On the other hand, nowadays, marriage is gradually despised, and even extramarital affairs have become the mainstream. Many people live with the mentality of trial marriage, flash marriage and unmarried cohabitation.
The mistake of marriage concept brings deviation to people's cognition, which makes people indulge in marriage, even despise the value of marriage, and have no respect and trust in marriage.
The correct view of marriage is not one or two principles, but a commitment and commitment to marriage-because there is a Covenant first, not only in the understanding of marriage, but also in practice and life. In addition, the word of God is the blueprint of marriage view.
However, the deviation of marriage finally points to the criminal life, some of which are extramarital affairs, breaking the vows and agreements of marriage, having a family outside behind his wife or husband's back, and even having other children; There are also people who get pregnant and have children when they get married. Of course, there are also abortions, and some are just for the sake of desire.
Why do people now despise marriage so much, and even think that marriage is not important, and being together is the most important? What is the reason? Is it the extinction of human nature or the decline of morality? Do you not understand the principle or intentionally?
Most of the reasons are due to people's physiological desires.
Everyone has desires, but if we indulge our desires blindly, we will break through the bottom line, get carried away and have no rules in life.
Marriage is not a ceremony for people to play, nor is it a process for people to entertain. Marriage is a covenant, a mutual trust and tacit understanding. If you don't know what marriage is, stepping into marriage is a crisis in crisis, because there are many things to face in the future.
The author once heard an aunt mention that after her nephew's daughter-in-law got married, she never took the initiative to take care of her family. After giving birth to children, they are basically handed over to their parents. She doesn't want to take care of children at all, and she doesn't like the trouble of taking care of children. Every day, besides lying in bed and playing with her mobile phone, she just plays with her mobile phone, eats while eating, and does her own thing when she is free.
Moreover, the aunt mentioned that her nephew and daughter-in-law lived together unmarried before. After pregnancy, the child eventually miscarried because of developmental problems, and now she has another child. They still don't care, and they don't know how distressed they are. Because they don't understand marriage and family life, they have no sense of responsibility to take care of their children.
The root of this problem is the ambiguity of marriage. Because I don't understand the life, value and significance of marriage, I have no responsibility and responsibility. I rely on my parents everywhere, and I have no ideas and opinions. Maybe I will make progress with the extension of time, and maybe the marriage will have a loophole crisis with the extension of time.
A correct view of marriage can bring a happy family life, not only a harmonious relationship between husband and wife, but also the same sight and burden in raising children, so that their love can live in the family.
In the eyes of the public, inappropriate marriage is often mistaken for divorce. If there are contradictions after having children, they will divorce, have incompatible personalities, and even have discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
These wrong ideas have spread in society. It seems that no one cares about the right marriage, only about whether they are hurt. Nobody takes the time to get married. Because of the hasty marriage, I finally regretted seeing the reality, and the idea of blood gas appeared and chose the road of divorce.
Perhaps the contemporary people put a label on marriage, that is, it is very casual, casual, unconstrained and unsupervised. When faced with the temptation of sin, it is easy to compromise and lose the bottom line.
We often say that this is a society that looks at faces and looks at appearances. Not many people are willing to take the time to listen to you talk about inner beauty, because human nature has mobilized people's choices.
Nowadays, many massage shops and slimming shops have become the choice of many beauty-loving ladies or married women. On the one hand, they love beauty, on the other hand, they don't want their husbands to have aesthetic problems, so they work hard to lose weight.
Of course, this is human nature, and the pursuit of beauty is an individual's right, but it also contains some problems, because a wife has to work hard on herself if she wants to keep her husband's heart.
Although this is normal from some angles, it sometimes shows that people are eager for a perfect marriage and are eager for respect, trust and recognition in marriage.
In short, a correct understanding of the concept of marriage is worth learning from everyone who is about to enter and enter marriage. A good marriage needs mutual trust, commitment and respect. In marriage, we should not only learn from each other, but also re-recognize ourselves and change our obvious and potential problems.
Prepare yourself well and live your own character with a gentle and wise heart, not only in cultivating yourself, but also in cultivating people around you.
Of course, for Christians, the establishment of marriage concept is also a lesson that must be learned, which can not only bring an example to the family, but also have a beautiful witness and live the glory of God.