I wasn't ready until I was pregnant. When her mother recalled the moment when she learned the good news of pregnancy, Alice smiled incredulously and said, "I was really scared!" " Because I didn't expect to get pregnant, although I thought about having children, I always felt that I was not ready to be a mother, so I was caught off guard when I knew I was pregnant. Even so, in fact, Alice was more happy than frightened, and finally realized that she had been longing for a child. Alice was very lucky after she got pregnant. Not only does she have no severe morning sickness, but she also has no special discomfort. Only in the third pregnancy, because of her small pelvis and thin body, it became difficult to stand and walk, which led to bed all day. I thought that the days when I couldn't get out of bed all day might make her feel bored, but I didn't expect her to be happy. I was really happy. I can lie down and rest and watch TV. No one will call you lazy, because pregnant women just want to have more rest. As if Alice had won a little holiday, she spent the last three months happily in bed.
People always say that the most important thing in pregnancy nutrition is a balanced child's nutrition, but it won't be fat enough for pregnant mommy. So Alice made a special effort in her diet. In addition to controlling food intake, she also controls cooking methods and diet types. "I eat at least a whole fish every day and hardly eat nutritious food such as instant noodles. During pregnancy, I only gained 8 or 9 kilograms, of which the baby accounted for 3 kilograms. Alice, who is keen on studying diet and is interested in cooking during pregnancy, found that eating steamed cod, stewed cabbage, buckwheat noodles and natto during pregnancy is very good for her health, and there is no burden, especially when pregnant mommy ingests food in many ways, the fetus in her abdomen will also absorb nutrition. Lily is very healthy after birth. She is not picky about food. She even loves natto as much as mommy, which is completely different from other children who will resist!
When pregnant, the belly is very big, which makes life very inconvenient. The health and safety of the fetus must be considered everywhere in daily life. Because of this, some pregnant mothers stay at home all day to raise their babies, but Alice believes that during pregnancy, they should still keep their lives and work, so that they can not only keep healthy, but also get a sense of accomplishment, and they will not feel uneasy and afraid because they lose their focus in life. "For me, when I became a pregnant mother, the biggest blow was to see my appearance change, so I kept working. Otherwise, it will be more painful to think at home all day, feel insecure about my husband, and constantly see my ugly side. This passage undoubtedly tells the feelings of many pregnant women. Alice keeps calling on Mommy to cultivate her interest. Even during pregnancy, she should always engage in her favorite activities, so that she can have a full and happy pregnancy. Alice is the best example. She still insists on working until she can't walk, so that she can live a rich life. Even when she was seven months pregnant, she hosted a New Year's Eve program and never wanted to stop.
Although they still have work habits after pregnancy, Alice and her husband gave up the bad habit of staying up late and going to bed late for the sake of the health of the fetus. "In the past, my friends would have dinner and chat with everyone after work at night, but I hardly attended after I got pregnant, and I would definitely 1 1 sleep at the latest. However, even with normal life and careful diet control, Lily in her belly still gives Mommy Alice a situational problem-the head circumference is too big. When pregnant for about 8 months, the doctor found that the head circumference of the fetus was larger than that of a child with normal weeks. Although Alice wanted to give birth naturally at first, when Alice's pelvis was small and the risk of giving birth was high, she chose caesarean section directly.
Iris & Lily's Happy Fairy Tale Joe Mommy Alice: "Whenever I feel tired and overwhelmed by pressure, you always squint at me like this, as if to remind me, Mommy, smile!" " So you are the rainbow at my hand. After the beauty host Alice gave birth to her little daughter Lily at the age of 34, she wrote this passage on Facebook, not only telling her how important her daughter is to her, but also telling her "inherit the wind", which caused a warm response. Now that Lily is 3 years old, she has not only grown into a lovely little princess, but also become Alice's indispensable personal secretary. Mommy, a novice with mixed feelings of sadness and joy, recalled that Alice was not overly nervous the day she gave birth. On the contrary, I slept soundly and sweetly the night before, and even overslept in the morning until my parents came home to pick her up. "As usual, I made some preparations after getting up. When I got to the hospital, I was very relaxed and said to my relatives and friends,' Hey! I'm having a baby! "I happily walked into the delivery room. Unexpectedly, I was not only tied to the cold delivery table, but also a parturient who gave birth collapsed and wailed beside me. Now I am extremely nervous. Fortunately, the doctor came to chat with me and played my favorite music for me. I fell asleep after anesthesia. The moment Alice was awakened, she was greeted by a crying baby. In desperation, Alice blurted out the first sentence with mixed feelings: "Does she have ten fingers and ten toes?" "Really? Really? I'm afraid that a Sayuri will have physical defects if he is not careful. The moment she heard the nurse say "the child is healthy", she couldn't help crying out of control.
Like all mothers, the biggest challenge after giving birth is breastfeeding. For Alice who was pregnant and gave birth smoothly, breastfeeding made her suffer a lot. "Just after giving birth to a child, the wound of caesarean section is very painful, and because of the lack of breast milk, breastfeeding has encountered great setbacks. With the accumulation of emotions day by day, she began to get out of control easily, especially wanting to cry, and anxiety and fear often came. At that time, she couldn't help thinking, "I finally gave birth to a child. Why did this happen? "She suffered from mild postpartum depression in constant inferiority and self-blame, so the days in the center of the month are really bitter. Fortunately, one day when Alice went to the obstetrics and gynecology department for a follow-up visit, she had an interview with the doctor and found that her situation was not special. It is simply because of the influence of hormonal changes in the body, not because she can't do it well, so she immediately put down the big stone in her heart and stopped blaming herself for her melancholy and crying mood, and her calm face is getting better and better. However, many people will wonder why Alice's figure before and after childbirth is not very different. She said that doctors once said that six months after delivery is the golden slimming period, and it is difficult to lose weight after six months. At that time, by practicing Pilates and yoga seriously, plus my breastfeeding, she soon lost her original appearance.
Iris & Lily's Happy Fairy Tale Joe Mommy Alice: "Whenever I feel tired and overwhelmed by pressure, you always squint at me like this, as if to remind me, Mommy, smile!" " So you are the rainbow at my hand. After the beauty host Alice gave birth to her little daughter Lily at the age of 34, she wrote this passage on Facebook, not only telling her how important her daughter is to her, but also telling her "inherit the wind", which caused a warm response. Now that Lily is 3 years old, she has not only grown into a lovely little princess, but also become Alice's indispensable personal secretary. Children are stronger than you think. In addition to breastfeeding and slimming, Alice is not idle at ordinary times. She stayed with Lily carefully and observed her growth, which brought her a strong sense of happiness every day. She described: "Watching Lily grow up is like watching a reptile become a human being. How interesting! Since Lily was 2 years old, Alice has spent a lot of time on education, not only paying attention to politeness and personality education, but also trying to guide Lily to express herself. " I used to scream and cry when my needs were not solved because I didn't know how to express them, so I really hope to teach her how to express them. Other things like talent and skills are not important. I don't want to spoon-feed her, because children are interested in things. Compared with ballet, dance and piano, children's table manners, daily routine, independence and expressive ability are more important. Alice stressed that although children can occasionally be spoiled when they are shameless, loving mothers can occasionally become tiger mothers and should not be overindulged.
Needless to say, the relationship between mother and daughter is good. You can understand them by reading their relationship patterns. Maybe some parents think that taking their children abroad is asking for trouble and can't really relax, but Alice doesn't think so. Instead, I planned a trip to France for mother and daughter for 1 month, which not only made education interesting, but also made the relationship between parents and children closer. Alice added that it was this trip to Provence that made her more aware of the potential of her little Lily. "When I first arrived in Nanfa, Lily would clamor for a hug and wouldn't go up and down the stairs by herself, but I slowly trained her to climb long stairs, one on the first day and two on the second day. Gradually Lily learned to climb stairs. This incident made her feel that the child's learning ability is very strong, so don't think that the child can't easily. During the trip, Alice even prepared a small bag for Lily. Although there are not many things in it, it is a prop that she is going to teach Lily. The concept is "let's come out to play, you have to help mommy share some!" "I hope that in this way, children will be more considerate. Excessive protection will make children lose their ability to learn to survive in this world.
Alice often describes herself and Lily as people with complementary personalities, a rough mother and a delicate daughter. Alice often finds something missing after taking Lily out, such as a mobile phone and a kettle. When they go home, Lily always finds something before her mother and shouts, "Mom is here!" " Even now, before they go out, Lily will remind Mommy to check whether she has brought everything she wants? When I get home, I will take the initiative to put my shoes away and help Alice roll up the yoga mat. I can't help marveling at the child's carefulness and cleverness. Alice said with a smile, "When I get old and my brain degenerates, I'll let Lily take my mommy home …" Alice, who doesn't ask much of Lily, only wants her baby daughter to know where her passion in life is, what is the most important thing, and whatever she wants, Alice will unconditionally support her. If family is her dream, I will also strongly support it. I believe Lily will feel that having an enlightened and intelligent mommy like Alice is the happiest thing in her life when she grows up.