I think the people we can't afford to offend emotionally are those who are prone to violence. People with violent tendencies can't get married even if they have a good relationship before marriage.

Everyone has shortcomings, some of which we can tolerate and some of which we can't tolerate, otherwise it will do us great harm in the future. I think we can't tolerate violent people in our feelings, and we must break up decisively even if our feelings are good.

First, when you are violent before marriage, you must break up decisively. In the process of lovers' communication, we can get to know each other's personality more or less by getting along, and see if their personality is docile, generous or violent. If there is violence, then stop loss in time. For example, when we communicate, he often touches you and slaps you from time to time when he is unhappy. If a boy has such behavior, I think he should break up immediately.

Second, if you marry a violent person, you will suffer for yourself and your family after marriage. If you find that you are violent before marriage, but you like the other person to dream that the other person will not cause fatal harm to you and marry the other person, then the problems after marriage will follow. After marriage, you have to face many small things in life. When you do something that makes the other person unhappy or the other person is in a bad mood, he may punch you, or when your child is born, he will bring this kind of violence to your child. When you want to separate, he will threaten all kinds of violence.

There are many such examples in society now, so in the face of a violent person, even if the feelings are good, we must break up decisively. This is to protect ourselves and our families, and also to protect our future children.

For you, what do you think is the most annoying person in your relationship, even if you have a good relationship, you can't marry? Please leave a message below to express your opinion.