A good job is better than a good marriage.

There is an old saying that it is better to marry well than to do well!

This sentence is obviously incorrect, but today, girls in the marriage and love market still respect it as a belief.

What is a good marriage?

"Marry well" in the secular sense is often to marry a man with decent work, stable income and rich money, and then climb up, and the ugly duckling becomes a swan and the sparrow becomes a phoenix.

"A woman's family, what's the good of working so hard in business? Better to marry well than to do well. You see that everyone is married to a rich man, which is much more enjoyable than you. "

This kind of words, not only three aunts and six grandmothers in the family will say.

In fact, in the hearts of many girls, they are also looking forward to marrying a handsome and rich man. For example, YeHua, who has recently fallen in love with Mao Mao, can make herself happy without doing well.

Getting something for nothing is a fantasy that accords with human nature. Well done, better than getting married, is simply a chore with half the effort! I also daydream that I won 5 million lottery tickets.

However, even if YeHua loves mr.zhou again, even if Shingu is the prince of skyclan, it can't protect her, because mr.zhou is just a mortal. Only when mortals have become gods and clear autumn female emperors, no one in the world dares to disrespect them.

YeHua loves Su Su, and Tianjun will kill her. Before YeHua loves Bai Qian, Tianmeng will arrange the wedding urgently. From ancient times to the present, from heaven to earth, it is futile to marry well if you just depend on men. If you want to find a lover, love is perfect, and you must be "God". ......

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-Good marriage. Why?

First of all, you have to be good-looking, naturally beautiful and stand out from the crowd. Rich people may be willing to pay for your face. In the marriage and love market, when the girl's face value is the highest and the market demand is the greatest, it will lead to high value and more spectators. Rich people will be happy to do this job, either because they love beauty or because they want to satisfy vanity.

Secondly, the rich generally pay attention to the right door, and the giants generally hook up with the giants. For them, marriage is a transaction, an investment that needs careful consideration, and strong alliance is the best choice.

"The wife should be appropriate, elegant and graceful, and the family should be rich and powerful, so that I don't have to worry about her robbing money, which will also help my career." This sentence was said by a rich second generation young man.

I have a female classmate who just graduated with a romantic proposal, a grand wedding and an early start of a wealthy family. There are many girls around envy, but they can only sigh that this is the so-called "door-to-door", and ordinary girls can do nothing.

This ordinary girl, with the last pass of the Giants in her hand, did a good job.

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-well done, you can get married!

Tell a story.

A Ting, my sister's colleague, was only 18 years old when she first joined this Japanese enterprise. She is a technical secondary school student from the countryside. A thin technical secondary school diploma can only be an ordinary female worker in the company factory.

At the welcome meeting of new colleagues, she was a little drunk and leaned over to chat with her sister: "Sister, believe me, I will get ahead."

Five years later, at the age of 23, she married the general manager of the company partner and became a rich young woman. Her husband dotes on her and envies others.

Colleagues regard her as a model of a good marriage and lament that her ugly duckling has become a swan in five years. But everyone ignored her efforts in the past five years.

Before she came, other colleagues' views on women workers in the workshop were to talk less, not to dress up, and to wear work clothes for four seasons. However, she completely subverted the stereotype of "female workers".

Even wearing simple work clothes, she still pays great attention to the color and style of the clothes she wears, takes good care of her hair every day, keeps the most fashionable hairstyle and makes good-looking makeup. No matter how busy she is in the workshop every day, she always insists on learning dance and practicing yoga after work to make her appearance more competitive every day.

She insists on studying Japanese every day, actively understands the company's business outside the workshop, and is willing to communicate with people. Every time I talk to her, I always feel that my eyes shine.

A year later, she was transferred from the workshop and went to the office as a small clerk; After gritting her teeth for another three years, she was promoted to assistant to the general manager. A Ting especially cherishes this hard-won job. She did it almost perfectly in every detail. She often stays up late and works overtime to establish customer files, and she can accompany the general manager to meet customers the next day.

She knows that she has a low starting point, so she spends 25 hours every day, forcing herself to learn and grow, become more and more beautiful, and become more and more capable of working. Only in this way can she get to know the general manager of her partner and win him successfully because of her extraordinary speech and good looks.

If she doesn't do this, she will still be a workshop worker in five years. When she reached the age, she married a young man in a neighboring village according to her parents' arrangement, and her life did not turn around.

Before getting married, first of all, she did a good job!

Guo Jingjing said: "To what height do you want to marry, you must first send yourself to what height."

If she is not an excellent diving champion, but a mediocre girl, can she marry into Huo's family?

People with real brains don't make long-term investments for a face that will get old sooner or later. At best, they rent it for fun.

If you try your best to marry yourself, you must first let yourself have the capital to marry.

Wong Kar-wai said: A person's life is a process of seeing the world, all beings and himself. In the final analysis, it is the vision after seeing heaven and earth that determines people.

Girls who do well have strong working ability and economic independence. Because she has seen the horizon of heaven and earth, she has a calm attitude towards life.

I once knew a senior who had a good job. Although she is married, has a pair of children and her husband earns a lot of money, she still insists on working hard. Once she was so tired, she smiled and complained, "I asked my husband why he earned so much money and I had to work so hard." He said that the way I worked hard made him feel safe. "

Her salary is nothing compared with the big business run by her husband. But women always maintain a positive and independent attitude, which is a fatal aphrodisiac for smart men.

On the contrary, if you can only see the four corners of the sky and chat with a rich man who has seen the world, you will feel that he is profound and thoughtful, and he will feel that you are empty. The horizon does not reach the same height. How can we watch the scenery together?

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-what can be called a good marriage?

Wu Peici has beautiful skin and a prominent family background, but he has made a fool of himself countless times on the issue of marrying into a rich family. First, I was pregnant twice before I got married, and then I tried my best to please my mother-in-law. I spent NT$ 4 billion to build two luxurious Luo Long as the opening ceremony of my mother-in-law hotel. In the end, I still didn't get the birthright of Kyrgyzstan's daughter-in-law. This gesture of being as low as dust in order to marry into a rich family makes people cry.

Even if Ji Xiaobo can't stand it and let her get her wish, is this marriage really good?

A man married to such a rich family, although you were pregnant with two children before marriage, he still refused to show his face, denied it, and entangled with other women. Is it really good?

What is a good marriage?

Many girls will say, May you finally marry love. But when discussing marriage in real life, love is always put aside.

Is marrying a rich man really our lifeline?

If you have a career you love, a goal to advance, your salary is enough to support yourself and honor your parents, and you have enough free time to study, travel, keep fit and make friends, then your life is full and your mind is strong.

Why do you need to take catching a rich husband as your life goal? Why is it necessary to tie your precious life to someone you don't like very much because of money?

The most decent way to be a decent person is not to invest in marriage, but to invest in yourself. Only by being a better self can we meet a better self.

Well done, you don't need to propose or find a meal ticket, you will find someone with the same interests and a soul. This is a wonderful marriage.

Just like in "to the sky kingdom", Bai Qian, who came back from robbery, finally made up with YeHua.

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