind of women do men like from ancient times to the present? As a girl, how to treat yourself well.
Be responsible for your appearance.
Look at a girl. It is best if she is graceful and elegant.
If not, besides keeping clean and smiling, pay more attention to study, headdress and dress. "Lie wave bun in the head, the bright moon bead in the ear. Qi is the lower skirt, not the upper skirt. "
Look at Luo Fu, just like that, wearing the most fashionable hairstyle and the most beautiful clothes at that time, giving people a comfortable and beautiful feeling.
In men's eyes, she is a landscape. When Monkey saw Luo Fu, he smoothed his moustache. I saw a young Luo Fu with his hat down. The tiller forgets to plow, and the hoe forgets to hoe. ""Let you come from the south, five horses stumble. "Men from all walks of life like such women.
Many modern parents have restrictions on what adolescent girls wear. Afraid that girls will focus on dressing up will not only attract attention, but also distract attention from learning. The logic of adults is that appearance is not important, but inner beauty is fundamental.
However, many people ignore that part of inner beauty comes from self-confidence in their outer beauty. Dressing up beautifully is also an ability. It is very important to cultivate this ability from an early age. Just like the gentlemanly manners of the British, they are all cultivated from childhood.
Must be diligent and skilled.
Time is the easiest way to get old.
No matter how charming the appearance is, it will be eroded by the years. No matter what age, men always like young and beautiful women.
Then, girls, for our future, we should also develop the habit of diligence and master a skill at the most beautiful age.
Industrious people often work at sunrise and rest at sunset. She will see that everything is thriving, grateful for nature and fearing life. Because her heart is full of sunshine, she will live a good life, beautify the living environment and make people happy.
Look at Luo Fu's basket for picking mulberry leaves. "Moss is the cage and cassia twig is the hook of the cage." Hard-working women are clever and handy, and trinkets can also upgrade the grade of products and make daily life full of emotional appeal.
From the word "good" in Luo Fu's "Good Silkworm and Good Mulberry", we can see that Luo Fu has a skill: he can pick mulberry and raise silkworms, draw silk brocade, become a master, and exchange his labor for beautiful clothes. Hard-working people have the capital to dress themselves up.
Girls are the darling of their parents at home, but others will not always like your parents, tolerate your pampered princess disease, and support people like you who only eat and don't do it. If you can have your own guarantee for a better life and the ability to manage your own life, who can limit your thoughts and steps?
Have the wisdom to refuse temptation.
In the bustling world, there are many invisible traps.
In front of a beautiful and talented woman, there are many traps.
Look at Luo Fu first. When the satrap flirts and seduces, she doesn't envy the status and wealth of "riding five horses". "You are such a fool! To be his wife, Luo Fu has her own husband! " Don't be a mistress, the meaning of refusal is very strict and straightforward.
Then he boasted generously about his husband, who rose to fame when he was young, and now he is distinguished and elegant. There is not a word that offends you, but it makes him feel ashamed and ashamed to say it.
This is a kind of wisdom of Luo Fu. Today's girls should have this kind of wisdom.
Everyone knows that competition is fierce and opportunities are rare. As a result, some directors, big boxes and celebrities seized the idea that some little girls wanted to change their destiny and get ahead, acted with kindness and kindness, and succeeded happily.
There are also girls who are willing to be "lovers". In the eyes of people who laugh at poverty rather than prostitution, they are also considered "successful people" However, their disgraceful history will be an indelible psychological shadow for their parents, families and children.
Be clear about your life plan.
Beautiful women who can resist the temptation have plans for their future.
Some scholars believe that Luo Fu's husband is a real person, and this husband was invented by Luo Fu in order to refuse to let him become a monarch.
I prefer to believe that he is fictional. It can be seen that the clever rover has a life plan.
At least she knows that the husband she will find in the future is a person who loves learning and has pursuits. Through continuous efforts, the ladder of life goes up step by step.
Fifteen government officials, twenty court doctors, thirty courtiers and forty citizens. This is not to say that the eye is superior, but today, for a girl with normal nerves, choosing a good boy is the most normal thing.
A girl who has seen the world and has a long-term vision, if she can know what she wants, she will definitely choose a marriage partner before marriage. She won't choose the wrong person because of blindness or sympathy, wasting her feelings and time.
I often see some reports that girls with good family are in love with boys who can't even take care of themselves. Therefore, they suffer heartbreaking pain in their lives.
There is one that impressed me the most. There is a pregnant girl in the rental house. It would be nice to have steamed bread to eat one day, but she kept it from her mother, and her mother didn't see anything in the video chat with her. When a girl gives birth, she can't afford to go to the hospital. It hurts too much. Her boyfriend took advantage of the night to find a place in the community and dug a hole to bury her. Everyone thinks she is worthless! The regret of a girl's mother can't change her daughter's life.
Girls with life plans are different.
Needless to say, there is such an example around us. I have a colleague's daughter who knew from an early age that she didn't want to live in a closed ravine, so she stayed in Shanghai to buy a house after graduating from college and traveled abroad during the holidays to broaden her horizons. Now living in Germany. Live the life she wants.
I'm not saying that those who have to live in big cities and developed countries are winners in life. I just want to emphasize that she only realized her plan step by step.
We know what kind of women men like, but we don't expect any man to guarantee our happiness.
It has been said that the love between men and women is the most unreliable in life. As girls, we have the ability to be kind to ourselves, so that we can control our own destiny. A quiet life is a full and happy life.
Not to please men, but to practice like Luo Fu, first for your own good!