The so-called online dating means that computers and computers talk from the heart, keyboards talk about love, and mice fall in love.
The so-called online dating means "letting my love drift through your net" when chatting, and "only you know my lonely heart best when there is a power failure".
The so-called online love is chat room love. Chat room is a love supermarket, there is always one for you to choose from.
The so-called online dating is the love on QQ. The avatar on QQ is like a star, and there is always one to light up for you.
The so-called online dating is the love on BBS. BBS is full of thousands of amorous feelings, and there is always a feeling that it is open to you.
The so-called online dating is a software. This software has the function of practicing typing, and online dating may not become a love expert, so it should be a cinch to apply for the position of typist.
The so-called online dating is a game. This game is simple and easy. Two IDs, a chicken, a cat and a mouse, and then repeatedly hit the keyboard to experience the feeling of heartbeat.
The so-called online dating is a virus. When this virus broke out, it was easier to turn on the computer than to turn it off, and there were repeated garbled words like "I love you, I love you, I love you".
The so-called online dating is a fitness program. Online dating has a long way to go, and you can exercise without playing ball or running. The road to love is rugged and steep, and you can enjoy the magnificent scenery without suffering. Over time, it will become a body of steel, and all poisons will not invade.
The so-called online dating is a slimming plan. One kind of lovesickness, two places of leisure worries, makes people haggard for Iraq. The beauty of online dating lies in distance, and modern people regard thinness as beauty, which proves the correctness and necessity of online dating.
The so-called online dating is a sport. Look at people who get up early to run, there are fat people and thin people, and fat people want to be thin and fat. It's really hard to remember. It's better for everyone to engage in online dating. "Carry out online dating activities to enhance people's physique."
The so-called online dating is to spend a full moon on the screen and talk and laugh alone.
The so-called online dating is to stand in front of the mirror and love yourself. The so-called online dating is a love rehearsal or love review.
The so-called online dating means loving only a little crazy foreigners, not talking about marriage.
The so-called online dating means that you die when you see the light, and you die when you don't see the light.
The so-called online dating is suffering! How beautiful!
The so-called online love, like a small sailboat, will never reach the shore in the sea. Online dating-the disadvantage of online dating is that you don't know the true face of the person behind the screen. Research shows that many people who surf the Internet can't escape the problem of online dating. Different people have different views on online dating. Some people avoid it because they are afraid of falling into the trap of online dating and getting hurt. Some people think it doesn't matter. They think it's good to have a spiritual love online when they meet someone they like. Some people think that although online dating is beautiful and romantic, it is always too empty. After the beauty treatment, it was too painful. I want to try, but I'm afraid, so I have an ambiguous feeling. The network allows strangers to know each other. Even though we are far apart, there is no sense of distance because of the magic of the network. Our world has become more exciting and vivid because of the network. Almost all people who surf the internet will lament the illusion of the network. Almost everyone has resisted the charm of online dating, but most people can't stand the temptation and are attracted by the mystery of the network, and people's emotions will be affected by their attachment to it. So there is no indestructible emotion. When some ignorant emotions breed from the heart, when some uneasy emotions spread from the bottom of my heart, even people who think they are very rational will be confused and collapse, will be troubled by an emotion that they have neglected, and will be throbbed by a love that has been proved to be illusory by countless people. And these hearts may arise inadvertently, making people hard to prevent, and when they are discovered, they are caught off guard, in vain, and fall into a more confused state. In real life, many people wear hypocritical masks and rarely show their true feelings and inner thoughts in front of others. Lack of conversation makes many people feel physically and mentally exhausted. In the network world, facing the computer, the pressure is much less. Online dating parties can put aside all pretences and communicate with people with calm words here. This kind of communication narrows the distance between hearts, releases our feelings unreservedly in the emotional world, and gives us a real space to be ourselves, so that our feelings and dreams can fly with music in such a real space. Maybe it's hard for internet surfers in life to say "I love you" to the person they like, but in the network, internet surfers can boldly shout out the person they like. Surfers can send flowers to people they like, give them kisses and hugs, write love letters to people they like, propose marriage and even get married online. These are virtual scenes, but people's feelings are real, with ups and downs and real love. Some people will say that these are all impulsive behaviors. Even if everything is said online and finally separated, you don't have to bear any responsibility, so online dating is just a game and a dream. However, when a surfer falls in love with a person, those true feelings, those feelings, those trance-like thoughts, those inner desires, those sweet romances, and those who are very much in love with each other, the surfer cannot say that online love is a kind of love without feelings and responsibilities. Maybe the online dating object behind the screen is just an abstract code for the surfer, but those feelings of love are really alive. No one can erase these inner feelings because of the illusion of the internet. Even if it turns into a sad past without results, the memories of online dating will still be hidden in my heart. People who surf the Internet have a virtual space. Online dating has a fascinating beauty, which makes some people stubborn, makes love more romantic and makes life better, but no matter how beautiful online dating is, it is always too empty. So many times, for many people, online dating comes and goes in a hurry. When all the blushes fade away with the encounter, those who hesitated between reality and virtuality, those who were so close at hand, may also fade away because of the fading enthusiasm. Giving up may be unwilling, but continuing. The distance between reality and reality makes people feel physically and mentally exhausted. After weighing, they always choose to give up, so everything goes up in smoke, which is also the saddest and helpless place of online dating. The beauty and romance of online dating make people online have a kind of virtual online dating, and the attraction and uniqueness of online dating make people who linger online have a fatal trap and fall into ecstasy. Although the flowers of online love are gorgeous, there are few results, which is the most painful thing for people trapped in them. Lovely people are emotional animals. Treating online love correctly, without extravagant hopes and harm, and relaxing the heart is probably the best ending. Online dating-online dating is more harmful to online dating than "from ruin". The charm of online dating lies in the illusion of the network, and the harm of online dating lies in the illusion of the network. If you naively think that the network is a paradise and linger, it will endanger normal real life. People who love online should not take online dating seriously. After all, the romance of online dating is rooted in the illusory network. At best, it can only be used as a condiment or a side dish in life, and it must not be a big meal. If you indulge in it, you will lose more than you gain. Indeed, some online lovers have really become lovers in real life and get along well with each other. That's because the two sides don't wear many masks when communicating online, so they will feel that there is not much difference after meeting. They can also fall in love with abstract images online, and naturally accept real people offline. However, not every online love will end in a happy ending, but more is "from ruin". Rogue Cai once said: the network usually produces three kinds of people. The first will highlight his second personality on the internet, the second will be the kind of person he "hopes" to become on the internet, and the third will be the kind of person he "can't" become on the internet. So many people wear masks online, and the person you like online may actually be another person. Therefore, the emotions generated online are incomplete, and there are few successful examples of online dating returning to reality. After netizens meet, the result is often sad. This kind of example is not uncommon in online dating. For example, it is the best example that online dating objects find themselves gay when they meet. Maybe people will argue that this is because they don't distinguish between illusion and reality. If online dating is controlled in illusion, it will still be a paradise. This statement is actually untenable. After all, people are emotional animals, and it is always so elusive to tolerate their close lovers on the Internet. How many people can calmly tell themselves that this is online dating, which is illusory; How many people can ruthlessly separate their emotions from reality, and in reality, they can completely treat things as if they never happened! This is especially true for online marriage. Compared with keeping concubines and bigamy, the psychological pressure is not small. The influence of online dating is not limited to netizens. Surfing the Internet for a long time will undoubtedly reduce the communication time with relatives, friends and colleagues, and will naturally bring inconvenience to your family, life and work. More and more American women begin to complain that their husbands spend a lot of time chatting with strange women online, which makes them feel unprecedented family crisis. Dan Gretel, a private detective, said that "extramarital affairs" caused by online chatting and online communication are leading to the disintegration of more and more families. In the cases he took over, 15% of the "peach affair" caused the Internet; Many people indulge in the sweet talk of a stranger in the dead of night, but turn a blind eye to the man or woman who washes dishes for themselves three times a day. An expert on marriage said: "The Internet is connected with the world, but it often causes problems about disconnection." Online dating has brought a devastating impact on our traditional love, family concepts and patterns. Online dating slowly ruined marriage. "I'm really at a loss. I can't stop thinking about him. I can't stop thinking about him even at work. Why? We got to know each other through the Internet. He comes and goes like the wind. I have never seen his true face in real life, but he has deeply occupied my heart. I'm trying to control myself, not turning on the computer or surfing the internet, but I finally did it. I want to know what "clues" he left, even a little, so I'm relieved. I also know that he is worried about me. " This is a case of married people's "online love". The heroine is a married woman, but she still can't resist the temptation of the internet and falls into the quagmire of "online love". According to the latest statistics of Shanghai Divorce Legal Consulting Network, extramarital love has become the number one killer affecting the feelings of couples in Shanghai, and "online love" is the fastest growing way of extramarital love, accounting for 20% of the whole extramarital love. Extramarital love is criticized by mainstream social values in real life, but the concealment of the network provides people with a relatively free space and gradually becomes the main way of extramarital love. Researchers from the Department of Social Work of China Women's University believe: "The highly competitive modern life makes many people feel boring, boring and stressed, dragging their tired but helpless bodies;" The trivial marriage life makes the topics of husband and wife communication less and less, and both men and women may find shelter on the Internet. "Some people think that online dating is much less harmful than extramarital affairs in reality and belongs to the category of forgiveness, but this is not the case. American psychologists believe that love in traditional marriage should include three main components: passion, intimacy and commitment. The online love of married people challenges the traditional concept of marriage: in reality, extramarital love is the pursuit of passion and the destruction of commitment, while online love seems to be a softer extramarital love, which is "being at home, being at home, and being online". On the surface, it didn't break the promise of marriage, but it can still find the long-lost passion in marriage. However, online dating makes the latent marriage problem unresolved for a long time, and the harm to marriage is long-term. Compared with other forms of extramarital affairs, online extramarital affairs are chronic to marriage. There are many people online dating, but the success rate is low. The online groups of online dating are mainly young people, and the young people have a strong sense of identity. The result of following the trend led to the popularity of online dating in this group. What is the attitude of young people in the face of more and more online dating phenomena? According to the survey, 65% of the respondents have a neutral attitude towards online dating, neither explicitly expressing their opposition nor openly expressing their approval. But only a few people clearly agree (12%) or oppose (24%) online dating. A sample survey among students by relevant departments shows that 95% students think that online dating has no love, but 35% students have experienced online dating. 9 1% students are not optimistic about online dating, but paradoxically, 63% students say they are willing to try if they have the chance. Among them, 56% people think it is because of emptiness and loneliness, and 39% people think that distance produces beauty. 14% of the students have experienced 1 times of online dating, and 2 1% of the students have experienced 2-3 times of online dating. However, the respondents' answers to whether online dating is possible are quite different: 8% think it is very possible, 36% think it is a little possible, 28% think it is uncertain, and 25% and 4% think it is impossible and absolutely impossible. Optimists believe that online dating pays more attention to the communication between thoughts and hearts, and love based on this should be stronger and have a greater chance of success. Pessimists, on the other hand, think that online chatting is a relatively simple way of understanding in the early stage of online dating, which makes the two sides lack real contact and understanding, so it is not easy to succeed. Online dating changes values. Online dating may cause personality split. Online dating is a new change in interpersonal communication and a new way of life for people. Its appearance will also bring such problems. The reporter interviewed some young people, and they all said that the success rate of online dating is very low, so why do many netizens enjoy it? Careful analysis is mainly because people's values have changed. In the past, one thing was either good or bad, and there can be no third situation. Now people generally think that good and bad, right and wrong cross each other, and there is no absolute boundary. Young people's curiosity about new things inspires them to try some marginal behaviors. According to the survey, young people nowadays are quite tolerant of online dating, and most of the respondents said that this is a matter of personal choice and will not interfere and evaluate. Online dating may cause personality split. In addition, the survey also found that online dating mostly comes from cities. Young people in relatively developed areas may spend more time online and have less rejection of new things, so online dating is more likely. Experts engaged in psychological education found through analysis that online dating includes many psychological types, such as games, emotional sustenance, pursuit of romance, self-expression, pursuit of fashion, drifting with the flow and so on. No matter which type it is, almost all have a common feature: treating online dating as an online game and conducting online emotional communication, "not only can we completely abandon all the rules of the real society, but we can also blur gender and identity and treat everything as a game." Experts believe that after entering the Internet era, invisible network cables have begun to replace the red line of the old month. It is not surprising that many men and women who have never met or even separated fall in love through the internet, but it is forbidden to regard online dating as the pursuit of life. The survey shows that some young people do not rest at noon and at night, and work overtime for online dating, which not only seriously affects their study or work, but also tends to become withdrawn or even split. Internet is just a way of communication. Online dating is just a way of communication. Internet is a very hidden way of communication. The difference between people and the opposite sex is that you can see, hear and get in touch with each other's people and things more or less in other ways, but you can't have a perceptual understanding of each other on the Internet. Marriage experts believe that the Internet is an inevitable way for people to communicate in the information age. Through online dating or even marriage, we can break the narrow interpersonal circle around us and expand the choice. However, because the network world is virtual and divorced from the material foundation, it is not stable. For a stable marriage and family, the practical effect of this method cannot be exaggerated. Experts in the judicial department believe that using the internet to fall in love is not a bad thing. The key is how to avoid risks and hazards. Compared with other ways of love, online dating without meeting each other is easily confused by superficial phenomena, and news that bad people use online dating to commit crimes is also common. Young people must pay more attention to online dating.