The risk of brotherly love
1, the generation gap is too big
If the age gap between two people is too large, it is likely that there are differences in values, world outlook and outlook on life. This profound ideological difference may lead to a great generation gap between them and eventually separate them.
2. Take risks.
My sister spends her time waiting for a brother who has nothing at present, and she has to take great risks. If her brother doesn't love her, she may be really old and no one wants her. Even if I get married and my sister gets old first, will my brother continue to love her instead of looking for a beautiful young girl outside? My sister, who is in love with her brother, is very worried about this. Moreover, the woman in the sister-in-law relationship will face the risk of older pregnant women and the immaturity of the man, and will often quarrel.
3. Bear the pressure of family and social prejudice.
Due to the prejudice of family and society, many people still feel uncomfortable that girls are older than boys, but they are rejected. In addition, it is also a hurdle for both parents to get married. It is difficult for traditional old people to accept brother-sister love. Of course, today's society is much more tolerant, and many people can accept sibling love.
4. The man's economic pressure.
Every relationship can become a relative without considering the result, and the practical problems need to be deeply thought by both sides. When both brothers and sisters need to face marriage, they will encounter problems such as unsuccessful career and poor financial resources for young men, while the woman is anxious because she is too old to leave enough time for her husband. This may be one of the reasons why brother-sister love can't go to the marriage hall.
The benefits of brotherly love
1, brotherly love knows how to move.
For men-most young women like to be moody. She is right and you are wrong; She is wrong, you are still wrong, and you like to run away from home if you have nothing to do. And a woman older than you will use silence properly and know how to take a step back and broaden the horizon, which will make you much more relaxed.
For a woman-you are very patient, how can she not understand the truth afterwards? A little injustice, in exchange for his unswerving dedication to you, why not?
2. Brothers and sisters love to work hard and complain.
For a man, my sister won't hook up with you like a little woman, asking you to wash the dishes in black and white, and she will wash them 246 times ... Living with her, life is neat, everything is orderly and comfortable.
It doesn't matter how much housework you do for women. As long as you feel comfortable, doing housework is also a kind of enjoyment and you can lose weight.
Brothers and sisters love to make money.
For men-as the saying goes, "a woman is a mistress, holding a golden brick." Managing money at home is not a one-off event. It takes several years and a lot of money to train young MM, and your sister-in-law and wife have already saved the down payment for your new house.
For women-men don't worry about spending money indiscriminately, just be a shopkeeper of cutting and cutting. What woman doesn't want to make her own decisions at home? Mastering financial power-it is easy for a sister-in-law to give a woman this "gift" when she is in love.
Sister-in-law Association will take care of people.
For men-men are children to some extent, they will be spoiled and willful, and they need women's spoil and care, which are definitely available to sisters.
For a woman-he is uncomfortable wearing other people's clothes, and other people's cooking is not delicious. He can hardly live without you. So, what are you worried about?
5. Brothers and sisters are very practical.
For men-little women, I am proficient in karaoke and have parties every night. Your sister doesn't like these things anymore. She prefers to stay at home and live a comfortable life. It's reassuring to put a woman older than you anywhere.
For women-using the time when he can't accompany you to communicate with "girlfriends" and pull them into love life can also make up for the lack of contact with friends on weekdays.
6. Brothers and sisters will live together.
Men are under great pressure-modern men, they provide houses, cars and wives. Sisters know how to live the best life with the least money.
For a woman who gave you most of her money, your living standard has greatly improved. What's more, without you, he doesn't even know the bank password, and you will be happy.
With all these advantages, I'm sure I must take the road of sister-in-law's love now. I wish readers all the wishes! Happy marriage, full of children! !