I introduced my boyfriend to you at home, talked for a month, but I didn't meet him. I also said that the weather was cold for a while and I invited you to dinner, so he didn't treat you as an object.
In the case of dating through blind date channels, everyone should have a better understanding of each other's basic situation. It is also a good phenomenon if they still keep in touch with each other frequently in private. Just chatting but not meeting, in fact, the feelings will not be very strong, after all, I have never seen a real person, and I have never actually got along.
Think about whether the other party takes the initiative or takes the initiative. Generally, people you like will be very active, and there will be no saying that the weather is cold and you will be invited to dinner. If it is too far away, it is understandable, but if the same city or everyone is not far away, this statement is an evasive word. It's possible that he just regards you as a spare tire and is still considering whether to be with you.
If you have a good impression on him, it is ok for everyone to show their cards and meet and talk. Maybe everything is just a guess, not true. As long as you get along more, your feelings will gradually get better. Even if we meet and find ourselves as a spare tire or he is not keen on this relationship at all, breaking this wrong connection in time is also a fulfillment of his happiness.