First of all, I am very grateful for the changes that this course has brought me, not only the changes in appearance that can be seen by the naked eye, but also the changes that have awakened and enriched my mind, making me more assertive and determined to do what I want to do.

Last night, I saw Mr. Dean's circle of friends talking about making the wake-up class a lifestyle all year round. I really can't agree with him anymore. Next, I will talk about my personal experience and the reasons why I agree. I hope it helps.

Everyone seems to know that I am an airplane designer, and maybe Teacher Xixi and Senior Three 1 1 also know that I like Yifan, a lovely wind. Let me tell you who you really were before October.

As a standard science and engineering woman, my thinking is also extremely science and engineering because of my work. My job is very serious, and I almost always wear formal clothes and tooling to work, so I once thought that I was the real me after work. Because of laziness, I will continue to wear formal clothes or tooling for convenience on days when I am not at work, thinking that I have found myself. 95% of the items in the wardrobe are girls' and 5% are mature. Neutral wind and leisure wind are close to zero. This is because I don't like sports and masculine things. There is another more important reason. I have no hobbies, and I will not build a personal life system composed of hobbies.

Without hobbies, after giving birth to a daughter, I found it extremely harmful. When you are upset by trivial things, your world outlook and way of dealing with people are completely useless and can't guide yourself. Now it seems that my original judgment has been verified. For me, having a hobby that I am willing to pay for is the best outlet for my emotions.

Next, describe the beginning of my detour. I didn't have a hobby at that time, so I took making money as a hobby first:

So last year, I tried WeChat business, a complementary food, and gave up after half a month. It is not that people with the same frequency can't communicate.

Then parents want to buy an old-age house in Tangshan, their hometown. I'm not sure if this is correct, so I joined Spencer's house group last September, which should be the beginning of my turning point. I began to realize the importance of investing in myself from the inside out. Investing in yourself, I understand that there are three dimensions, one is learning, the other is doing things, and the third is answering. The iteration between the three will have a clearer sense of direction and purpose.

However, I was not so sober at that time. At the beginning of this year, I quickly joined the children's wear brand business. The idea at that time was simple. My partner is great, and I want to be as great as her.

I also joined the manager of the underwear super team leader. Creativity is also a link, and the goods are good.

In the process of doing it, we found that retail is not what I want to do. I think the lifestyle is really great, but we don't understand. At this time, I began to brush the little red book frequently for half a year, and regarded the little red book as a system learning software without knowing it. As a result, it is conceivable that the obtained fragmentary knowledge fragments not only conflict, but also bind people and solidify their thinking.

By this time, the discerning person has come out, and my thinking is extremely simple and solidified. In my eyes, money is actually not a hobby. Even when I spend money, I have no respect for money. The way of doing things is very simple, which can be summarized as: I want to change → I am not good at it → money helps me choose. For example, I want to expand my circle, but I am not good at it, so money will help me choose the right person and the right thing for me. So for a long time, I will buy the most expensive and comprehensive things I care about. For example, I reported almost all the early education in Zhuhai to my daughter, including online education and amphibious education. This is my impulsive consumption. Of course, it does involve some people. But I can only say that I spent money on classes without in-depth analysis of my real needs.

Gradually, I found something was wrong. At this time, it was almost the end of the buying group. Coach Ying Ning added me (she was not a coach at that time). There was not much communication at that time, and there is no communication now, but I still want to thank her. It was in her circle of friends that I linked to Kaka one day in September and directly asked if there was an escort service in Zhuhai according to the above simple and rude ideas. Kaka said no, but he also recommended me a Zhongshan escort. Now the escort didn't make it, but he became good friends. There is also a trip to the Aesthetic Garden.

Let's talk about the changes in October since I entered the park.

The purpose of my entry into the aesthetic garden is to create an autumn wardrobe. My idea at that time was that Zhuhai would spend ten months in summer, and the remaining two months would experience spring, summer, autumn and winter, so I bought a wardrobe in autumn at one time, which could satisfy the embarrassment of not wearing clothes for two months after many years. Now it has been realized, and more gains have been made.

The first harvest, an awakened attitude towards life.

In the wardrobe finishing class, it is said that the wardrobe is the epitome of your life. Indeed, the wardrobe will give me an unobstructed view, and the overalls I deliberately ignored are also part of the wardrobe. This shows that my life is composed of 80% hard work and 20% girl's heart. Combined with my daily work, the time-consuming project is the brainless girl. For example, the novels of overbearing presidents, psychological and emotional explanations, almost all use actual evidence to slap themselves, which is not what I want to be.

It's extremely easy to get out of the closet. At first, I was happy. I have reflected on it these days, indicating that there is something wrong with my previous shopping methods. Without careful selection, it is extremely easy to let go.

To this end, I began to examine myself through the wardrobe, whether my main business and sideline and the passionate aesthetics at present are what I want to do. Actually, I don't understand either I made a psychological question and answer, sorted out where I spent my spare time in 202 1 and asked myself if I was bored now and if I was interested. I found that I like it and do it in my spare time for almost a whole year, so I can do whatever I want.

Because I have a strong desire to be beautiful, the first thing is to make sure that I punch in, go to work during the day and come back at night to wait on the little princess until I go to bed. Obviously, the little energy I have left will get a useless card, so I decided to start punching in at around six o'clock every day, and unconsciously got rid of the bad habit of staying up late.

I jumped over again and improved on the basis of punching in. Because of my weak foundation, I did two things: First, I listened to the course repeatedly: at least twice, once in the evening and once in the morning. Later, I found that I couldn't listen, so I wrote down every important sentence of Mr. Dean (actually, it hasn't become my own); Read the card repeatedly: I have few clothes in my closet. I want to improve myself with the help of others. Thanks to Teacher Xixi, thanks to Senior 11. The day before yesterday, I started to record cards and set up my own list of test frames. In this process, I gained two things, the improvement of aesthetic feeling and the acceptance of the second round. Needless to say, the benefits of the double offer, whoever uses it knows. For example, take a photo before throwing away a pair of jeans, and write down the reason for throwing away and the upward direction. It is also very useful at work.

Finally, I saw a lot of beautiful things in my mind. I must try it and go out to contact. I tried art exhibition, picture book exhibition, concert and light drama this month. All of the above are one-time experiences. If the process of punching in allows me to gain a hobby, then going out allows me to gain the expansion of my hobby, and then my love for life does not stay on paper, but is awakened in my heart.

The second gain is to accept and know yourself and improve yourself.

When you wake up inside, you will begin to understand what you really are. I used to think I wanted to be a popular little leader in Raleigh. In this 2 1 day, I kept dressing up, looking at photos and looking at myself inside and outside. I find that I can't change my appearance or my love for lovely things, but I can reduce my proportion and enhance my strength.

Anyone who knows me well knows that what is in my mind is never a little woman, so it is really uncoordinated and inappropriate to wear girls' clothes and say indicative words when working overtime. Without a sense of authority, professionalism will decline. It was really thanks to my work clothes that I got help. I really can't ignore the importance of suits, shirts and tooling any more.

Accepting myself, I have my own foundation for UP. I have chosen one for almost every project since the first grass planting meeting. By the second time, I began to place orders selectively, and then I chose items closer to my heart according to my own preferences. By the third grass planting conference today, I began to understand the suitable atmosphere behind each accessory, whether I would go to that atmosphere, whether I really liked it, and why. Gradually close to "don't love or hug". I still have a long way to go to realize this life concept.

Now it's only the step to buy what you think is appropriate or like, and you can accept your true inner preferences, accept your life state, and have a little infatuation and confidence.

For example, I recently attended a four-day energy training camp for Xiaoxiao, a senior at Yale. I have proved that getting up early helps to be energetic, and efficiently completing the most important things in the day helps to be energetic, but I also know that emotional stability helps to be energetic, exercise helps to restore energy, and blood sugar stability helps to stabilize energy and so on.

UP focuses on how you see yourself and what you want to change, not that I am not confident or that I am imitating. I want to change myself. I think it takes a process to really realize that I'm not just talking. The key is that I take the first step, just as the group encourages me to start punching in. And how to look at myself, before yesterday, I was not in this state, and I have been imitating and obeying. Yesterday, Teacher Xixi said, "You should choose the place where you want to go from shoes and match it with the whole body. If you feel there is a gap, you can add accessories." Teacher Dean said this sentence. I have heard it many times, but it was not until yesterday that I understood, "Where am I going?" This is the key and my own scene. Without me as the protagonist, the other meaning is not great. This is my understanding of UP itself. Today, in the small project I am in charge of, in order to take myself seriously and cherish my feathers, I rejected a poor but acceptable proposal and ushered in a new innovation with the team, that is to say, the world will treat you as you treat yourself. )

Therefore, UP should accept itself! Enjoy the present aesthetic level and enjoy the present life state. It's not perfect, but it's really great

The third harvest, I have a good way to do useful things.

This is what I learned from Dean and Yidan. Everyone has lost their way, and then come out and embrace the world. It is also based on this that I began to learn to think better ways and learn to share good things.

What really moved me was that in this month's work, a veteran led a group of retired engineers to start a company and began to study and develop a simple, portable and efficient fresh water purification device, leading the world. Finally, I want to organize people with the same frequency to come up with good ideas and do things useful to society. It was really touching.

So is Sister Ndi, and so is this person I share, glowing in their respective fields. Sister Ndi can think of a good way to do this useful thing for all of us and then share it, which is really meaningful.

At the beginning, maybe everyone used water cups, mobile phones and beauty eggs to punch in my first photo, feeling that I was overcoming difficulties. Now that I think about it, I just want to do something important to me and then say it naturally when asked.

I think this method is very suitable for binding with the popular personal IP, because only if you try, you will know what you want to be good at. Even if you are good at it, it doesn't mean that you are better than others. The subtlety of personal IP lies in being different and useful, not in who is the best, so find something useful to yourself, and then realize it in a unique and good way, and then realize the long-term local monopoly that Teacher Run Yu said through sharing, and then get in touch.

Although now engaged in traditional industries, but also gradually exercise. I say yes to what I want to do, and then find a way to do it and share it with more people in need. After all, I not only want to be a professional aircraft designer, but also want to be an aircraft designer with a unique label.

I don't seem to be in such a hurry to find a personal IP now. I prefer to do what I like and wait for IP to come to me.

Finally, in the study of 2 1 day, I am very happy that I have filled the card, tried four application scenarios, started to mix and match with the basic models, and started to build my own personal life system through clothes, which made me happier to be close to so many beautiful people. I hope everyone can be a light source and a light absorber in their respective fields.

The following is my promise to Xiaoyu. At that time, Xiaoyu divided my time into five parts: fine calculation+overall management+industry understanding+self-improvement+family care, which was really a great summary. I promised her that after the trial run, I would write down how my 24 hours were allocated to these four and share them with you for reference.

First of all, I am a person who doesn't need much sleep. I am awake from 6:30 to 22:30 every day, and I will do a meditation for about 5 minutes at noon. I've been trying for almost a week and a half, and I feel that my energy and work effect are not bad. Of course, I can't do it every day.