The relationship between Ma Yili and the article's sister-in-law was controversial from the beginning. At that time, "women are strong and men are weak", adding an age difference of 8 years.

Many people don't like it.

After the birth of their eldest daughter, everyone's ideas began to change. Who knows that when she was pregnant with a second child, she "capsized" and eventually ended in divorce, which is embarrassing.

The two became attached to filming Struggle and entered the marriage hall. After marriage, the performing arts career started all the way, and Ma Yili also shifted more focus to his family.

But when Ma Yili got pregnant again, the article cheated on her ex-partner Yao Di, and the image of a "good man" plummeted. Since then, no matter how hard you try, it seems difficult to get better resources.

Ma Yili, who was forbearing in those days, said "Do it and cherish it", which showed us her tolerance and generosity. As a mother of two children, she is also full of firepower.

From "Beiguang Don't Believe in Tears" to "My First Half Life", I once again showed my good acting skills and my career turned red. Just when everyone thought their life would be dull, the couple announced their divorce in July 2065438+2009.

After the divorce, the article will still appear in the daughter's competition with Ma Yili, and the two broke up peacefully without resentment and accusations. Many people boast that Ma Yili is a strong woman!

In order to solve this problem, she also spent 10 thousand yuan to try acupuncture, see a psychologist and do sports rehabilitation.

It was not until this time that everyone discovered that the divorce had dealt a great blow to Ma Yili. On the surface, it is an education, not a real "free and easy" heart.

However, she is no longer "pretending to be strong", but really makes people feel distressed!

After divorce, couples usually call each other "ex-wife" and "ex-husband", or euphemistically "father of the child" and "mother of the child", but Ma Yili is somewhat different.

Maybe it's for the sake of children, maybe there is room for articles in Ma Yili's mind, otherwise such disgusting names are rare among ordinary couples.

Many people even started from Ma Yili and took "just do it and cherish it" as a buzzword, meaning "I don't need to explain, you know".

But it is very similar to the article and the situation in Ma Yili today. Even if we are separated, don't forget our deep friendship.

In any case, the article's love for her daughter has not diminished because of the breakdown of marriage, and it is worthy of recognition to live in harmony with Ma Yili.

Couples are free to get married and divorce, but what can they do to be better for their children?

1) Get together and don't let the children join the "struggle" between the two sides.

Negotiate related matters before divorce, don't discuss custody in front of children, and don't force children to choose a side station.

"Whose fault do you think it is? Do you think it's better to be with mom and dad or dad? " Don't say such obviously hostile words.

After the divorce, please don't vent your hatred for each other on your children. If you divorce, it depends on your character. For the sake of your children, please be careful.

2) "White lies" can only last for a period of time, and it is necessary to communicate family changes with children.

Some parents are worried that divorce will hurt their children, so they take various ways to trick their children. For example, their father is on a business trip, and they must pretend to be very caring. Parents and children are actually very tired. Once the child finds out the truth of the matter, it is even more difficult to accept.

Therefore, parents should choose a good time, tell their children frankly what happened at home and explain patiently.

3) Although parents are separated, they can't care less about their children.

It is necessary to tell the children clearly that the reason why parents are separated is not because of the baby, and it will be very painful to be together again. Even if they are separated, they are still the parents of their children, and their concern for the baby will not decrease.

For children, the "role" of parents is indispensable, and he can still thrive! This is much better than growing up in a cold and violent family!