But personally, there is a classic saying called "What can you control if you can't control your weight?" This sentence is not absolute, but there is no problem to a large extent.
Why lose weight? If you look at the entertainment circle, it's not that there are no fat people, but that fat people are either extremely emotional and acting, or they can't get particularly great results. Why? Because whoever it is, it has something to do with looks. If two people are similar in family background, knowledge, education and behavior, everyone will definitely like the thin one.
Your spiritual beauty determines whether the other party will accept you, and your physical beauty determines whether the other party will (how likely) understand your spiritual beauty.
So I think it's better to lose weight unless it's physical condition or illness. Everyone is right, including myself. It looks more comfortable. I used to be slightly fat, and I lost 30 Jin in the last two years. In fact, I only exercise for 30 minutes every day, and the intensity is not high, but the abdominal muscles and chest muscles are all out. Friends all say that "potential stocks (fat dead) have become Gao Fushuai".
To put it bluntly, boys have no right to ask girls to lose weight, but girls want to find a male ticket with high face value and good figure. What makes you think that even if you are fat, you must have a male god to like it? At least I will think that I insist on fitness and weight loss, not asking you to be thin, so why can't you be thin?
Besides, is there such a big difference between fitness and losing weight and signing up for a study class to get a certificate? It will improve others' impression of you. Don't say that you are gold, you will shine. Your gold is under the fat (so is the beauty of your brain and heart). Others look disgusting, why do you explore? You will shine when you have the opportunity, and people will not be willing to give you the opportunity. What can you do?