If you can meet him, meet him at all costs. I have some long-distance relationships around me. They may be separated for a month or even half a year. They often suffer from missing each other. For them, seeing each other is the happiest thing, so many people will choose to go to each other's cities to surprise each other, and then their feelings will warm up, which can also alleviate the pain of missing themselves. In fact, sometimes it is a good thing to miss someone, because now we seem to care less and less about things and don't know how to cherish them. Only when we are suffering from being missed, will we really know how to cherish the days together at the moment we meet. I support meeting, but only if the other person wants to see you, otherwise everything is meaningless, just a hot face and a cold ass. Remember reading this sentence before? I want to see you, but I won't ask, because only if you want to see me, will our meeting be meaningful? .
If you can't see it, divert your attention. Sometimes we think too much, or we can't let go of one person. Many reasons are because we have too much free time, so if we miss someone so much that we can't meet, we might as well keep ourselves busy. It can be crazy work, drinking and chatting with three or five friends, of course, fitness reading, or participating in some interesting activities, which can not only divert our attention, but also improve some of our lifestyles. Over time, as we get farther and farther away from ourselves in the past, our thoughts about that person will inevitably fade.
Live a good life and learn to reconcile with your thoughts. Think of a lyric of Eason Chan? Who do you think can't sleep? You should be proud. Many people want to be lovelorn and have no goals. Indeed, it is a good thing to have someone in your heart that you miss, can make us feel more, or can make us remember forever. Nowadays, many people are very empty inside, without a backbone and a pillar of soul, so when you get used to missing and live in peace with it, you will find that missing someone is not a bad thing, and there is no need to meet them. As time goes on, life will go on until you can tell your past with a relaxed smile.