In fact, everyone has his own temperament, his own behavior and his own way of life. I don't think it's necessary to please anyone, but the point is to be sincere with others, and then don't be too weird in personal behavior, not to mention pretending to be cold and arrogant, which will only keep people away from you! I used to be a very introverted person. Don't like to talk, have social phobia, that is, they are very afraid of getting along with strangers. Once I enter a new environment, I will feel very uneasy. I hope someone can play with me in the future, but I just don't know what to say, but don't worry, there will always be some people in your world who will change you slowly.
I met some high school friends when I changed, and now I have a strong connection. There is no better brother than a brother. At that time, some people will become more and more confident when playing together, and gradually come into contact with more people. In fact, life just needs a turning point, and someone will always change your life! Usually, you need to enrich your inner world if you want to read more books by yourself. Only when you know more and know more will you have more topics to discuss when chatting with your friends, so that you can gradually become excellent. Self-Excellence will naturally attract some people to build more self-confidence, gradually get better, and seriously complete every hard-won emotion!
If you want to think of yourself as a member of a group rather than an individual, you can join the group and talk about topics that people are interested in. You can consider it according to the personal interests of the person you are chatting with. For example, if others love sports, you can talk about fitness and sports. Usually this kind of topic discussion leads to a wider discussion of topics, such as weight loss, physical and mental health and so on. And other people's interests can be mobilized and joined in the discussion. Find * * * the same language, common hobbies, talk more and increase the distance between each other. The main thing is to relax and do your own business well, and everyone will recognize you when you do it well. When encountering difficulties, ask more questions, be modest, keep a low profile, and stand out in the work. This is no problem.