The reason is that a young man in Guangxi recorded a video to release his emotions in the face of lovelorn heart. Due to the strong accent, Mandarin has local characteristics, and feeling uncomfortable (blue and thin) and mushrooms (want to cry) have become a new round of online hot words.
As we grow up, communication should have made us understand that whether it is love, affection or friendship, the state that needs to be maintained most is satisfaction. We avoid communication, but we want more, and the more we lose.
However, when will we cry?
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pressure
A person, any pressure will turn into a bad mood, and you can pretend to be strong if you endure it.
It seems that just a second ago, my parents were taught how to use e-mail and free telephone. At this time, a phone call suddenly came: How is your life, work and study recently? Suppress emotions and say nothing, just silence from time to time, trying to control the tears in my eyes.
Mom and dad are very tired when they hear your voice. Go to bed early without hanging up.
But they don't know that you don't want to hang up and talk to them more, but tears are coming out and there is a busy signal. Tears can no longer be controlled, all grievances are released in an instant. The warmth of short words reminds you that you have to face it alone when you wake up tomorrow morning.
I still remember when I was a child, as long as I was injured, I could go home and exaggerate my grievances in order to get the concern of my parents. When you grow up, you don't tell your family if you have any difficulties outside. Besides being afraid that your parents will miss me, you know it's time to carry it yourself.
Actually, I'm just homesick, homesick.
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don't understand; ignorant of
I don't know how to communicate with society, but most people don't feel the motivation of life.
When they are tired, they ask to comfort the people around them. They think they are tired and the other party can warm themselves.
Such people seem to feel that their feelings can never be understood by close people, so they begin to like being alone. After a long time, I hope to have a heart-to-heart partner. You don't need too many words to speak your mind, you can warm your heart at any time.
Actually, I want to talk to someone.
in short
Now, a sentence that I may occasionally see touches my inner softness.
Don't scold the children when eating, and say it after eating.
Look at other people's children, and look at you.
Do you like your father or your mother? You must choose one.
Don't compare with him. Their family has money, but ours doesn't.
Because I am old, I have to make way for my younger brother (sister).
There will always be people who say hello and others who say you are not good. You don't have to look others in the eye, and you don't have to please others blindly, which will make you very tired.
When someone disrespects you with words, communication is the main choice, which is useless. Don't care. What these words can change is not the truth, but your heart.
What if the leaves are yellow?
The reason why fragrant leaves turn yellow
There is a lot of water.
Too much watering is a mistake that many flower lovers make. Too much watering tends to rot the roots. So first you have to check whether there is too much water. The fragrance that feels around is not resistant to water. If water makes the roots rot, the rotten roots and leaves will turn yellow.
The problem of fertilization
Potted fragrant soil is limited, so soil fertility alone is definitely not enough, and fertilization is needed. However, excessive fertilization or insufficient fertilization will lead to yellowing of leaves. Excessive fertilization caused fat damage; Too little fertilization and insufficient nutrients.
natural cause
Over time, the scented stems will gradually lignify, and the surrounding leaves will turn yellow and gradually wither. This is a normal phenomenon, and new branches will gradually grow after withering.
Treatment method of yellowing of contact leaves
Flower friends are worried about the yellow leaves, but don't blindly remedy them. Try it in the following ways.
Soil exchange
The most direct way is to change the soil. Touching incense likes soil with strong air permeability and water permeability, and deer marsh soil+small gravel+ordinary breeding soil+earthworm manure (fertilizer) can be used.
Pot changing selection
Sometimes the yellow leaves are the cause of the pot. There must be small holes under the pot to facilitate water seepage. If your pot is not recommended to be replaced.
Dashuiqiang sunshine
Expose the incense in the sun during the day, water it in the evening or early morning, thoroughly water it once, and then water it when it is dry. Reduce watering on cloudy and rainy days to avoid root rot.
Long time ventilation
Meat should be placed in a well-ventilated place, not on a closed balcony, especially when it is stuffy indoors in summer. It is best to put it in a circulating place.
What should I do if the leaves of Murraya murraya turn yellow?
Murraya murraya is also called Jiushuxiang and Jiuqiuxiang. Its trees are beautiful, the plants are lush, and all the flowers are accompanied by bursts of fragrance. Its flowering period can be as long as 5 months, so it is deeply loved by people. It can also be made into bonsai for viewing. However, when the leaves of plants have problems, it will affect the overall ornamental effect. Today we will discuss what to do in this situation.
I. Reasons
① Insufficient illumination: it may be placed in a place without sunshine for a long time, or the illumination time is too short;
(2) Insufficient moisture: water is not replenished in time, or the water poured every time is not thorough, only wetting the soil surface.
In fact, two reasons are the biggest reason why its leaves turn yellow.
Second, the solution
This kind of green plant needs plenty of sunshine in the feeding process, especially indoors, so you must choose a sunny place. If you can't spend all day in the sun, you should spend at least 5 to 6 hours in the sun every day. But the sunshine in summer should be properly shielded, otherwise it will get sunburned. The other three seasons can grow in the sun.
This kind of plants need more water, and most of them are planted in the south, where the weather temperature is higher, so they need more water. In spring and autumn, you can replenish water once a day or every other day. Water should be replenished twice a day in summer, once in the morning and once in the evening. In winter, water can be replenished according to soil conditions, and it can be replenished once every few days. Every water supply must be watered thoroughly, and it is forbidden to water half and leave half. This will make the basin soil agglomerate for a long time, which is very unfavorable to its growth.
What should I do if I am lovelorn?
What should I do if I am lovelorn?
1. Emotional things are always hard to say clearly. I know that breaking up is always sad, but in any case, I will always stand by your side and support you. Try to make yourself happy, okay?
2. Being lovelorn is like God giving you another chance to choose again, so that you can see each other clearly and yourself clearly. Let you know what you really want.
3. What is lovelorn? When people are floating, how can they not get a gentle knife, endure some pain, pull it out, put some gold on it, and spread it all over their calves?
I'm just a little tired. I want to find a solid shoulder to lean on. It'll only take a moment. Looking back at your words, all the words you have said have become old and lifeless. In this life, I will always miss some true feelings inadvertently, and my heart will be engraved with your name, as red as blood, but now the colors have faded, which makes me feel sad.
5. May those who love you love you more; The people you love know you better!
6. How long can a gust of wind last? How long can a bunch of flowers last? How long can a smile last? How long can a love last? If you ask me how long my blessing will last, I will tell you loudly that as long as my heart is beating, my heart will beat. The silent night sky suddenly passed through a glimmer of dawn and changeable weather, and a cold current struck. When I received your message, my heart was always full of warmth and unspeakable happiness. It turns out that the feeling of first love is like this.
7. When love leaves, please say a blessing to him. After all, I love him.
8. When a person has never been lovelorn in his life, how can he understand that there is still lovelorn in the world? When a person has never fallen, how does he know that the earth under his feet is not flat?
9. No matter what difficulties you encounter, no matter how many setbacks you encounter, people always have to live in hope. The grief in their hearts is greater than death. They rise up in difficulties and are full of hope in disappointment.
10. God gives you another chance to choose from scratch, so that you can see each other clearly and yourself clearly. Let you know what you really want.
1 1. Don't be afraid to do something wrong. Even if you are wrong, you don't have to be sad. There are right and wrong in life, and there are many things. In retrospect, right or wrong doesn't matter.
12. The furthest distance in the world is not that I stand in front of you without knowing that I love you; But knowing that we love each other, but we can't be together.
13. lovelorn is such a profound revolution. Are there no inspiring slogans? Slaves turn over to be masters!
14. The departure of leaves is not the call of the wind, but the abandonment of trees.
15. Sometimes, I want to indulge myself and hope that I will go crazy hysterically.
16. Everything previously recognized can only shake your head and sigh when the years are in a hurry. No one is anyone's destiny, and no one can be anyone's forever. Time is the gentlest knife in the world, which will smooth all corners and promises, just like petals falling like snow with the wind. Gradually quiet in the sun, but never return to the past. All I can do is stand under a pure blue sky, forget all the pain and expectation, and wait for the dust to settle.
17. We all have moments of despair. Only when we face it bravely will we know how strong we are.
18. Don't rely on others. You only say it when there is someone else you can rely on.
19. I like myself now, and I miss us in the past.
20. It's sad to be lovelorn, but at the same time, you should find your own way to vent. Don't hold it in your heart and force yourself to do things you don't want to do, such as crying, drinking with friends and meeting the wrong person. These are all things we have to go through, so I believe everyone can survive this.
2 1. Although things are lost, what can we do to prevent them? After all, we are all fine, understand? You should relax mentally, and then relax. Actually, it's no big deal to be lovelorn. You can't be together anymore. Of course, you should separate. You should be proud of your decision.
22. Forget those unhappy things! Even God thinks that sorrow and trouble don't belong to you. Try to go out, and you will see that tomorrow's sun is warmer than today! Tomorrow's sky is bluer than today!
23. What is lovelorn? As the saying goes, "failure is the mother of success", from this perspective, lovelorn is also the mother of love success! What is lovelorn? How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? No one can fall in love casually! What is lovelorn? Where did you fall? Where did you climb? You leave before the three of us come!
24. Be yourself when you break up. A person's world also has ups and downs and beautiful moments, so he is classified as a memory.
25. Sometimes you don't understand that a person who advises you to leave may love you the most. A person who wants you to give up may care about you the most. A person who is eager to stop contacting may miss you most. A person who leaves silently may be the most reluctant to part with you. Our life is spent in such contradictions and entanglements. Love is not a game together, but the pain of missing you and having to leave.
26. Don't dwell on the same problem. Don't put all your feelings on one person. You have parents and friends.
27. Dust off your past love! It doesn't matter who is buried in this love journey! Life is unpredictable, perhaps this person makes you sad, but it is possible to achieve another long-term sweet love for you in the future! Maybe at that time, you should say thank you to others in your heart.
28. During the journey, everyone will inevitably encounter some unpleasant things. You should learn to adjust yourself, climb mountains in the suburbs and walk in the fields when you have time! Look at the vast and distant sky; Feel the clarity and brightness of the mountain.
29. What is lovelorn? Gently, don't regret when you leave, because as long as you wave your hand, you will find that someone can't wait to secretly hold your hand!
30. Regret is an emotion that consumes the spirit. Regret is a bigger loss than loss and a bigger mistake than mistake. So don't regret.
3 1. Pain is better than nothing. Of course it hurts, which means you're still alive.
32. Coffee is still sweet and life is still beautiful. Even if you give me a big castle, I won't be a slave to love. Even without a prince, I am still a proud princess, continuing my fairy tale.
33. Being lovelorn is like God giving you another chance to choose again, so that you can see each other clearly and yourself clearly. Let you know what you really want.
34. Let yourself suffer completely for a few days. You won't learn to cherish without experiencing this kind of pain. Not self-destruct, of course. Spiritual emptiness for a few days, everything gradually blurred with the passage of time.
No matter who you love most, life is still long, and no one can predict tomorrow. Maybe the next second your true love is still waiting for you.
36. Losing love is something that everyone will experience in his life. Now you should be glad that you just lost a passer-by in your life, not a friend or relative. Cherish what you have, don't cherish the feelings that have passed away, otherwise you will only lose more fate while remembering the past.
37. If you are tired, remember to rest; Sleepy, remember to sleep; Trouble, remember to follow happiness; Sad, remember to find me comfort; Welcome happiness together and put aside troubles together. May you forget all the disappointments and be happy and sweet!
38. The other person is not good to you, but gives you a chance to leave him and be good to yourself. People value self-love.
39. The one riding a white horse is not necessarily a prince, he may be a Tang priest; The one with wings is not necessarily an angel, she may be a bird; Losing love is not necessarily painful, but may be the beginning of another fate.
40. Being lovelorn is painful, I feel tired, lovelorn is more haggard, and it is rare to get drunk once in my life, but I was drunk at the beginning; Don't look back, don't be sad, you can fly freely in a bright future, there are a lot of flowers in your life, and everyone in the world knows you.
4 1. Looking at the flowers falling in front of the court in bloom, I was not surprised by the honor or disgrace, but looked up at the clouds in the sky and had no intention of staying.
42. When a person has never fallen, how can he know that the earth under his feet is not a smooth road? When a person has never been lovelorn in his life, how can he understand that there is still "lovelorn" in the world?
43. What is lovelorn? There are plenty of fish in the sea, live to be old, love to be old, be yellow, be yellow, be yellow again, be yellow again, be old again, be yellow again! I don't believe this, people don't mean us!
44. What's the name of lovelorn? Dude, please don't be afraid. I will accompany you when you are lonely. Dude, please don't be sad. Why do you take a fancy to a flower? Let her go away and regret it slowly! May you be lovelorn without thinking and sing happily!
45. When people are wandering in love, how can they not get a gentle knife, endure some pain, pull out the knife, put some gold on the medicine, and spread their calves all over? We can still float in love!
46. Time flows like roulette, and love marks the fate of separation in the shadow of wine; Time flies like a meteor, and the wound condenses painful scars in the smoke. Maybe the next stop is happiness. encouraging words
47. Love is a feeling, even if it is painful, it feels happy; Love is an experience, even if it is heartbreaking, it will feel sweet; Love is an experience, even if it is broken, it will feel beautiful. Friend, please don't give up and find another world of your own.
48. The only obstacle that prevents me from kissing you now is this glass on your mobile phone.
49. Even if there are more words to comfort you, what can really make you jump out of lovelorn depends on your own openness.
50. It was you who approached me, but I sank in the end.