Yes, there is a saying that all roads lead to Rome, but some people were born in Rome. What they have at their fingertips requires us to make great efforts to catch up.
However, I always believe: "God gave you a lower starting point than others to tell you that you should use your life to fight a story of Jedi counterattack."
Next, I want to talk about rural girls, how to counterattack!
0 1. Don't work for three minutes.
Since you start doing something, you must have the determination and perseverance to stick to it. Don't give up halfway, you can't do anything in the end.
It's been four months since I first started writing the official WeChat account. I never thought about giving up halfway, but I didn't hesitate because I loved it. Go all out if you like it!
02. study hard
Don't say reading is useless. Have you ever seen a top student say "reading is useless"? People who say such things are just people whose grades are not very good.
Learn to precipitate yourself while you are young. For girls with no background and no access, college is the best way out.
03. Make your ability worthy of ambition.
The world is fair, I will give you strength, regardless of your ambition. When your ability can't keep up with your ambition, you should study hard and precipitate yourself.
If you want to meet Bole, you must first become a swift horse.
04. Know the world.
Go out and see more when you have the chance, which will not only make you relaxed and happy, but also enhance your horizons. Most of the girls who have seen the world in their twenties live beautifully.
Travel brings you not only scenery, but also inner emptiness and hope again, and finally you are full of expectations for life.
05. Confidence
I believe there are many friends who, like me, feel inferior because of their origins since childhood. That kind of inferiority is engraved in their bones and will not be easily changed.
But I am also studying hard to improve myself and make myself strong. Believe me, as long as you keep a clear head, don't compare with others and make yourself excellent, self-confidence will follow.
06. Make friends.
Improve your social skills and get to know more interesting or capable people with a purpose. Good-looking skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a million.
With interesting people, you will be relaxed and happy. Being with capable people can improve yourself.
07. be independent
We should cultivate our independent thinking ability, don't panic when encountering things, be calm and come up with good solutions. Don't shake your determination because of others, and always be yourself firmly.
08. Never give up on yourself
The best time to plant a tree is ten years ago, followed by now. No matter what you do, it's never too late as long as you want to do it. Do it now, don't hesitate.
09. Don't get married in a hurry.
Before marriage, girls should be financially independent and have their own house and car. This is your confidence in facing life. Try to have a skill, and then consider getting married when you have an economic foundation.
10. Strive to improve yourself
Rural girls with no background like us can only rely on themselves. You have to believe that the fate of three generations can be changed by your efforts alone. Read more books to broaden your mind and don't indulge in the internet.