This is not serious, and worse behavior is yet to come. Later, the nurse picked up the baby again. I guess I was not only bored when I heard him cry, but also shook him hard and even threw it away, and then walked away. This process is as casual as "throwing garbage".
What makes people even more angry is that another nurse took this process seriously, but did not stop it. She just kept watching quietly.
Parents were furious when they saw these videos.
Later, the parents asked the neighborhood office to intervene, and the Shayuan neighborhood office in Haizhu District issued a briefing on this matter: According to the briefing of the Shayuan neighborhood office, on June 28th, 165438+ some netizens posted a video reflecting that a nurse in Yuelai Yuemeizi Center was suspected of abusing a baby. After receiving relevant information, Shayuan Street first set up a special investigation team in conjunction with relevant departments in the district. At present, a health check-up has been carried out for the baby, and the baby is in good health. The nurses involved have been suspended for investigation and the relevant managers have been suspended for inspection.
On the afternoon of June 29th, 165438+, the street set up a platform for communication, and the two sides reached a preliminary agreement.
Although this matter seems to have been solved, judging from the behavior of the nurses who watched quietly, this kind of baby abuse is nothing new in this month's center.
And on the day of the incident, when the parents found that the baby's nose was bruised and consulted the head nurse, she also tried to cover up the employees with lies. Later, parents asked to see the monitoring before discovering this bad behavior.
I wonder if other nurses in this month's center will treat other babies in the same way. Every child is a baby born by a mother who risked her life in October. I originally chose to go to the Yuezi Center to save myself snacks, but I didn't expect it to be even worse.
1, with professional nurses and nurses.
Many novice mothers don't take their children, hoping to be guided during confinement, and the confinement center will generally recruit some professional nurses, nutritionists and nurses, which will make novice mothers feel more at ease to give their babies to them.
Don't worry about what to eat
Generally, the monthly center will prepare 5-6 meals for postpartum mothers every day, which is not only diverse in taste, but also balanced in nutrition, which can save a lot of cooking time and energy for family members.
3, can do all kinds of care
Compared with Yue Yue, Confucius Center has another advantage, that is, it can do all kinds of nursing, including breast feeding, pelvic floor muscle repair, rectus abdominis repair and other health care items, which are really needed by postpartum mothers.
4, cleaner and more hygienic
Generally, the month center will disinfect the room regularly, and the aunt will clean it every day, which may be cleaner than living at home. In this way, mothers don't have to take care of their children and do housework, so they can spare more time to rest.
5. You can sleep peacefully.
At the Yuezi Center, it will be open 24 hours a day. If you want to sleep and rest, you can leave the children in their care, which will ensure that you have enough sleep and let your body recover as soon as possible.
Seeing so many benefits, many mothers now choose to have a confinement in the confinement center, but all this is based on the trust in the environment and personnel of the confinement center. If the month center is exposed to such behavior, my mother will not know what to do when she chooses in the future.
At that time, after I gave birth, I also chose to go to the Yuezi Center, so I combined my own experience to sum up how to choose.
1, depending on the geographical location
Geographical location is very important. Although mom doesn't have to come out for a month, your husband will go to work, and your family will often come to see you during your confinement. Therefore, in terms of location, it is suggested to choose a place close to home or where the husband works, which can better facilitate their travel during this time.
In addition, try to choose some large business districts, because you don't have to worry about food and shelter, but your family or husband still needs food and shelter every day. Choosing a big business district can better meet his daily needs.
One more thing is worth reminding. At that time, there was a big square downstairs in the Confucius Center I chose. At night, many aunts will dance square dance there, and the sound is still relatively loud. So when choosing a room, my mother can take all these into consideration, or try to choose a room not close to the road. If you have to face the road, you should also see if the sound insulation is in place and try to ensure that the baby can sleep in a quiet environment.
2. Look at this room
First of all, when you go to the scene, you should see whether the room is a single room or a big bed room, whether it is a single room or a living room, and what to do without the privacy of the living room.
I lived in a room where I could see the big bed as soon as I entered. I didn't think there was any problem at first, but later I learned that if there was no living room and curtains, relatives and friends would come to visit and just met the baby who wanted to drink milk. That's very troublesome, and sometimes when I'm doing some private projects in my room, my cleaning aunt or visitors don't know, and it's even more embarrassing for me to rush in.
So when choosing a house, we must pay attention to this.
Secondly, it is necessary to pay attention to the situation of formaldehyde and fresh air system in the room, because some month-end centers are eager to open after renovation, so formaldehyde may exceed the standard. Parents need special attention. If the room can be equipped with air purifier and other equipment, it will be more friendly to the baby and Ma Bao.
In addition, it depends on the orientation and lighting of the room, because newborns have to bask in the sun every day. It would be nice if there is a special place for the baby to bask in the sun in the center of the month. If not, it is necessary to consider whether the sun can shine on the room or the place where the child sleeps.
Finally, it depends on whether some equipment in the room is complete, such as water heater, air purifier, humidifier, air conditioner (independent air conditioner or central air conditioner), TV, refrigerator, washing machine, TV, wifi, disinfection cabinet, milk warmer and so on.
Step 3 look at postpartum care
After delivery, the mother will go back to the hospital regularly for reexamination or the baby has various emergencies. All of these need to be asked in advance about the response measures of the Confucius Center.
There are also some postpartum care for mothers and infants, such as whether there are services for postpartum mothers such as wound disinfection, lochia cleaning, bathing and shampooing, and whether the baby will take temperature, weight, jaundice value, navel care, nail pruning and so on. These basic services need to be asked whether they are included in the package fee, whether there is a limit on the number of times, and whether there is an extra charge.
This involves whether it is necessary to increase the cost of confinement in the future, and it will be better to communicate clearly in advance.
4. Look at the healthy production project
In fact, many monthly center packages don't make money. Where they make money depends on the later medical care projects. Therefore, when choosing a month center, don't just look at the price, but also look at what items are included.
It is necessary to clearly know which health care items will be done, whether it is technology or machinery, including how many times to do it, how much extra money is needed if it is to be increased, whether it can be done after it is not finished, whether unnecessary items can be replaced or replaced, and so on.
Knowing these details can save you a lot of trouble and money.
5, watch the moon meal
Here, I want to know whether the moon meal is cooked by myself or outsourced. If it is cooked by myself, do you have a hygiene license, how many meals are there every day, when to deliver them, whether the baby or the parturient has allergies, whether it can be handled specially, whether the nutritious meal is designed by a nutritionist, whether to stay in the store, and how many supplements there are in a month, such as bird's nest, abalone, sea cucumber and so on. , whether it is necessary to add meals, what are the requirements, etc.
These situations need to be communicated clearly in advance so that mothers can evaluate whether the moon meal can meet their daily dietary needs.
6, look at the company's qualifications and nursing team.
During the inspection, parents record the business license information of Ziyue Center. After that, they can check online when it is open and whether there is any violation. They can also look at the insured personnel of this company, so as to judge whether most people in this center are their own or outsourced.
In addition, we also need to know the situation of the medical team, whether there are professional doctors, head nurses and nurses, whether they are qualified, what their work experience is, whether the doctors stay in the store, whether they will pay a return visit to their postpartum mothers regularly, and who they can turn to for help if they have problems during confinement.
The qualification depends on how many babies a nurse usually gives birth to, how many years of work, and whether she can change if she is dissatisfied.
Before choosing a month center, you need to know the above information clearly, and mothers can also conduct more consultation and investigation on the month center according to their own life and diet.
Only by doing the preliminary work well can we better ensure the safety of ourselves and our baby during confinement. This is the time when you and your baby are most vulnerable and need to be taken care of. If there is any accident during this period, you or your baby may burn to the root of the disease, which will be difficult to make up later.
Here, I hope that all expectant mothers can choose a month center that they like, so that they can sit happily, and the baby can eat well, sleep well and grow up healthily.