"Women are pleasing to themselves" comes from the Warring States policy? Zhao Ceyi, "A scholar dies for a confidant, and a woman is ashamed of herself." It means that people with lofty ideals sacrifice for those who know themselves, and women dress up for those who like themselves. The popular magazine Le Ji quoted this allusion and appropriately expressed this fashion. At first, the feeling that "women like themselves" gave me was synonymous with young women's fashion taste.

With the growth of age, the concept of this sentence is getting deeper and deeper in my heart. "Woman" is not just for young women. It represents women of all ages and all stages of life. Women in the new era get rid of traditional prejudice and status and appear in society with a brand-new attitude. In my opinion, "women are pleasing to themselves" has three meanings:

One is to keep a beautiful appearance for everyone, including yourself. Make yourself look more beautiful, more refined and more temperamental. Everyone has a love for beauty, but in this era of highly commercialized and daily beauty, many people are rejected by their boyfriends because they don't dress up and suffer unfair treatment after marriage. So make yourself beautiful anyway, which is the foundation of society and foothold. Nowadays, beautiful women are all tough guys. In order to be beautiful, to have temperament, and to keep in shape, they are highly self-disciplined and tenacious to be amazing! Those beautiful women who have no dead ends and are impeccable are still working hard. What reason do we have not to be unkempt and ask others to look only at our inner beauty? After all, the image is in front of us and the heart is too far away. 10-year-old Xiao Chutian showed himself in front of various cameras. No matter how hard and tired he was, he didn't cry, leaving many excellent works for people. Tamia Liu, known as the "national daughter-in-law", is 4 1 year old. She still maintains a girl's posture and flexibility, and has persisted in difficult fitness for decades. 83-year-old supermodel Carmen? Dell is still working hard on the beautiful road, every move, every makeup is impeccable, and wherever it goes, it is a beautiful scenery; ... regardless of age and experience, they are trying to show their best. Therefore, pleasing to the eye is your capital, your magic weapon to gain respect and your love for life.

The second is to please yourself and be kind to yourself. Have an independent personality, do not rely on anyone, dominate their own spiritual world, entertain themselves, and have a sense of ceremony for themselves. Now all walks of life, the beauty overbearing president can be seen everywhere. They have careers, socialize, read books, listen to music, go where they want to go and see the scenery they want to see. No matter how busy you are at work, you should give yourself a holiday and don't treat yourself badly. When you get married, you should keep your own circle and appropriate independent space, be confident enough and don't be swayed by considerations of gain and loss. They are economically independent and ideologically independent, enjoying a beautiful life and not letting themselves be wronged. This is also one of the reasons why the marriage rate is low now. If men don't raise their awareness and want to find free nannies and birth tools when they get married, the number of 200 million bachelors will soar. Therefore, regardless of work, career or marriage, if you can't improve yourself, nourish yourself, enrich yourself and have a sense of happiness, more women will choose to be short, which is also respect and kindness to themselves.

The third is to meet a good lover and make yourself better. Find a soul mate who has the same three views and even nourishes the body and mind. Playing together, eating together, reading together, caring for each other, understanding each other, warming each other, sharing weal and woe, just doing nothing and staying together is very comfortable. I feel that I am enriched every day, happier every day, and more efficient in doing things. We can improve each other, hand in hand, watch the clouds rolling in the sky, listen to the flowers falling in bloom before the court, and face the sea every day and bloom warmly. Enrich your heart, meet better people and make yourself better.

Women are pleasing themselves, but now, they are no longer just dressing up for the opposite sex, in order to win attention and goodwill. Instead, women in the new era live well, treat themselves well, seize the initiative to make themselves happier and create more beauty and value for the world. I hope you and I can be happy with ourselves, have the ability to live a good life, get happiness and have a beautiful life!