Women hate her, perhaps because of jealousy, because Pan Jinlian looks good and hates that she doesn't know how to cherish herself. There used to be customs and family rules, so women should respect women's morality.
Seeing this problem, I think of Pan Jinlian's double evaluation: "the first tragedy in the ages" and "the first adulteress in the ages". This is why some people (mostly men) sympathize with Pan Jinlian, while others (mostly women) hate Pan Jinlian.
As a social victim of feudal patriarchal society, Pan Jinlian deserves sympathy. Let's take a look at Pan Jinlian's growth experience. Due to family poverty, Pan Jinlian was sold at an early age, and after several twists and turns, his life was even more miserable. Later, because of jealousy and revenge, he was given to poor Wu Dalang.
Beauty or tossing and turning, everything, including one's own destiny, can't be dominated by oneself, which is also the tragedy of women in feudal society. Is it not worthy of sympathy?
In addition, men are more compassionate, so most men sympathize with Pan Jinlian's experience.
Pan Jinlian made peace with Ximen Qing in his later period and killed her husband Wu Dalang, which was disgusting, contemptible and spurned, especially in feudal society! If the tragic fate is beyond her control, it is her own choice for Pan Jinlian to disobey women's morality and murder her husband in her later period. In that society, her behavior can be described as the worst of women! Social customs don't allow it, and the world doesn't allow it, especially because I envy her beauty and the woman who is above me later!
Is it a human tragedy? Is it a social tragedy? Or does creation make people? "Pan Jinlian is a beautiful woman and married a poor man who sells cookies."
"A flower is arched by a pig, and the reality is cruel."
When it comes to Pan Jinlian, most men are bursting with love.
There are sighs and resentment ... They look back and think, why can't they live as well as Wu Dalang?
However, they never thought about how Wu Dalang died.
When Pan Jinlian saw Song Wu, his eyes lit up, and the restlessness and loneliness in his bones came to mind. Although he is her husband's younger brother, she also releases her love to the fullest.
Song Wu and Pan Jinlian are different people, so he hides far away.
Song Wu is Pan Jinlian's unattainable dream in his life.
Some women criticize Pan Jinlian, seemingly righteously, but in fact they are extreme.
They say Pan Jinlian is lewd and unfaithful to Ximen Qing. I am disgusted that the men around me don't understand amorous feelings and romance. Such people are hypocritical.
However, most people treat the characters in this story positively, without appreciation or criticism.
In China's traditional moral concept, few people sympathize with Pan Jinlian's experience.
She has been nailed to the historical shame column and is a typical example of lewdness and malice.
From another point of view, Pan Jinlian is a typical feudal social tragedy, and he can't be self-determined all his life.
A beautiful young woman was forced to marry Wu Dalang, and she was unwilling. She also has the romantic yearning of her peers, and she hit it off with Ximen Qing.
As a woman, sympathize with her experience and feelings.
As a person, I can't accept her cruelty and hate the fact that she poisoned her husband.
I am glad that we live in this era and that marriage can be independent.
This is completely normal.
Men sympathize with Pan Jinlian because it is beautiful and charming, and a playboy man wants it, even if it is a one-night stand, even if it is a close word. Besides, it's a pity that a beautiful young woman died like this.
As a woman, jealousy is natural, plus
Pan Jinlian has both talents and looks, and is proficient in pipa, cooking and sewing, which is difficult for ordinary women to achieve.
With young and beautiful capital, I can't resist the temptation of Wang Po's foul language. I am immoral and extremely vicious, deceiving Simon's leading man and poisoning my husband.
As a woman, jealousy and disgust are reasonable.
It is a fact that Pan Jinlian murdered her husband, and the final result is also culpable of punishment!
I don't know if women hate Pan Jinlian, but it's the first time I heard that men sympathize with Pan Jinlian.
If a man mentions Pan Jinlian, the first thing that comes to mind is definitely not sympathy, but regret. What kind of Chinese cabbage is arched by pigs and a flower is inserted in cow dung? There should be quite a few men with this idea. A beautiful woman like Pan Jinlian actually married a poor man selling baked wheat cakes. It's a pity that she only shouted after psychological abuse.
Don't overestimate men's moral integrity. No, I can't say that. I am a man myself. I should say don't overestimate the goodness of men. Although Pan Jinlian is good-looking, it is her own fault to marry Wu Dalang. Why should she sympathize?
As I said, on the contrary, Ximen Qing deserves sympathy. Everyone is human and has the right to be rich. Isn't it worthy of sympathy just because Pan Jinlian was killed by Beowulf Song Wu? The beautiful life is not over yet, and countless women who have slipped are still waiting for him to save them. It's a pity that Song Wu didn't give him a chance to live with that knife.
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Why do men sympathize with women and hate Pan Jinlian? This problem is worthy of commercial rights. How many male compatriots sympathize with Pan Jinlian, and how many female compatriots hate Pan Jinlian? I haven't investigated this problem, so let's put it aside for the time being. Suppose different people have different views on Pan Jinlian. Let's study her from the perspective of writers and screenwriters.
First of all, let's talk about Pan Jinlian in TV series. There are three people related to Pan Jinlian, one is Wu Dalang, the other is Song Wu, and the other is Ximen Qing. These three people are familiar to everyone, so I won't describe them here. Wu Dalang is the most unbearable one. Pan Jinlian married Wu Dalang, but not voluntarily. Dear readers, are you willing to take care of your heart? If there is no chance, forget it, but it happened that Song Wu and Ximen Qing appeared, disturbing a pool of clear water. What should you do according to our modern thinking mode? Song Wu refused to surrender, because Wu Dalang was the brother of his first-milk compatriot, and he did the right thing. As for Ximen Qing, Pan Jinlian is also passive. Until poisoning her husband, this is also the root of people's hatred for her, whether male or female.
Look at Jin Pingmei's description of Pan Jinlian: Pan Jinlian was born in a poor family when he was a child. He was forced to be a maid in a big family, learning needlework, chess and calligraphy, and was later sold to another big family as a maid. Because of her good looks, she was molested by her master and caught by her wife. She was jealous and married Wu Dalang to punish her. Later, when I went to Ximenfu, I also described the vicious side of Pan Jinlian, which was the business of Ximenfu's wives. The living environment has changed, and the survival instinct has also changed. Everyone has seen the biography of Zhen Huan. Zhen Xuan is vicious and deceitful. She also killed the emperor. Why do we still like her so much?
Neither a writer nor a screenwriter meant to blame Pan Jinlian, but wrote her as a victim of an era. And heroes who resist imprisonment. Think about it. How many people will support her divorce if things go on now? Some people may ask, did Pan Jinlian regret that Song Wu stabbed her with a knife? I dare say she doesn't regret it, because she was so calm and said something heartbreaking.
Ximen Qing died, Mrs Wang died, and Pan Jinlian died. Song Wu has the responsibility to avenge his brother. He did the right thing and deserves praise.
Whether we are men or women, whether we are sympathetic or disgusted, things have become history. What we need to do now is to keep the bottom line and leave no message for future generations.
Zhoushan, written on the morning of 2007 19.
The name Pan Jinlian is a household name in China, and has almost become synonymous with bad women. In fact, Pan Jinlian is only a fictional character in the novel, and this character image mainly comes from Water Margin and Jin Ping Mei.
So, what kind of person is Pan Jinlian? "Jin Ping Mei" is introduced as follows: "It is the daughter of Pan Cai outside the South Gate, ranking sixth. Because he was born with good looks and good feet, he was called Jinlian. After his father died, he lived as a mother, but since the age of nine, he has been selling things in Wang's house, learning to play and sing, and often teaching him to read and write in his spare time. He was born smart, but when he was twelve or thirteen years old, he would paint eyebrows and eyes, paint with pink and Zhu, play with bamboo and silk, point to a female worker, know how to read and write, put on a bun, wear a button shirt and make a picture to make it look like Joe. When the king died at the age of fifteen, Pan Mu disputed it, and thirty taels of silver were resold to the Zhang family. "
From this passage, we infer that Pan Jinlian was born at the bottom of society, her father died young, her mother sold her several times, and her childhood was unfortunate. Pan Jinlian is very beautiful, a standard beauty. At that time, how charming it would be to have a pair of three-inch golden lotus feet. More importantly, Pan Jinlian's cultural and artistic accomplishment is extremely high. He plays the piano, sings, works by hand, knows books and texts, and is proficient in everything. It can be seen that Pan Jinlian has unique charm and extraordinary temperament compared with ordinary women.
So, what did Pan Jinlian do? He cheated on Ximen Qing, a powerful Simon officer at that time, and then conspired with Xiaosan to poison her husband Wu Dalang, which really exceeded the bottom line that people could tolerate. What kind of person is Wu Dalang? He is a short man, short and ugly, known as "three-inch Ding Gu bark", who is always bullied and lives by selling kitchen cakes. At that time, Pan Jinlian sold a large family. After Zhang accepted her, she collapsed and died soon. In order to humiliate and revenge Pan Jinlian, Zhang's wife gave Pan Jinlian to Wu Dalang for free, so Pan Jinlian mistakenly became Wu Dalang's wife. No matter the Water Margin or Jin Ping Mei, Pan Jinlian was finally killed by Song Wu, but in Jin Ping Mei, Pan Jinlian had been married to Ximen Qing for several years before being killed by Song Wu. Of course, it doesn't matter.
Now, let's answer the questions.
Why do men sympathize with Pan Jinlian? Subconsciously, no man is lascivious. Pan Jinlian is beautiful and knows the customs. Isn't this a man's dream lover? How could such a charming woman die so miserably and without compassion? In terms of reason, Wu Dalang deserves Pan Jinlian? Let Pan Jinlian protect Wu Dalang all his life. Who can do that?
Why do women hate Pan Jinlian? Subconsciously, there is not a woman who is not jealous, especially a woman who is more beautiful than her. If there is a lotus of Pan Jinlian around her, who can stand it? Reasonably speaking, Pan Jinlian hooked up with a wild man and poisoned her husband himself. Pan Jinlian's behavior ruined a woman's reputation and was naturally despised by women.
Of course, men don't necessarily sympathize with Pan Jinlian, and women don't necessarily hate Pan Jinlian. We are just discussing the general situation.
Pan Jinlian, a sad woman who gave her life for love, was pitied by men, but she stuck a flower in cow dung. Women hate her, but she is loved by romantic Ximen Qing.
Few people will sympathize with Pan Jinlian. In fact, Pan Jinlian is a fictional character in The Water Margin, with little space, but a minor figure leading to Song Wu. In the book Jin Ping Mei, Pan Jinlian is further described, including personality, experience, life and many other aspects.
Generally speaking, whether it is Water Margin or Jin Ping Mei, the image of Pan Jinlian has several characteristics, namely beauty, lewdness and evil. She refused to marry Wu Da, betrayed Ximen Qing, and finally poisoned her husband. In Jin Ping Mei, after following Ximen Qing, Pan Jinlian was jealous and killed the child of Li Pinger, the concubine of Ximen Qing. It can be said that Pan Jinlian is the highest representative of lust in the novel and the one who died the worst. However, such people still have some sympathy for her, although few, but there is no denying that she exists. Why? There are probably several reasons:
1, both talent and appearance were betrothed to the short and ugly Wu Da. Needless to say, Pan Jinlian's beauty is proficient in pipa, cooking and needlework. She was born in a poor family. At the age of nine, she was sold to the Wangs as a maid and later bought by a big family. Zhang's wife was jealous and betrothed her to the ugly Wu Dalang. Its fate can't be controlled by itself at all, which is naturally sympathetic.
2. There are some objective factors for cheating on Ximen Qing. Pan Jinlian, who married Wu Dalang, was dealt a fatal blow by real life. Originally, she was unwilling, but maybe this is the only way in her life. But the appearance of Ximen Qing and Wang Po's lobbying finally made Pan Jinlian survive. Although she was unwilling, she didn't mean to seduce others in her extramarital affairs. Active and passive people have different psychological judgments.
3. Die the worst. In Jin Ping Mei, Pan Jinlian was finally cut open by Song Wu and burned alive. Although what he did was the most deserved, it was cruel. Therefore, it is more acceptable for Song Wu to solve her once and for all in Water Margin.
Pan Jinlian was a victim of feudal society. Although her fate is troubled, it can't hide the fact that she murdered her husband and her own life. In the end, she just got what she deserved. In fact, however, Pan Jinlian also has a prototype, but the real Pan Jinlian in history is the wife of Lingwuzhi in Qinghe County, virtuous and virtuous, but she just doesn't know what resentment is. The couple were finally vilified into the present version and condemned by the ages.
For hundreds of years, Pan Jinlian has been bearing the stigma of "the first prostitute in history"; But there are also many people who sympathize with her, sympathize with her and complain for her, saying that she is "the first tragic figure in history." In a word, it's up to you to give Pan Jinlian a good reputation or a notorious hat.
I read Jin Ping Mei, thinking that people hate Pan only because she is a "bad woman". So, how bad is she?
Pan Jinlian is "lewd enough, poisonous enough and yin enough".
Pan Jinlian is not necessarily sensual in his bones, but because he is born with a face that is easy to commit crimes.
In the original "Jin Ping Mei", there is a paragraph describing Pan's appearance and clothes, which shows that Pan has a charming appearance. Not only that, Pan Jinlian has a coquettish manner and explicit clothes, so he has a bohemian romance.
For example, from the first time I saw him, Pan was drooling over him. Because Song Wu looks extraordinary and romantic. The original text has evidence for the second time: "There is a poem saying,' Is Song Wushuai? Sister-in-law's lust is unacceptable After netting a net and living in my hometown, Acacia often looks at herself. "Pan Jinlian saw that he couldn't seduce Song Wu, and instead used" risks "to provoke the feelings of the Wu brothers in front of Wu Da, and finally forced Song Wu away. Pan Jinlian longed to leave Song Wu to live with his brother, and then he drove Song Wu away because his plot failed.
This is the work of a prostitute and a villain.
The viciousness of Pan Jinlian is that Pan colluded with Wang Po to poison Wu Da.
In order to marry into Ximen Qing's family, she participated in the evil schemes of Ximen Qing and Wang Po. Pan pretended to be kind and advised Wu to drink the soup mixed with arsenic. When Wu Da felt that the medicine was too unpalatable and resisted, Pan Jinlian forced the whole bowl of poison into Wu Da's stomach, and then forcibly covered Wu Da's head with a quilt, which eventually led to Wu Da's immediate blood loss and death.
Pan Jinlian's "Yin" can be seen from the rivalry and intrigue between Pan and Ximen Qing's concubines after he married Simon.
The first thing is that when she first met Chun Mei, Simon's maid, and saw Chun Mei's unusual appearance and behavior, she immediately became wary of her. After that, Pan didn't say a word about his vitriol, and he also made things difficult on weekdays. However, as Ximen Qing married more and more women, Pan made up his mind to win them over and began to buy people's hearts hypocritically.
The above list is just one of Pan's crimes. If it is true, I estimate that many people with lofty mountains and morals can list their ten deadly sins.
However, my main intention here is not to criticize Pan Shi. The same is true of Pan's guilt mentioned above. Even if you are interested in defending Pan, it will be in vain.
Nevertheless, when people are throwing rotten eggs at Pan Jinlian, I am willing to be a bystander who sympathizes with this woman.
Let's talk about Pan Jinlian's tragic life experience first.
Pan was sold to a brothel from an early age and was treated inhumanely under the strict discipline of pimps. When he was fifteen or sixteen, he was sold to an old rich man. The old rich man coveted her beauty, but this was envied by the rich man's wife, and then she was resold to Wu Da, who sold biscuits. Wu Da is not only three inches tall, but also extremely ugly.
Fate is so unfair to Pan Shi, can't she resist?
In ancient China in feudal society, people succumbed to fate. Those who oppose tradition, rules and fate will be accused of being immoral, unjust and immoral. In this way, even if Pan Shi was not killed in the end, he would be drowned by saliva in the end.
It is understandable that Pan Jinlian seduced Ximen Qing from another angle.
Why is it that "talent can match beauty", and beauty has no initiative to choose talent? Let the "white" Pan Jinlian marry the "golden tongue" Lang. Would you like it if it were you? Of course, for the ancient China in the patriarchal era, as long as it is beneficial to men, how can women dare to speak ill?
Pan Jinlian has just become the first woman who dares to resist male chauvinism. Some people say that even if you resist, you should take a moral and kind way. Why poison people and seduce men? Then I want to ask, in that era when women were treated like dirt, did men give women any chance to pursue the happiness they wanted?
In the case of no choice, the disadvantaged women can only choose this despised means to escape their arranged fate.
Think about it from another angle. Love between men and women is what you want. Is it really all Pan Shi's fault that Wu Dalang ended up like this? How can Ximen Qing not be easily tempted by Pan Shi's beauty without lust?
In an era when all benevolence, morality and social rules are defined by men, women will always be the most cowardly and oppressed group. People will only blame the femme fatale and the most poisonous woman. Have you ever thought that their badness has nothing to do with the rebellion of benevolence, righteousness and morality, and with men's playing?