The meaning of a happy marriage

Question 1: What exactly does "golden jade and good marriage" mean? The marriage of gold and jade originally refers to a marriage that conforms to the feudal order. The latter refers to a beautiful marriage. Before the alliance of wood and stone, it was said that crimson pearl grass would repay its kindness with tears for a lifetime.

Question 2: What do you mean by golden wedding? Perfect couple

The symbols of a beautiful marriage in A Dream of Red Mansions are Xue Baochai's Golden Lock and Jia Baoyu's Spiritual Baoyu. Used to refer to the statement that marriage was doomed in previous lives.

Now take "golden jade and good marriage" as an idiom. Originally refers to the marriage that conforms to the feudal order. The latter refers to a beautiful marriage.

When it comes to jade, people can't help thinking of Baoyu and Baochai. In fact, I've always been curious, how can jade be a common thing in the rich family, and how can it be related to marriage? It can be seen that this jade and jade originally refer to gold and jade of unusual origin. So Mrs. Bi went to Jia's house and solemnly said that this gold was given by the monk, and only those who have jade can deserve it in the future.

As it happens, Baoyu of Jiafu has a piece of jade with a strange origin, so in the hearts of Jiafu people, there is a saying that golden whales are married. Although there is no clear reference, it has always caused a shadow between Baodai and Daiyu.

But, wait, I'm afraid it's the wishful thinking of Jiafu people. They think their sons and grandchildren are precious adjectives, so naturally they think others regard him as a treasure jade, which is the common psychology of parents all over the world.

In fact, Guo's mother and daughter didn't have a crush on Baoyu at first. Otherwise, how could they take their daughters to live in other people's homes, and they kept saying that what is precious is a perfect match, and the sword refers to Baoyu? Is this too self-deprecating, as if your daughter can't get married, and you can buy one for free when you send it home?

According to what I have seen recently, in the hearts of mother and daughter, long live the grandfather was chosen at the beginning. Why do you see it?

Isn't the origin of jade and stone walls handed down by the long live grandfather very strange and of low value? From any point of view, it is better than the fairy jade in the world, so what is the symbol of status, power and honor? Therefore, Guo's mother and daughter can calmly and proudly announce that our gold can only be worthy of fear if it is valuable.

In the book, Baochai said that she would choose the maid of the princess. In fact, there was no such choice, but she secretly wrote another choice, that is, choosing the princess. The crystallization is that Jia Yuanchun chose the Fengzao Palace. He noticed that the word "only choose" does not mean that the palace is really selecting people, and it is only after taking the exam that he knows that the purpose of selecting people is not to choose maids, but to choose princesses. Reminiscent of Guo Baochai's sense of loss when she received what Yuan Chun often gave her, the result is self-evident. She is the one who participated and failed. Sasawa, if she is referring to Jia Baoyu, how can she sit in Yee Hong Court in the morning and evening to avoid suspicion? It's time to avoid suspicion. Last time I made a joke about the marriage of gold and jade, I really found something this time. Everyone thought that the golden jade marriage might also refer to Baoyu and Xiangyun, because Jin (Kirin) was too embarrassed to type these two words. So doesn't Xiangyun also have gold? Also wrote a long article to let Baoyu get the golden unicorn from Zhang Daoshi, so some people think that the so-called golden wedding may be them.

However, I don't know if you have noticed that since it is a good marriage, one has gold and the other has jade, why does Jin Qilin divide men and women? So is Jin Qilin a pair or a pair today? Since there are gold and jade, why is there a male golden unicorn? It's like adding a third party. If Baoyu can become husband and wife with Xiangyun because of his golden unicorn, it should be a double blessing.

It can be seen that Jinyu Marriage doesn't care about Xiangyun at all. Of course, it does not rule out the author's intention to delve into it.

Question 3: The explanation of good fortune is firm, jade is clean, love is stronger than gold, and jade becomes a good fortune. Anyone who has a good life and a good marriage is said to be a good marriage. According to legend, during the Qianlong period, Emperor Qianlong traveled south incognito and welcomed the wedding procession. The gongs and drums are loud, the suona is loud, and the world is peaceful. So he was very happy and wrote down the title of "Good Marriage" as a gift for a married couple. Later generations set up a festive hall and organized wedding business with the gold-lettered signboard of "golden jade and good marriage", which swept the country north and south.

Question 4: What exactly is the meaning of "good marriage"?

Originally refers to the marriage that conforms to the feudal order. The latter refers to a beautiful marriage.

source

Qing? The fifth time in Cao Xueqin's Dream of Red Mansions: "I only read the alliance of wood and stone."

use

Color sense: a commendatory term

Grammatical usage: as subject and object; Used in marriage, etc

Idiom structure: more formal

example sentence

The road is ~, I have only seen the alliance in front of the wood and stone.

Question 5: How to explain the idiom "Golden Marriage"?

Spelling:

Jiangkui

Explanation:

Originally, it refers to a marriage that conforms to the feudal order. Later, it generally refers to a beautiful marriage.

Example:

The way is ~, I only saw the alliance before Mushi. (Qing? Cao Xueqin's Dream of Red Mansions (the fifth time)

Question 6: Marriage is good. What do you mean by "the alliance between wood and stone"?

Crimson pearl grass is vegetation; Baoyu's jade was once a colorful stone made by Nu Wa to make up the sky, and "the alliance between wood and stone" refers to Baodai's love.

Baoyu and Daiyu hit it off as soon as they met, and there was a wonderful pen in the book: Daiyu was taken aback when she met Baoyu, and thought, "Strange, I seem to have seen it somewhere, how come I know you so well!" Baoyu shouted, "I've seen this sister before." Since then, the two people are like brothers, "the day is sitting, and the night is stopping", which is very close. But it didn't last long. Soon came another Xue Baochai, only one year older than Baoyu. He is square and handsome, and many people say that Daiyu is not worthy of him. Moreover, Baochai is considerate and caters to the wishes of the Jia family, and she is deeply loved by the Jia family. In addition, Baochai's mother spread the monk's words about gold as soon as she arrived in Jiafu, suggesting that Baoyu and Baochai were a match made in heaven and their marriage was a good one.

The alliance between wood and stone is incompatible with water and fire. Baoyu didn't like the jade in his mouth since he was born, and he fell many times in public. On another occasion, Baochai visited Baoyu in Hongyi Garden. Baoyu fell asleep. Baochai saw the exquisite embroidery on the pillow, so she embroidered it conveniently. Suddenly Baoyu shouted in his dream, "How can you believe what monks and Taoists say?" What is a good marriage? I prefer to say it's a marriage of wood and stone! Baochai suddenly froze. On another occasion, Daiyu's maid, Zijuan, joked with Baoyu, "Miss Lin will go back to her hometown in Suzhou this autumn or next spring." . Hearing this, Baoyu was "thunderous on his head, sweaty on his head, purple and swollen all over his face, dull and lost his spirituality, as straight as Woodenhead". Jia Fu was so busy that he cried in a ball. Until he saw Zijuan, Baoyu burst into tears. He grabbed Zijuan in public and said, "I want to take it away. "As soon as you hear the word' Lin', you have to fight." Oh, no, the Lins have picked them up. Call them out! "And said to Zijuan:" Let's live together; When we die, let us turn to ashes. " This sound undoubtedly showed their love to all the people in Jia's house. He thinks that Mrs. Jia and Mrs. Wang regard him as the apple of their eye and will satisfy their wishes. On the contrary, after learning about their affair, it aroused their disgust. Jia Mu once said the following sentence by criticizing the opera: "These books are all one set, and the rest are just some talented people and beautiful women, which is the most boring. My father is either a minister or a prime minister, and my daughter regards me as a treasure. This young lady must be a stunning beauty. When I see a handsome guy, whether he is a friend or a relative, I think of a lifelong event, and my parents forget it, and so do my book gifts. A ghost is not a ghost, a thief is not a thief, which is a beauty? "These words are undoubtedly a condemnation of their love and a wake-up call for their love. It seems that the marriage between gold and jade is a foregone conclusion, and the alliance between wood and stone will become a tragedy.

Question 7: The lyrics of "Good Marriage" express the meaning of good marriage.

Singing: Li Qi

Lyrics: fairy tales

Composer: Lin Hai

If love is destiny takes a hand's meeting

Why is there so much pain?

What is covering your eyes?

No longer cherish my efforts.

If love is the guardian of two hearts.

Why is there so much bitterness?

What is holding me back?

When you are no longer upset, you are helpless.