22-year-old, in the same class as Zhang Ziyi, half of them went to college, but chose to drop out because of acting.

Such a "drama idiot" chose to have two children in a row at the peak of his life and quit the screen.

Every choice she made was unexpected and not optimistic.

But she proved her choice was right with strength.

She is the actress Mei Ting.

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Mei Ting, who was born in Nanjing, Jiangsu Province, can be said to have grown up from beauty.

Even at that time, Nanjing Children's Hospital wanted to make a sculpture of a little girl, based on her.

Mei Ting liked art since childhood, which made his father, who was a doctor in the army, feel distressed for a time.

After all, in parents' minds, traditional learning methods can lead to a better future.

But my daughter is my father's pet. If I say I don't want to, how can I be spoiled by my daughter?

When Mei Ting was in the second grade of primary school, Nanjing Little Red Flower Art Troupe recruited foreign students.

You know, in the 1980s, the Little Red Flower Art Troupe enjoyed a high reputation not only at home, but also abroad.

The art troupe has a very high standard of selecting students, and all the students selected are one in a hundred.

Little Mei Ting, who likes art, is naturally noisy and asked her parents to send her to the art troupe to take the exam.

Mei Ting's parents didn't think much. After all, after thousands of troops crossed the wooden bridge, her daughter was more enthusiastic about art and did not have much professional training.

Therefore, attending also acts as the denominator, and I never thought that Mei Ting could be admitted.

According to Teacher Liu, who is in charge of the enrollment of the dance team, many teachers told her on the day of the exam that there was a very beautiful girl among the candidates in the queue.

At that time, Teacher Liu didn't take it to heart, but when Mei Ting walked into the examination room, she still made her eyes shine: "Like a porcelain doll, quiet and well-behaved, very likable."

At the exam site, Mei Ting jumped the Little Swan learned in kindergarten and was admitted.

This is also considered to have entered the Nanjing Little Red Flower Art Troupe with her face value, which officially opened her artistic path.

But where there are abundant talents, it is not enough to stand firm. Because Mei Ting's basic skills were not as good as others, he began to train hard and worked very hard.

Other children practice for an hour, and Mei Ting practices for two hours, or even longer.

Facts have also proved that Mr. Liu, who chose her to join the league, is not mistaken.

Mei Ting won the first prize in the dance competition for many times, and her performances at home and abroad also stood on the C position by virtue of her strength.

Over time, many people know that there is a beautiful and capable little girl in the art troupe, and many people choose to "visit" Mei Ting between performances.

Children will be proud when they hear too much praise, but Mei Ting won't.

She responded generously to other people's compliments without any partiality or arrogance.

This makes Mei Ting not only loved by teachers in the Art Troupe, but also has a harmonious relationship with his classmates.

Five years later, he successfully obtained the qualification of walking the dance special students in Nanjing No.1 Middle School.

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Mei Ting, who was loved by many boys in middle school, often filled Mei Ting's desk pockets with love letters and small gifts.

Mei Ting seems to be a little late in this respect. Dancing is more attractive than the opposite sex.

She devoted all her thoughts to learning dance, and after graduation, she was successfully admitted to the first-line song and dance troupe of PLA Art College.

Later, she joined the front-line song and dance troupe of Nanjing Military Region and became a female literary and art soldier.

Arguably, along the way, Mei Ting's talent in dance has been fully demonstrated, and it won't be bad to continue.

The result was an accident, which created a new world for Mei Ting.

1994, graceful Mei Ting became a member of the CCTV Spring Festival Evening stage.

Originally, she was just a dancing partner in a song and dance program. As a result, Peisi Chen and Zhu Shimao's magic sketch "Changing the Living" lacked such a female companion.

Among many dancers, Mei Ting, who looks beautiful, was chosen at a glance.

Although it appeared in this sketch for a short time, and there were no two lines, it made the director Ye Daying a treasure.

At that time, he felt that the girl's temperament was in line with the heroine Chuchu in the "Bloody Childlike Heart" he planned to shoot.

Boldly using newcomers who have no performance experience will inevitably be questioned.

However, Mei Ting's strong character should be to do his best in everything. The less others look at her, the more she should do her best.

This time, she succeeded again.

/kloc-Mei Ting, 0/9 years old, not only conquered the audience with his acting skills, but also let more producers and directors see this rising star, and the movies that came to you were endless.

At that time, Mei Ting's identity was still a soldier, and it was against the regulations to often go out to film privately, so he had to reluctantly shut out the script that came to you.

However, there are still many rewards that are worth it. Because of her outstanding performance, the army promoted her to the rank of platoon leader.

When most people are still confused in college, people have begun to gain fame and fortune.

But the seeds of acting were deeply buried in Mei Ting's heart and gradually sprouted.

She didn't want to dance all her life at first, and wanted to try more possibilities in life.

So bold Mei Ting went to the Beijing Film Academy to sign up without telling everyone.

Professional courses were swept away again, and all the way through, and qualified transcripts were obtained, but cultural courses became a problem.

I don't mean that I didn't do well in Mei Ting's culture class, but I want to take the culture class of Beijing Film Academy in the army, and I have to ask the army for a certificate, so naturally I can't get it.

Miss the northern film made Mei Ting feel very wronged. Has the actor's dream come to an end?

This is not what Mei Ting wants.

Two years later, Mei Ting chose to retire and pursue his dream as an actor.

This time, she chose to apply for the Central Academy of Drama and became a classmate of Zhang Ziyi, Yolanda and Amanda.

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Although the development of International Chapter and others seems to be more dazzling than that of Mei Ting, at that time, Mei Ting was proper.

After all, she has performance experience and has been on the stage of the Spring Festival Evening.

It's just that Chinese opera also has strict standards for students to take over the drama.

Zhang Ziyi was severely criticized for going out to shoot advertisements in private.

At this time, Mei Ting had just entered school for one year, and she was faced with the invitation of the film and television drama Northern Story.

If you want to study, you have to give up the film contract, and if you want to film, you have to drop out of school.

After two years when the army couldn't film, Mei Ting knew that it was a torment, so this time he chose the latter without hesitation-dropping out of school to film.

Life is a game for the brave.

Mei Ting gave up his studies, but his career broke out. He had the opportunity to work with Leslie Cheung, who has become a superstar, in the film Red Lover.

Although Mei Ting has acting experience, he is still a rookie. She was very upset and worried that she could not play well with the big coffee Leslie Cheung.

But often the more afraid of something, the more what will happen.

When Mei Ting and Leslie Cheung played opposite each other, they couldn't find the feeling for a long time, and the whole person's state was erratic.

My brother didn't get angry either, but called Mei Ting to the room after work to help her establish her role.

This made Mei Ting very moved and benefited a lot. To say that acting used to be crossing the river by feeling the stones,

So this time Mei Ting really began to understand what an actor's career is.

With this film, Mei Ting won several film and television awards.

Later, Don't Talk to Strangers brought Mei Ting to the top, and the image of an abused wife broke the hearts of countless people.

Feng, the actor of the violent man An Jiahe in the play, still leaves a psychological shadow.

All the way to Mei Ting is like hanging up. As long as she plays, there will be no bad drama.

Lei Yuanyuan in Let Love Come Again, An Jie in Parents' Love, and Ping Li in How Far Is Happiness ... Every character is deeply rooted in people's hearts.

Mei Ting's artistic road based on Yan value finally convinced everyone with strength.

Some people say that she is favored by heaven, but to be honest, most people don't have the courage to retire and drop out of school.

Perhaps these honors and blessings are also God's reward for her courage.

Only compared with her successful career, Mei Ting's love life seems to have some twists and turns.

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Mei Ting once had an affair with director Ye Daying when filming "Bloody Childlike Heart".

But neither of them responded at the time. In addition, Mei Ting is still young, and this past event will go away.

Later, the relationship with Yan Po attracted much attention.

Mei Ting is bold in his career and has a clear goal. He also dares to love and hate emotionally and has nothing to hide.

In the Millennium, Mei Ting has become a minor celebrity in the entertainment circle.

Director Yan Po has just returned from a French school when a party brought two young people together.

Yan Po fell in love with Mei Ting at first sight, and Mei Ting also felt that Yan Po had ideas and talents. Although he didn't make great efforts, he thought the boy would have a bright future.

They talked about life and ideals, and they went to France together for romance only one month after they met.

Not half a year after I came back, I announced my engagement.

In the entertainment circle, there are not a few actresses who choose to get married in the rising period.

Mei Ting doesn't care what the outside world thinks. He thinks this choice is worthwhile. Those eight cows can't be pulled back

After marriage, Mei Ting continued to exert her strength in her career, while Yan Po remained tepid, so the financial burden of her family fell on Mei Ting, but she enjoyed it.

In order to realize the dream of his beloved, Mei Ting exhausted all his strength.

Yan Po opened a studio, and Mei Ting opened a yoga studio to support it;

Yan Po wanted to be a director, so Mei Ting contributed money to help him complete the Virgo Aspirin.

The success of this film made Yan Po famous.

Hard sowing finally paid off. I thought Mei Ting could relax, have a rest and enjoy the glory brought by her husband, but Yan Po deserted emotionally.

Unbearable, Mei Ting finally divorced in 2007.

After that, I kept showing my love to the actor Li.

Of course, this relationship didn't end well after all. Yan Po was later chopped seriously in an underground garage in Beijing. It is said that Li bears a grudge against her ex-boyfriend.

Mei Ting is also very clear. When you are in love, you will naturally help me. After separation, they will be fine and will not disturb each other.

After the divorce, she devoted herself to her career, and "Parents' Love" co-starred with Guo Tao still got a high score of 9.5 in Douban.

Maybe he's too hurt. Every time he was asked by the media about his feelings, Mei Ting kept his mouth shut.

Maybe she didn't expect to meet another person who made her bang.

In 20 14, Lou Ye found Mei Ting and wanted her to play a movie "Tuina" reflecting the life of the blind. Mei Ting accepted the good theme as soon as she saw it.

As a result, this work not only won her the nomination of the Golden Rooster Award for Best Supporting Actress, but also made her regain her love.

I'm afraid everyone is not familiar with the name Zeng Jian.

He is a photographer of the movie Massage, and he belongs to the behind-the-scenes staff, but his professional ability is proud and well-known in the circle.

Zeng Jian works as hard as Saburo, often turning for more than ten hours, and occasionally resting on the set with equipment.

Mei Ting felt that this man was very motivated and dedicated, which made him feel much better, but he didn't think much.

One day while filming, Mei Ting, who was hungry, was eating braised pork, and there was no shelf for a female star at all.

I looked up and found Zeng Jianzheng staring at her with a smile.

Before she could speak, Zeng Jian said, "It's really pleasant to watch you eat meat. The old man at home said that if you want to find a wife, you have to find something to eat. "

Mei Ting didn't expect Zeng Jian, who looks like a workaholic, to speak so directly.

Since then, because Mei Ting often went to Zeng Jian to watch reruns, her feelings have surged.

It's just that Mei Ting's unfortunate marriage experience made her stop looking for insiders, so she didn't take that step bravely in the face of her heart.

On the contrary, Zeng Jian's intense heat warmed Mei Ting step by step.

It's very cold when taking a massage. Often after filming Mei Ting, the whole person was frozen stiff, so Zeng Jian asked hot water to soak Mei Ting's feet.

In the face of Mei Ting's hesitation, Zeng Jian never flinched. On the day when the crew finished filming, Zeng Jian found Mei Ting's confession again.

Mei Ting looked at the sincere man in front of her, fearing that he would miss another relationship, so she asked Zeng Jian ten "why".

Such as: why choose yourself, why get married, why dare to be with yourself, and so on.

Every answer of Zeng Jian is a step towards Mei Ting's heart. After all the answers came out, Mei Ting decided to be brave again.

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After they got together, they went to see each other's parents. Mei Ting has always been very independent, and with a history of marriage, Mei Ting's parents only hope that Zeng Jian can be kind to her daughter, and nothing else.

For Zeng Jian's parents, Mei Ting is a special existence.

At that time, Mei Ting was already very famous, while Zeng Jian was just a relatively ordinary person.

Zeng Jian's parents are worried that outsiders will gossip and that their son will be angry with the "big star".

Therefore, when Zeng Jian took Mei Ting home to meet his parents, Zeng Jian's parents didn't object to their marriage, but they were very tangled and cold, which made Mei Ting feel very uncomfortable.

But so what?

After meeting my parents, I got married in a low-key way, thinking that I could live a simple two-person world.

Who would have thought that the ill feelings of her parents-in-law towards Mei Ting had not changed because of the cooked rice?

The first time I went back to my husband's house after I got married, I heard my mother-in-law nagging her neighbor that her son was afraid of being a "big star" forever.

Mei Ting can understand intellectually, but she feels very uncomfortable.

Total * * * stayed in her husband's house for three days, and Mei Ting didn't say a few words to her in-laws.

Mei Ting's mother was patient when she learned that. After all, marriage is not only a matter for two people, but also a combination of two families.

What's more, Zeng Jian always treats Mei Ting's parents as his own, and Mei Ting can't take the initiative to understand, which may affect the relationship between husband and wife.

Mei Ting pondered her mother's words, looked at Zeng Jian, who was sandwiched between herself and her in-laws, and suddenly realized that she had not done enough.

So how can we make up for it?

Knowing that her mother-in-law has high blood sugar, Mei Ting personally made sugar-free Osmanthus Jelly for her mother-in-law;

When filming is free, I call my in-laws and invite them to play in the mountains.

I told my in-laws intentionally or unintentionally not to mind the so-called "star halo". If it's a family, we won't talk about two things.

This moved Mei Ting's in-laws. When neighbors ask Zeng Jian if he will be "bullied" by Mei Ting, his in-laws will say a lot about Mei Ting, which makes outsiders envy him.

In the atmosphere of love, on 20 13, Mei Ting and Zeng Jian's daughter "Kuai Kuai" was born.

In order to accompany the child to grow up healthily, Mei Ting stayed in the picture until the child was one year old, but just as she was about to come back, she found herself pregnant again.

By this time, Mei Ting was 39 years old, and having children intensively did great harm to his health.

But I really like children and hope to have a companion soon. After discussing with Zeng Jian, I decided to keep the child.

Then there is a long pregnancy, childbirth and companionship.

Two children make the family's economic pressure increase sharply, and Zeng Jian needs to go out to take care of the family. The responsibility of taking care of children falls on Mei Ting alone.

Fragmented life made Mei Ting fall into emotional breakdown again and again.

One day, Zeng Jian took her children to get vaccinated. When she got home, she saw Mei Ting in cheongsam talking to herself in front of the mirror.

Zeng Jian panicked: "What are you doing?"

This question made Mei Ting red-eyed.

After leaving the screen for more than three years, it seems that my acting skills are rusty, and my favorite things are overwhelmed, so I can only indulge in drama at home.

Zeng Jian looked at his wife, the winner of this film, and suppressed his inner desire. Every day at home, I will be "possessed", and my heart is really distressed.

So I discussed with Mei Ting to change the house into a bigger one, far away from the city center.

So that the old man can come and help with the children, and Mei Ting can return to the screen.

Showbiz is different from other types of work, and it has extremely high external requirements for artists, especially female artists.

When he first came back, Mei Ting received an overwhelming criticism.

People say that the former goddess has become a "New Year's picture doll" and is fat out of the sky.

Mei Ting didn't lose heart. He runs, yoga and dumbbells every day ... It only took him three months to get back to his old slimness.

After many years away from the screen, when filming again, Mei Ting seems to have accumulated many years of inner energy.

In one breath, he appeared in many TV dramas, such as "The Wind and Water in nirvana in fire", "Accompany Mom" and "Tiansheng Long Song".

Returning to the familiar battlefield also gave Mei Ting a new life. After the previous ups and downs, Mei Ting cherishes her present life even more.

Looking back at her along the way, almost every decision was willful and not optimistic, but she lived a wonderful life in her own way.

Mei Ting, 47, has experienced many vicissitudes. May the goddess have a smooth life for the rest of her life.