The romantic love of a woman at the age of 30 is at that time!

The bubble of fashion is blowing bigger and bigger, and colorful, pink and lovely "OBS girls" are pushing elegance and reserve out of the fast lane of popular culture. It is said that women are scared at the age of 30, but these 30-year-old women wearing ruffled skirts and KITTY watches are trying to break the age limit-30 years old is not scared, and 30 years old is "happy".

What is an OBS woman? Yang Ze, a female writer in Taiwan Province, always concludes that when single or unmarried women in metropolis reach the age of "Obasan OBS" (Japanese name for middle-aged women), they still live in the consumption pattern of girlhood. Women who live in this mode are called OBS women. For this word, the media did not use much, and it was replaced by Obasan.

OBS character

Romantic left hand, pots and pans right hand.

Qu Ying, a 3 1 year-old teacher.

I decided to be an OBS woman from the day I got married. Fortunately, after seven years of marriage, I can not only breathe, but also live more and more tastefully.

After having children, I am worried that I will be fat and deformed. Although my husband said it doesn't matter that I am fat, I started doing aerobics and beauty when my baby was just full moon. With my unremitting efforts, I am plump and graceful.

Although it is very tiring to go to work, take care of children and do housework, I always remind myself not to be careless. No matter how busy I am, I will go to the beauty salon and go swimming. Housework is really too busy, so I hired a part-time job to help me, or asked my husband's family for help. In a word, I want to keep myself, and I can't slack off, let alone be vulgar.

Giving her husband a constantly updated self is another feature of OBS. It was my husband's birthday the other day, even he forgot himself. I ordered a birthday cake in advance, let the hourly worker do all the preliminary work, and I cooked several dishes. Then, put on the red low-cut cashmere sweater that you just rewarded yourself and wait for him. From the way my husband looked at me, I read love and appreciation.

In addition, in last year's year-end appraisal, I was also rated as an excellent teacher. I sang and danced in the "Karaoke Competition for Spring Festival" held by the school and won the first prize.

I think beauty needs not only maintenance, but also management. Modern professional women should be exquisite in appearance, rich in connotation, elegant and mature. They can do trivial things as perfectly as possible and do important things impeccably.

Suiyue sculpture woman Hua

Xiao Yingying, 38, is a freelance writer.

Women in their thirties will not fall in love with angels or demons. She will fall in love with herself first, and then with someone who loves herself. This view is my personal feeling as a happy woman after communicating with many girlfriends in their thirties.

I have met many successful women who know how to love and dare to love. Especially women in their thirties, after years of polishing, have gone through the ignorance of youth, accumulated life experience, understood the essence of life, and gradually bloomed with brilliance. As time goes on, they become more and more charming.

Nowadays, mature women pay more and more attention to themselves and humanity. They bid farewell to their youth and slowly let themselves be elegant and mature. They have moved from the "family standard" of traditional women to the "individual standard". Because they know how to love themselves, they will love others, know how to love and know how to give love. As the heroine in Chinese Divorce realized, love needs ability. Have the ability to love the person you love and make the person you love fall in love with yourself.

Formal version of OBS

The most obvious manifestation of "OBS consumption" is dressing up. No sooner had I put on a pink and green coat and a skirt with flounces and lace than I was swept in by the surging tide of baby clothes. Not far away, a few girls chattering together shopping all look like it's June 1, with their hair tied in a bun or a croissant braid, colorful headdresses, colorful backpacks behind them, beautiful fruit-colored shirts, cartoon patterns, broken squares, bubble shoulders, and silly "baby shoes" on their feet, all of which look very pure. Looking at the fashionable women's clothes at present, you can't tell whether she is a school beauty who just left school or a "big sister" who has been galloping in the workplace for many years.

OBS Fitness Edition

The main target of OBS consumption is white-collar women around the age of 30. Advertisers take them as their positioning, and businesses rack their brains to keep their footsteps. As a result, the content of "OBS consumption" is increasingly rich. Beauty, body shaping and bodybuilding ... In order to break the age limit and prolong youth, they are working hard because they have enough economic ability to realize their ideas-they go to the latest technology beauty salon and let their skin bloom again at the age of 20; They went to the slimming center with the fastest effect and wiped out the quietly bulging belly in the bud; They are willing to buy expensive plastic underwear, so that their bodies are not lost to girls with empty clothes. As a result, outside of work, such women began to reposition their lives. They know that young looks will bring many unexpected new opportunities to life.

OBS Diet Edition

"OBS consumption" is also manifested in diet. Breakfast. Bread? Fried eggs? No, no,no. They made a cup of baby rice noodles with milk. Light and delicious, nutritious, providing them with the energy they need in the morning, and there is no excess fat. There are also vegetables, black rice and egg yolk that can be turned into patterns. These foods that make babies smile will also make them feel good.

OBS etiquette training edition

The most restrained performance of "OBS consumption" lies in proper behavior. When you talk to them, the other person often just smiles and listens, never eager to express himself, and never interrupts or grabs the topic; Eating at the same table, each of them likes the food you ordered, will pay attention to transfer your favorite food to you on the table, and will quietly listen to the owner's suggestion when checking out; If you go to a karaoke bar to sing after dinner, young girls may be presumptuous regardless of others, just quietly smoking drinks, as if they were not here to sing, but to listen to songs. Until the end, I couldn't help being pushed out by everyone and singing a song loudly, but its quality and taste are absolutely beyond your imagination.

These good manners and accomplishments are definitely the result of "charging" consumption-knowledge of language and expertise, interest in piano and ballet, and so on. These consumption, let the 30-year-old woman have the calm and understanding that ordinary girls can't match.

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