I have a good brother in my hometown and countryside. His name is Ren Dong. We grew up together and later came to Shenzhen to work together. We often contact each other.
1. Understanding between two people
Just one weekend half a year ago, we all had a holiday, but we also agreed to go out to play together.
In this way, when I get up early in the morning on weekends, I will sort out my personal clothes and so on.
Because I haven't seen my good brother Ren Dong for a long time, it is inevitable that the two brothers will have a drink when they meet in the evening.
When I went out, I brought two colleagues and wanted to introduce my good brother Ren Dong.
Soon, I took my two colleagues and met Ren Dong at the appointed place.
Ren Dong also brought two people, a man and a woman, who are lovers.
I don't know what my good brother thinks, but he brought some out. I laughed too!
Finally, we went to the park for a day.
We talked a lot along the way because we are all of the same age! The most talked about topic is about the object.
Then I said, "Brother, do you want me to recommend one of the two beautiful women I brought to you?"
Ren Dong: "Yes, I'd love to!" "
In this way, two people added WeChat on the spot.
As a good brother, I can only silently wish them together.
We traveled on the road and really had a good time.
Time flies, it's already 6 o'clock in the evening.
We walked out of the park together, and then six people casually found a Hunan Hunan restaurant to eat.
I didn't drink because I had to drive. It is still a pity. After all, for people like us who like to drink, it's better to be with our good brothers.
There is still a lot of time and opportunities, and it's no use regretting. We all have to go back. After all, we all have to work the next day.
In this way, the happy weekend is over, and good brothers also have the contact information of beautiful women.
Two people should be together.
The next day, we all threw ourselves into our work. Because of my busy work, I have less time to talk about my life with my brothers and colleagues.
Just two months later, my good brother called me and said, "Brother, are you free tonight?" I want to buy you a drink! " "
I was curious and asked him, "What's the good news? Think of me?"
Brother: "Thanks to you, I don't have to pay the bill now."
Seriously, I'm still confused at this time. What happened?
I asked my brother, "Why is it my blessing?"
My brother didn't say anything, but sent me a seat directly, with a note: "See you at eight o'clock tonight."
My good brother Ren Dong knew I wouldn't stand up and didn't say much. Of course, I didn't ask much. After all, people didn't say anything.
Soon I got off work, and my good brother sent me a message saying, "Brother, take Xiaoya with you!" "
At this time, I probably understand what is going on, but that's just my guess!
I didn't believe it until my brother Ren Dong told me himself.
Soon, I called Xiaoya, and she came soon.
Xiaoya and I are colleagues. We work in a company and have a good relationship. Otherwise, we wouldn't have taken her on our last trip.
On the way, I asked Xiaoya, "Xiaoya, are you with my brother?"
Xiaoya said gently, "No,no."
I can't keep asking her this question, after all, people don't want to say it.
Soon, at 7: 30, we arrived at our better place.
My good brother saw me take care of Xiaoya first and help Xiaoya with his bag, and then said to me, "Xiao Qiang, let's go to the private room on the second floor."
"Good", coming!
The table we are sitting on is a rectangular table. No one can sit on the left and right sides, only the front and back can sit.
The two of them left first, and then sat directly together, so I had to sit opposite them.
Generally speaking, we all like to wash dishes with tea. Watching Ren Dong directly help Xiaoya wash the dishes and sit together, I actually know everything, just like I thought.
The service in this restaurant is really fast, and the dishes are served in less than 15 minutes.
When I was eating, I also went straight to the topic: "Brother! Tell me, what's good for me to eat today? "
Brother Ren Dong: "Don't you know? Also know perfectly well past ask "
All three of us laughed. ...
I also added: "Brother, you are really something. You got the factory flowers of our company done so quickly. "
At this time, Xiaoya embarrassed, took the hand of a good brother.
But it's nothing. We often play jokes on each other.
Finally, we also had a good time and witnessed a pair of lovers that we personally promoted. We felt very successful.
After eating, I also paid the bill and left alone!
3. Two people are in conflict
After being together, I often watch two people's circle of friends take photos of each other and sprinkle dog food regularly.
Since we had dinner together, they have made their relationship public and we are all happy for them.
Time passed, the years were silent, and three months passed quickly.
Although I often chat with my good brothers, I never talk about life.
On this day, my good brother called me. He asked me what happened to Xiaoya these two days and whether he went to work.
I told my good brother: "Xiaoya has been working these days!" What happened?
Later, I learned that Xiaoya and my good brother had quarreled, but they both had a good relationship with me.
Often when two people don't want to tell each other what they said, they both come to tell me, but I become their messenger.
To tell the truth, their affairs are quite annoying and they don't want to meddle at all.
But one is a good colleague and the other is a good brother, and I am the object of my single-handedly training.
Whatever the reason, I don't want them to separate, because it has a great influence on me.
Finally, with my help, the two succeeded in making up.
I really paid a lot to help them. I am really tired! I feel I really regret it!
4. Never introduce you.
With the above experience, I want to tell you, never introduce a person to others.
If two people are together, maybe they will appreciate you.
If two people are not together, maybe both of them will hate you.
If they do more harm to each other, they will have to bear an "unwarranted" crime.
Why bother?
Therefore, never introduce a person to others.
Conclusion: Maybe you want to pair two people out of kindness, but the biggest crime is you. In fact, two people need to see fate together. If two people really have fate and don't need your help at all, they will be together. So there is absolutely no need to introduce a person to others, and it may even be thankless. Why bother? What do you think differently about this?
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