In the process of children going to school, it is essential to hold parent-teacher conferences. Many parents feel very uneasy when they go to parent-teacher conferences, for fear that their children will get into trouble at school and be complained by teachers. However, going to school to hold a parent-teacher conference does not mean that parents will definitely go. In fact, the school is like a small society. Parents should always pay attention to their clothes and words when they go to parent-teacher conferences. An 80-year-old treasure mother was unexpectedly "dismissed" by her teacher when she went to a parent-teacher conference. What's going on? Let's see.
"Go home and change clothes!" Ma Bao's parents' meeting was "rejected" by the teacher, and the reason was very helpless.
Xiao Xin is a baby mom born in 1980s, and her son Dongdong is in the third grade this year. Xiao Xin usually stays at home as a housewife, and she doesn't pay special attention to her image. She wears pajamas at home. At this parent-teacher meeting, Xiao Xin must prepare lunch, mop the floor and dry clothes before going out. When these things are finished, it's almost too late. Xiao Xin casually changed into a suit and hurried out. When Xiao Xin arrived at school, the head teacher stopped her at the class gate and said to her, Dongdong Mom, why don't you go home and change first? You're wearing ...
Xiao Xin glanced at his clothes, wearing a pair of slacks. The clothes inside are a bit like pajamas, and the coat is passable, but it doesn't match the clothes and pants at all, which looks a bit funny. Xiao Xin realized his rudeness, quickly apologized and went home to change clothes.
After the parent-teacher conference, the teacher called Xiao Xin and said to Xiao Xin: Dongdong's mother, I know you are busy at ordinary times, but you should dress appropriately at the parent-teacher conference, otherwise the children will feel humiliated. Xiao Xin said shamefully, I went out in a hurry and didn't pay attention. It won't happen again. I'm sorry for your trouble. The teacher looked at Xiao Xin and felt sorry for her, but she shook her head helplessly.
Although the school is a place to study, it is actually like a small society. For children, there is actually a comparison mentality. At this time, the good image of parents can make children feel good. On the contrary, if parents don't pay attention to image, they will make their children feel inferior. Many good-looking children don't even want their parents to appear at school. Therefore, the image of parents is very important to children. Parents should not ignore it, especially in public, and don't let children feel humiliated.
So, what should parents pay attention to when holding parent-teacher conferences?
1, dress appropriately, not too casually.
I believe many parents understand this, but some parents have no time to take care of it because of their work, so they can only appear in the parent-teacher conference as a sloppy image. Such an image will inevitably be pointed at by other parents, and children will also talk about it, which will lead to the embarrassment of children.
2, don't wear too exposed, wear too coquettish.
Nowadays, many mothers are well maintained and usually wear fashionable clothes. However, parent-teacher conferences are not the place for beauty contests. Female parents should not "push too hard" and dress too exposed and coquettish. This image will inevitably be criticized, and it is also not good for children.
Parent-teacher conference is an opportunity for parents to get in touch with teachers. Teachers can learn about their children's family situation through their parents' images and words, so parents should not be too casual and leave a bad impression on teachers.