I saw a topic on the Internet: Are employees aged 35+ a valuable resource or a burden for the company?

Some people say: 35 years old, with rich experience in the workplace and stronger professional skills; Some people say: 35 years old, physical strength and energy degradation, work is easy to burnout; Some people say: 35 years old, mature in the world, in the prime of life;

From the workplace, 35 years old can be described as a major watershed in life. Some people are promoted and paid a raise, or they can make great achievements, and some people are aging in knowledge, declining in function and exhausted in energy, wandering in low-end posts.

If the age of 35 is a watershed for professionals, is the 35+-year-old treasure mother another layer of anxiety?

Bean mother is 35 years old and is the boss's right-hand man in the workplace. But at the same time, Mama Dou is also an 80-year-old mother. Dabao goes to junior high school, bean baby kindergarten and has lunch at school. Bean mother will pick up and drop off Baby Bean in the morning and evening, which is not in conflict with work, but after that, Baby Bean will be in the first grade and must be picked up and dropped off all day. But she can't be late, can't leave early, and can't ask for leave every day. Bean mother's anxiety: what should I do? Conflict with working hours!

35-year-old, old and young, especially as a housewife, career and family run at both ends. When the balance of life tilts towards children, there should be many baby mothers who are as anxious as Douma.

Let's look at Xiao Wei's mother, the mother of her friend Xiao Wei. When Xiao Wei was in the third grade, at the age of 35, she and her father opened a furniture factory in Jiangsu. At that time, her grades dropped sharply. Ma Wei made a decision and went home to study with his son.

How can I make money to support my family when I go home with my son? Ma Wei bought a modern car and planned to drive a taxi in the county. The couple take turns on duty and can go home to accompany their son sooner or later.

However, the business in my hometown is not good, and I don't earn much money, which is very tangled. Ma Wei is a good cook. One person can book 20 tables and work as a catering coordinator in the hotel.

After a while, I still didn't make much money and I was tired. I went to the township to contract the orange orchard, let the trucks pull oranges to Guangdong and Guangxi to find the market, and went out by car for many days, making a lot of money.

But my son spends more time alone at home, which runs counter to the original intention of accompanying his son. Tangled.

After a while, Ma Wei's circle of friends suddenly began to recruit students to take the driver's license test. It turned out that she turned to be a driving school coach. Nine to five, very regular working hours. Ma Wei said, you can't have too much money, and it's the biggest failure that children don't accompany you. The child's companionship is far away, and it will never come back. It is still necessary to return to the right track.

I remember a famous person said: When my mother was 35 years old, it was just to support my brother and me to study. Life at home is always poor, but her mother is never anxious. She always accompanied us optimistically, and let us finish high school and college. I think she is the most successful mother.

I remember when my mother was 35 years old, my sister, my three younger brothers and I were all studying. There were five schoolbags at home, and my father was just an ordinary worker. In my impression, the mother is tireless, optimistic and open-minded, which also cultivates the child's character. I think my mother is also successful.

Here I want to talk about Joanne Catherine Rowling. Maybe you don't know her. Do you know Harry Potter? Yes, she is the author of this novel. Do you know that?/You know what? Before the age of 35, Joanne, like you and me, was not the kind of person who was extremely smart and promoted to a higher position. Her study is average, her grades are average, her personality is average, and she is average in college.

In her twenties, she married a foreign man and gave birth to a daughter. After her husband's repeated domestic violence, she decided to divorce. She has a child and no job. Long-term domestic violence made her depressed and often wanted to commit suicide. She lost her job and was down and out. That year, she was less than 30 years old, and life seemed clear at a glance.

200 1 year, Joan was 35 years old and became a billionaire. What miracle happened?

It turns out that Joanne began to fantasize and write at the age of 30. At the lowest point of her life, she let go of her childhood fantasy. After five years, she knew her hardships and crossed herself. She went towards her goal and wrote these fantasies, which made Harry Potter popular among children all over the world.

Throughout history, many great men have made great achievements, as if after middle age. Taishi Gong said: King Wen was arrested and went to Zhouyi; Zhong You wrote Spring and Autumn Annals; Qu Yuan's exile is an ode to Li Sao. Zuo Qiu is blind and has "Mandarin"; Revise Sun Tzu's Art of War; Don't be Shulan; Han Fei imprisoned 300 pieces of Qin's unspeakable secrets, and he was lonely and angry, and the actions of the sages under the ground were also furious.

Perhaps, as a 35+ treasure mother, I dare not compare with any great sage writer. But also in the prime of life. If you keep a clear head, keep studying, take good care of your baby, read books, write articles and do some part-time jobs, gold will always shine.

Poverty changes. How can you be anxious if you have ideas and goals? Maybe, one day, you will be Joanne of Harry Potter.