Low emotional intelligence makes people unhappy without knowing it. At that time, they were complacent, and many years later, they cried by themselves. Tell me a story of my own. When I was young, my emotional intelligence was particularly low (it seems that it is not dripping now), and I often followed my temper, regardless of others.

Once, I had dinner with the boss of my former company and a group of colleagues from my former company. Because the boss of the money company has left Shanghai for Xiamen for a long time, everyone is chatting enthusiastically when they meet. Everyone is boasting that the former boss has lost a lot of weight (female) and a lot of spirit. Let the former boss share his experience in slimming and maintaining. The former boss said that he lost weight because he practiced yoga, and the effect was good, but it was a little slow.

When my former boss said this, I could still listen quietly, because I have been studying weight loss for a long time and tried various methods. Later, the former boss said that there is actually a good way to help the body expel moisture, which is very effective and helpful for slimming. At this time, everyone pricked up their ears, showing a very nervous state, and even took a small notebook to record the action. Mainly at this time, the former boss is a special suspense, and he said slowly there. I really couldn't help it when she said it was "gorgon porridge". Then he said loudly, "Ah, it's Gordon Euryale barley porridge, which tastes terrible and has no effect at all!"! Then I said a lot. I don't remember myself, but I still remember the way my colleagues looked at me. It's really meaningful.

The former boss laid the groundwork in front of me in vain and looked at me helplessly. From then on, we have no intersection. Many years later, I want to bite off my tongue when I think about it.

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