In 20 10, after working in a TV station for 10, 40-year-old Murphy suddenly left his ace social program "Nanjing Zero Distance" and officially became the host of a variety show on marriage and love.
A few episodes later, Le Jia also received an invitation from the producer to become a permanent guest of this variety show. At first, Le Jia didn't want to. At the repeated invitation of the program group, Le Jia was finally moved and decided to join.
However, everything has to end. After the peak of the program for three years, Le Jia left to join various variety shows, and successively staged many dramas, such as holding Nana, singing Venus and drinking on the spot. In 20 16, he was accidentally injured in a big challenge, and then he faded out of the variety show after hurting sensitive parts, but he was listed as a best-selling author with the book Light.
Le Jia once again appeared in the public eye, and it was a netizen who saw him on the plane. The photo shows that Le Jia touched a young woman standing beside her with her hand, and they looked at each other sweetly, but this beautiful woman doesn't look like Le Jia's third wife, Sydney.
However, some insiders said that this is just a video. The media just look at the pictures and talk.
The last time Morphy boarded a hot search, it was his humor and self-mockery after he was admitted to the hospital, which caused netizens to feel distressed.
At the beginning of this year, Han Huang, Huang Lei and Huang Lan, the current guests, appeared in the special program for the 10th anniversary of If You Are the One. The program invited the married children among the male and female guests of If You Are the One. Murphy asked them, "You all know who I am, right?"
A little girl immediately replied, "Grandpa Meng!"
Grandpa Meng didn't mention this word when he thanked all the staff in the past ten years on the program.
Perhaps from the story of If You Are the One, these two bald heads are destined to be two completely different life paths.
Prequel to Bald Group: gold medal seller, printing factory worker 1975, Le Jia was born in Shanghai, and his ancestral home is Ningbo, Zhejiang.
Two months after his birth, he and his family moved to a village in Weinan, Shaanxi.
This is 12 years, and I have tasted my poor childhood.
Murphy was born in Chongqing. All his primary schools are in Chongqing. Murphy's parents both graduated from Beijing Broadcasting Institute and belong to a family of senior intellectuals.
After graduating from primary school, he followed his family to Nanjing, where he went to junior high school and high school. Murphy recalled that it was a happy childhood. Even Murphy's wife is his high school classmate.
The lives of the two bald stars are branded here, leading to different trajectories.
/kloc-at the age of 0/4, Le Jia came to Ningbo technical secondary school to study finance. After graduation, I went to work directly to make money, struggled in all kinds of bottom jobs and tasted the bitterness of life.
At first, Le Jia also worked in a bank, which was stable and comfortable. Jiao Jia lost a word and left. "The thought of spending my life in a cubicle drives me crazy."
After that, I worked as an accountant, a tour guide, sold insurance and sold a house. At the age of 25, he wanted to be an actor, but he was ashamed to study with teenagers of sixteen or seventeen. Seven months later, he left, claiming that the harvest was to learn to control "100% madness and passion".
But later stories show that he may not have learned this lesson.
In those days, he searched the newspaper for recruitment inspiration, wrote 30 letters every day and 15600 letters in two months, until he chose to go to the emerging cosmetics industry for marketing, and finally found that his future life depended on his mouth.
He soon became the youngest sales training lecturer in the company and found the direction of life-speech.
From 65438 to 0995, 20-year-old Le Jia began to give speeches on various occasions, and once set a record of 200 national tours. Many listeners were fascinated by his speech, including his first 1 wife Bai.
She took the initiative to pursue Le Jia. After they fell in love, they quickly decided to get married.
But the rich girl's father is not optimistic about Le Jia. I think he is just a poor boy who can only talk and has no ability.
A rich girlfriend sent him a message in a BMW and was forced to marry him, but the marriage eventually failed quickly.
Later, Le Jia said bluntly, "I was poor at that time, and her parents looked down on me. They never gave me a good face after marriage. "
His second wife was a young woman in literature and art. After marriage, they had a daughter, but this relationship soon came to an end because of personality reasons.
However, Le Jia's career has gone all the way to the fast lane. From 1999 to 2000, Le Jia completed the BBA (Bachelor of Business Administration) of Armstrong University in Shanghai. The following year, he founded the China Personality Color Research Center, which is the personality color science he will talk about everywhere in the future.
This year, Le Jia was only 26 years old and had many fans.
Later, this experience was "faked" by Fang's Weibo: "He claimed to be the founder of FPA personality colorimetry, and FPA is the four-color personality analysis method. In fact, there are four-color personality analysis abroad, and copying foreign scholars claims to be the founder. " Even his education was questioned.
But the door of Le Jia's life is about to open completely, and fate just needs to wait for one person to make up his mind to complete a transformation. This person is Murphy.
1990, 19-year-old Murphy took part in the college entrance examination and fell out of the list because of serious partiality.
Like Le Jia in the early days, he spent a long time wandering around the ground floor, working as a porter, plumber, security guard and street vendor. When I was a printer, my hand was involved in a machine and I had a narrow escape.
After recuperation, Murphy decided to change his lifestyle and become a news photographer for a TV station, so he did. In 2002, Jiangsu Satellite TV launched a live news program "Nanjing Zero Distance", and he was hired as the host. The leader said to Murphy, "I just like your ability to tell the news, not to report it."
Murphy, who had never studied broadcasting or news, crustily skin of head and started his first live broadcast. He doesn't even know what a teleprompter is. Sitting on the stage, he said his signature opening remarks: "Hello, audience friends in front of the TV, welcome to Nanjing Zero Distance. I am the host Murphy. "
That year, he was 3 1 year old. Many years later, he teased himself in the Dapeng movie "The Big Winner".
With Morphy's unique hosting style, "Nanjing Zero Distance" began to increase in ratings from the second week, and from the 36th week, it ranked first in Nielsen's Nanjing TV program list. But ten years later, Murphy decided to change his lifestyle.
He came to Jiangsu Satellite TV to host a "large-scale life service program"-"If You Are the One". At that time, he was not optimistic. Producers began to try to find him some partners with matching styles, and Le Jia appeared.
"If You Are the One: The Secret Past of the Golden Age" two people quickly paired up in the program and became the perfect partner of the smash hit, which was affectionately called "bald combination" by the audience.
Murphy's host is wise and thoughtful, while Le Jia's comments are sharp and changeable, which are often "unexpected". Coupled with the elegance of Han Huang and the tacit cooperation of the troika, it soon created a peak of love variety in the Mainland.
The scene that often appeared in the program in those days was: Le Jia's "poison mouth" exploded the scene of the program, and Murphy pulled the scene to the side, and the timely and active atmosphere would come back perfectly, so that the program could return to the right track.
He takes good care of the female guests. Facing the male guests, his words made the program very happy. He compared the program to a matchmaker's banquet, so he wanted to make everyone comfortable.
That year, Le Jia lived up to Murphy's efforts to balance the scene. He not only plays the role of a prostitute expert, but also undertakes a lot of comedy effects, becoming one of Morphy's most popular guests in gag.
At that time, Le Jia's most prominent label was: true temperament.
In a program, Le Jia said: Between two in-laws, the one with slightly better economic conditions always shows psychological contempt for the other, and unconsciously shows arbitrariness. The party with a slightly poor economic condition will inevitably feel sensitive and inferior.
This kind of emotion obviously comes from his first marriage, and there were obviously not many people who could say such things in domestic variety shows that year.
It is also through the popularity of the program that many viewers have come into contact with Le Jia's "personality chromatics" and even started to seriously analyze whether they are red, yellow and blue.
During this period, Le Jia's performance added luster to Unsincere, and the high ratings of Unsincere added popularity to Le Jia.
Either way, it's a win-win situation. At this time, Le Jia was 35 years old and reached the peak of his career.
It was not until the breakdown of the relationship between Meng and Yue finally surfaced.
Rome was not built in a day.
Someone once asked Murphy, what's your relationship with Le Jia?
He said: "We have almost no contact in private. I am a very passive person and rarely take the initiative to contact others. "
At that time, the rumor was that the two men almost started fighting in the locker room because of a quarrel.
As for why Le Jia left, although there are several versions in the Jianghu, this is only one version, which has never been confirmed by relevant parties.
Le Jia's figure once disappeared from this program. After a short trip out of the mountain, he wrote in Weibo, "The mountain has been clean for a few days, and the world is still noisy. Hello everyone, you are out of the customs. "
This time, it also means leaving completely.
Not long after returning to the show, Le Jia announced his withdrawal from If You Are the One on the grounds that "it's not fun, you can't learn what you want, and you can't get what you want."
201365438+1October 18, Le Jia left Jiangsu Satellite TV after recording the last issue of If You Are the One.
In the next few years, the fate of If You Are the One was ups and downs, and once bid farewell to the peak. There are rumors and controversies about the modification and suspension of the program, even including various speculations about Morphy's personal career direction.
But it turns out that Morphy has been staying in Jiangsu Satellite TV, and it is the tenth year to do this love variety show.
In the 10th anniversary program, Morphy said that in the past ten years, "If You Are the One" has served about 1 10,000 people, and about 190 couples got married hand in hand in the program. "These figures also make me and my colleagues and partners feel extremely proud and gratified."
Le Jia, who left Unsincere, once became a gold medal host popular all over the country, and his career was in full swing, as if he had found a broader stage when he left.
When Meng is not on the same stage, no matter how he flies, someone will pull the kite back out of control. He can show himself at will and show his edge.
It was not until the kite broke free from the fuse and flew freely into the sky that he would know how many out-of-control stages were waiting for him in the next few years.
Days of Leaving If You Are the One: At least on the surface, those faint worries, after leaving If You Are the One, Le Jia served as the chief night talk of CCTV, the host of Night Ask of Shenzhen Satellite TV, and participated in various tutoring programs such as Super Speaker, Wait for me, Super Sir, and Mom Listen to me. It seems that the scenery is infinite, and he took great pains to get on the show.
Murphy's If You Are the One is gradually overshadowed by the rise of the new generation variety, and Le Jia's departure seems to be a correct and incomparable choice.
But sometimes the success or failure of fate can only be seen clearly if time is longer.
In the pursuit of all, Le Jia became popular and gone with the wind. The once sharp style of writing has turned into a poisonous tongue, and whoever is popular is who. A clean and heartless character.
In an interview, Le Jia asked Dong Mingzhu a question: "Do you have to be overbearing and heartless to be a successful female boss?" ? "Dong Mingzhu said without thinking," Being overbearing means that you are at work. After you make a decision, I think subordinates must implement it unconditionally. " Le Jia then asked, "What if your point of view is wrong?" Dong Mingzhu replied: "It is impossible to make a wrong decision." Le Jia continued, "What if? "
Dong Mingzhu replied, "There can't be a thousand."
Le Jia raised his voice and said, "How is that possible? How can it not be in life? " Dare to kill the queen, probably only Le Jia.
Another famous scene is an argument with tranquility on the spot in Mr. Super. Quiet affirmed the speaker in disguise at that time, but Le Jia had to "feel" that Quiet had hurt him for the players.
After Nana's clearance, Le Jia tugged at Nana's arm, as if to kiss Nana on the stage, and publicly expressed his love for Nana, saying, "I regret getting married so early since I met Nana."
After Nana cleverly avoided the public "flirting" in this program, in the next program, Le Jia took the initiative to reconcile and hug Wenjing, and Wenjing reconciled with him with a cold face.
In addition to losing control more than once, Le Jia also kissed the contestants on the show.
Even Li Jing, the host, asked him directly on the show, did he especially like hugging and kissing others on the show?
But during this period, Le Jia contracted the flow of the program like a hot search manager. Le Jia needed to let himself go, and the program needed the flow, so the story continued.
Until he met a "super speaker", which led to his final career "Waterloo".
In the program, Le Jia said that when he saw the beautiful children, he was so excited that he cried. Li Yong, a fellow guest, said you were dangerous, while Le Jia said, "I'm not Michael Jackson." This remark caused a controversy, but what really made the situation unmanageable was his improvisation again.
2065438+In June, 2005, Super Speaker finally recorded the scene to encourage his disabled player Cui to drink. He immediately took out his own bottle of white wine, made a demonstration and drank the wine on the spot.
After the contestants were eliminated, Le Jia staged a rare scene in the history of variety shows-swearing on the stage through the power of alcohol.
Lu Yu said, "How can you drink on the show? Players don't drink either. If drinking affects the players' performance, who will bear the consequences? "
Out of control, Le Jia angered Lu Yu and said, "Shut up and don't talk." .
Lu Yu left angrily.
When Venus was about to leave, she said angrily, "I have never seen such a scene. Scared me! "
Le Jia left a famous sentence alluding to Venus-
Wen Dutao, who has always been gentle, directly dissuaded Le Jia: "Don't take it to heart!"
Three hours after the incident, Le Jia responded on the social platform: "My friend asked me why the entertainment media said I was drunk today. I told her you knew how much money I had. I thank all my friends who trust me. I have a clear conscience. I hope Wan Zhi's son is proud of his father. I hope that in today's society, the sentence "Being a good person is much more important than being a successful person" will finally be accepted by everyone.
Despite a heavy blow to his reputation, Le Jia remained active on the variety stage until his sensitive part was injured in The Great Challenge, which continued to fascinate him.
On the second day after the operation, the writer Liu Liu chose a pot of bamboo to visit, and left a sentence-"If a good gun is hidden deep, it will be polished, and it will rise at an early date and return the engagement", and also left a set of historical records for Le Jia to study hard.
Perhaps it is really taking history as a mirror, and Le Jia, who came back from injury, faded out of the variety show.
At this time, his fans have exceeded 40 million, and Xiu Xiu's comments on chest muscles have also exceeded 1 10,000. However, I don't know if Le Jia, whose love for nature has attracted much attention, has ever felt faint sadness after losing the grand variety stage.
This man named Meng will never get back to Grandpa Meng's If You Are the One. In recent years, Le Jia has torn off the label of "If You Are the One" as an emotional expert and returned to his old job as a writer and speaker ... and what he wants most is to be a missionary.
But I didn't expect that his most famous sermon was to take his 4-year-old daughter across the 76-kilometer desert on foot.
In this educational incident that caused an uproar in the whole country, when his daughter was 4 years old, he forced her children to follow a group of adults for 20 kilometers every day. Her daughter had a large rash on her thighs and blisters on her feet. Le Jia still insists on never giving up and encourages her to finish this activity on foot.
After that, he sent his seven or eight-year-old daughter to Shaolin Temple to practice martial arts. In the face of netizens' spit, he thinks this is to cultivate children's spirit of suffering.
When he faded out of variety shows, from enterprise training to management consulting projects, from social training to personal psychological counseling, he extended the tentacles of personality colorimetry to various fields, served various presidential classes and large training institutions, and published ten books one after another. Le Jiahao said, "Many celebrities ask gunmen to write books, but I make up every word by myself."
It is rumored that his third wife, Sydney, is a typical top-notch beauty. She graduated from the English Department of Harvard University and is also a dramatic actress. She also gave birth to a daughter to Le Jia. As the couple seldom showed their love in public, there were rumors that they had divorced, but Le Jia never responded.
It was not until Show Lo and Grace Chow broke up that emotional mentor Le Jia went online again. He said that both of them should look at the circled part of his book, where they have the answers they want.
Besides, Le Jia certainly can't miss this short video era. He registered related accounts on some popular short video platforms and has millions of fans.
/kloc-On February 28th, 0/9, he sent a photo of meditation in a monk's robe with the word "quit" written on it. Netizens once thought that he became a monk as an emotional variety guest.
In early 2020, Morphy invited couples and children who had already realized the program to the stage, saying, "Many people often say,' I often ask if the program If You Are the One is true or not? That's all the actors you invited. For you, they also play children. Actors and actresses live together and have a baby for you. This play has been on for ten years. " "
In ten years, If You Are the One went to 12 countries to shoot programs, becoming the first media lesson plan from China in Harvard Business School. From 2065,438+09, a new blind date meeting was also derived, which became a mode for male guests to choose female guests and join relatives and friends.
The mode has changed, and the only thing that hasn't changed is: Grandpa Meng.
He laughed at himself in the program: "I saw someone leave a message on the Internet saying, why is" If You Are the One "still on this program? There is a feeling of isolation. " However, he also said that he saw many netizens say that they grew up watching "If You Are the One": "These words made me unforgettable and let me know that our program has another particularly important meaning, called companionship."
On the other hand, Le Jia was photographed by netizens as Shang Yan in the street. He also laughed at himself on social platforms:
"It seems that I have had a bad time in recent years, and now I am reduced to giving a speech at the annual meeting of people. Less than 10000 people didn't give speeches before, and now I only have 3000 listeners. "
In the video, wearing a white shirt and camouflage pants is still the iconic bald head. At the age of 45, he seems to have returned to the era when 19 became a corporate trainer.
As the founder of personality color theory, Le Jia should know that personality is the most decisive truth. He claimed that his personality color was "red+yellow". Red is the pursuit of freedom and happiness, driven by emotion; And yellow is goal-oriented, rational and domineering, but it turns out that red is his protagonist, from which his talent and his negativity come.
In the program, he repeatedly showed extreme emotion and emotional instability. In the end, these personality colors were used at the beginning to damage the popularity of the audience.
When Meng and he were not on the same stage, their personalities were completely different, so they were so complementary. Le Jia showed his unique and flamboyant personal style to the fullest. No matter how far he went, Murphy could bring back the scene. It is precisely because they are so different that they are doomed to be unable to cooperate for a long time.
Morphy once shared with you the story of watching the total solar eclipse when he was a child: in Chongqing in the late 1970s, when he was a child, he sat outside with his grandmother to watch the total solar eclipse. Grandma said to him, "this is called the tengu eating the moon." If you don't obey, you will be taken away by Tiangou. " Since then, Murphy's life, every step, has gone smoothly.
Le Jia's childhood memory is that his mother begged the leader to give him a ride. As a result, the man took off and left dust all over the sky. He was deeply impressed by his mother's embarrassment at that moment and the humiliation that followed.
The ups and downs of his life after that may have started from that scene.
What did Ding Lianshan say in The Grand Master? What river to cross and what shoes to take off. "People, this is a moment."
But some people will never change. For example, Le Jia in the photos of netizens took her time, stood up and touched the cheek of the woman in white, her eyes were full of spoil, and she looked like a couple in love. Video shooting or not, in Le Jia's mind, he must be a teenager.
Morphy, from a printer in those days to the current ace host, entered the marriage hall with middle school students at 1993, and the marriage ended from beginning to end without any scandal.
Time may fill the gap between people's hearts, but some personalities can never be integrated.
Two bald gentlemen left countless laughs for a domestic love variety era, and finally they laughed more than sighed. But the road always goes forward. Some people are not old irons. When the road is separated, it will never be closed again.
If you start from the beginning, it will still be like that, and the people in the story probably have no regrets and can't take the second road.
After all, that man can't return to Grandpa Meng's if you are the one. # Comprehensive Entertainment Award #