A friend told me: Her niece is beautiful and thinks she looks outstanding. When she was young, she wanted to marry into a rich family. She even spent a lot of money to enter some training institutions to learn how to catch a rich husband, and finally got her wish. Cinderella put on crystal shoes and married into a rich family.

Unexpectedly, the giants are as deep as the sea and have only been married for more than two years. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not in harmony, and her husband frequently cheats. She was depressed every day, almost suffering from depression, and finally was forced to leave home almost cleanly.

The girl ran to her friend and cried. She went through a lot of hardships to marry into a rich family. Every day, she compromises and hesitates. Even if she walks carefully, it is so difficult to maintain this marriage. Why did she get the money and people in the end?

There are too many Cinderella in this world who want to marry into a rich family and live a rich life in vain. As we all know, marrying into a rich family doesn't mean stepping into heaven at all, sometimes it's just the beginning of your life in hell, because we are living people, and we have spiritual needs besides material satisfaction.

However, a rich and powerful life often makes women mentally poor. Look at the actresses who dream of breaking through the money and getting rich. It is not difficult for smart sisters to find this.

At that time, Rosamund Kwan, who was only 20 years old, fell in love with Wang Guojing, who was 16 years older than himself. Two months later, Wang Guojing and Rosamund Kwan got married by lightning. Their marriage was strongly opposed by countless fathers in Rosamund Kwan, but Miss Rosamund Kwan lost her temper. Even if her father threatened to commit suicide, it couldn't stop her from marrying into a rich family. After marriage, she left the entertainment circle and became a full-time wife.

But within a few days, Wang Guojing's true nature was revealed. He was out partying all day. He even said: It is better to catch anyone in the street than Rosamund Kwan, which shows that he is heartless. Six months later, Rosamund Kwan and Wang Guojing divorced. Although Rosamund Kwan often said: Now she has forgotten what Wang Guojing looks like, getting married at the age of 20 and getting divorced at the age of 20 is absolutely unforgettable for a woman.

From 65438 to 0988, Yang Ziqiong fell in love with Hong Kong tycoon Pan Disheng at first sight. After marriage, she retired completely and began to be a real housewife. I thought the prince and princess lived a affectionate, intimate and rich life. However, the happy story did not develop. Because of personality reasons, he ended up divorced three years later.

As is known to all, Hua Dan Li Xiang, the former head of Hunan Satellite TV, wrote and directed a high-profile and luxurious drama "Marry into a Rich Family". Soon after, the domestic violence incident in Li Houlin was exposed, and Li Xiang announced a low-key divorce. ...

Such examples are really endless. Even these stars with infinite scenery and real beauty are defeated by the giants, not to mention our Cinderella.

Some of us women always want to take the shortcut to marriage and live the life of men. The stories of these stars and the bloody facts in our lives should make women understand that there is no shortcut in this world. If there is, it is also won by our own efforts. Nothing for nothing. If you want to eat delicious bread and milk, you must get it with your own hands and labor.

Women, there is an effort to rely on men rather than on themselves.

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The hero in the TV series "Let's Get Married" really said to the heroine Peach: This is the car I bought, just parked outside; This is my salary card, with 50 thousand in it; This is a photography bonus, with 54 thousand in it; This is my property ownership certificate. When I bought it, it was 4 100 square meters, and now it is 35 123 square meters. I'd like to add your name to the property certificate-it's all I have and belongs to you. I ask you to be my wife.

That sentence-this is all I have, it belongs to you, and women all over the world are moved by it.

So the woman sighs: it doesn't matter how much money a man has, what matters is that he gave himself to you!

So they also lamented that the greatest happiness of a woman in this life is to find a man who dotes on you, not a man who cares about you.

I don't know, there are countless people in this world. At the beginning, under the temptation of all kinds of money and beauty in society, they slowly abandoned the original vows of eternal love, forgot the original flowers and months, drifted away in your life, and finally became strangers. Even if you do your best, you can't drive him away.

No woman dares to say that her man will never change his mind, but all women dare to say that they will never betray themselves, so relying on themselves is the safest and most reassuring! !

Pin your happiness on finding a man who loves you wholeheartedly. It is better to build happiness on your own efforts to manage your behavior!

One of my best friends, Ying, was as white as snow fifteen years ago. She smiled and had a good family. The men she pursued were all in pairs, but her girlfriend Ying turned down countless son-in-law in the eyes of her parents and found her later husband Hua, an honest poor man from the countryside. Her parents refused and even threatened to sever the relationship between father and daughter, but her girlfriend in turn forced her to death. In the end, the favorite party always gives in to Qufu.

Manhua cried with his girlfriend Ying in his arms and vowed to treat her well for the rest of his life.

After marriage, men spoiled her like a princess. Although she was poor, her parents saw the man's wholehearted devotion to her daughter and finally freed her. When the son-in-law company was delisted, they did not hesitate to take out all their savings to start a business for him. The son-in-law was grateful and vowed to mix himself out.

Time flies. In recent years, men's companies have gradually flourished and their lives have become more and more affluent. Even so, men's love for their girlfriend Ying hasn't changed at all. Whenever and wherever they travel, they will buy expensive diamond rings and fashionable jewelry for Britain. Ying is finally proud, and her parents are very happy.

At this point, do the sisters think the story has a happy ending?

However, one day, his girlfriend found an invoice for a diamond ring in a man's shirt pocket when she was washing clothes. At first, she did not pay close attention to it. She took another look and found that the number of diamond rings was two. Suspicious, she sneaked into her husband's company and found a large stack of invoices from the office. All the gifts are double!

Clever girlfriend quickly smelled the man cheating and threw the invoice in front of the man with indignation. The man bowed his head and told the truth. As early as three years ago, the man sneaked in and hooked up with the female secretary. The man cried and begged his girlfriend Ying to forgive him, saying that he never wanted to divorce her!

His girlfriend, Ying Ying, was in great pain and asked the man and the secretary to make a clean break. Since then, he forgave him. The man apparently agreed, but before long, both sides had two feet.

My girlfriend has lived in England for many years and left. She is almost forty years old, and there are too many disappointments. Never give up, my heart ached, and only those who have experienced it can understand the taste of suffering. Everyone advised her, after all, men are affectionate and righteous, and really don't want to break up this family. I don't know that this seemingly affectionate is actually the most ruthless-if you really love someone, how can you not know the pain of the other person?

Sisters, do you still believe that there are 100% reliable men in this world? Do you still think that men will know how to cherish you as long as they share joys and sorrows?

Maybe someone will ask me, Sister Ya, if you say so, then there is no reliable man in this world? First of all, I don't want to answer this question. I just want to ask you first: you have hands and feet, brains and wisdom. Why do you think of relying on men? Why can't you rely on yourself?

Is there anyone in this world who is more reliable than himself?

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A few days ago, I watched an emotional program "Love Battle": a girl graduated from college and stayed at home for three years, relying entirely on her boyfriend to support her. Boyfriend's salary is only over 2000, and they are living in poverty. But girls want to buy brand-name bags, use brand-name cosmetics and live in a spacious and bright house. The boy's salary is low, which naturally can't satisfy her wishes, so the girl is full of complaints, and the two of them made a TV series.

The female guest asked the girl: you are still young, why don't you go to work to make money to satisfy your so many desires? The girl blinked and replied, "Then why should I find a boyfriend?"

The audience thundered, and the female guests were puzzled: "Are you looking for a boyfriend to support you?" Zhao Chuan, the male host, couldn't help interrupting: "There is no rule that boyfriends must have girlfriends. Even the wife and husband have no responsibility, let alone a girlfriend! " As the old saying goes, you can eat mountains by relying on mountains and draw water by relying on water. Why rely on someone who once had no relatives with us? Is it because of love that a man has the responsibility and obligation to be your backer? Don't you think a woman with this idea is ridiculous and ignorant?

We find a man to fall in love and get married just to have children and prolong life, not to be lonely on the journey of life, to share and harvest the joy and happiness of life with another person, but to find a long-term meal ticket. Otherwise, why do men find such a burden?

In this society, each of us, including women, should not be dependent and always want to live on others. But to be self-reliant and live a wonderful life in live high. This is the most reliable way of life, both economically and spiritually.

No one can make us strong unless women are self-reliant; Women don't love themselves, no one can give us dignity; Women don't stand on their own feet, and no one can help us stand on our own feet. Only by relying on their own efforts to struggle and gain, can such a woman truly live a feminine taste, a feminine taste and eternal beauty.

Only by not giving up on herself can a woman make continuous progress. Only by propping up the sails of self-esteem and self-improvement can she ride the wind and waves in the ocean of life and move forward calmly all the way!

Sisters, we live and struggle independently, which is the respect and awe for life. It is better to rely on men than on yourself.