How to be a refined woman 1, refined women are always in awe.
Awe is the foundation for a person to walk in the world and always keep himself humble, kind and sober. The better a person is, the more he needs such things, especially for many happy women. A woman with awe has her own basic values, ethics and beliefs. They seldom speak loudly, they will consider other people's feelings, never get hysterical, and never curse others, especially those closest to them. A woman with awe never goes against the trend. They know how to follow the laws of nature and the gender world. They pay more attention to the time of morning and the change of seasons. They will keep a good attitude every day with good wishes.
2. Exquisite women make health and beauty a way of life.
What is the highest return on women's investment? The answer is beauty and health. Why do you say that? Because only beauty can make you more persistent in managing yourself, observing and comparing, and constantly learning and improving yourself. This power is inherent in women, and no one can predict its true potential until the end. Of course, beauty must be healthy. Especially when health and beauty become a habit and lifestyle, its inspiration and nuclear power are absolutely immeasurable.
Here, we might as well give an example. In our real life, many women always like to buy some cheap things. Whether it is good or bad, whether it is needed now or in the future, as long as it is cheap and they think it is profitable, they can't help but buy it at buy buy. But as a result, after buying home, there are often few people interested, or even directly left out. It not only caused serious waste, but also made life particularly refreshing. There are mountains of old things everywhere, but often there is nothing you really like and use. Also, in terms of food, as long as you want to eat, you should also try the river top red. All kinds of spicy instant noodles, fried mala Tang, snacks never tire of eating. Even if it is so spicy that your mouth is red and swollen, you will not hesitate. There is no doubt that such a lifestyle will not only be beautiful, but also unhealthy. After a long time, we must exchange happiness.
3. Exquisite women never rely too much.
Regarding the importance of women's self-reliance, Azure was really tired in the last article. So here, naturally I don't want to say more. I just want to say that how much power you have, how much charm you have. Ability has always been based on the usual practice and thinking consciousness. Only with this awareness and ability can we be courageous and talented? Don't panic if you have food in your hand? . On the contrary, when you get used to dependence, you will be lazy prematurely, give up yourself and be easily controlled by others. Then, there will be so many variables in your life that you can't make the final decision for yourself. In addition, you have to bear high time and labor costs for your excessive dependence. This kind of life is very heavy, and there is nothing exquisite about it.
4, exquisite women know how to choose, can give up those things that are not needed.
In fact, people have accumulated something all their lives. But what we often accumulate is not necessarily the fame and fortune we need. More often, it will be wrinkles on the face, pain in the heart and people and things that you always want to lose but can't lose. Obviously, we can't let all these things grow naturally. We must get rid of those bad things. For example, throw away some unnecessary old furniture and clothes at the right time, bid farewell to some people and things that make us unhappy, and get rid of negative emotions in the past. Why are the wardrobes of many of our female compatriots getting more and more full? This is not because there are really many beautiful clothes and treasures in their closets. It is precisely because there are so many unnecessary things that they usually don't even look at them.
So why don't they throw away what they don't need? No, they can't. They can't stand it. On the surface, this is a virtue of thrift, but in fact it is very bad. Because they have to pay more time and space costs, even emotional costs, for their disappointment. They will spend half a day looking for a beautiful dress, and they will be in a bad mood because the wardrobe is getting more and more difficult to clean up. There is no doubt that if life is compared to this wardrobe, such a life is not aesthetic. Therefore, exquisite women always know how to lose weight. No matter how beautiful and expensive a dress is, as long as she doesn't need it, she will definitely throw it away.
Exquisite women are extremely smart and never commit suicide.
Exquisite women are mostly more interesting. Because their thinking is smart, no matter what you say to her, it seems that they can't understand, or they agree or disagree, and they will never insist on their opinions easily and argue endlessly. They are very willing to listen to other people's opinions first and are willing to have more diversified discussions. They are more receptive to new things than other women and are more likely to stand in the forefront of the times. Therefore, they often have good aesthetics and never strangle themselves.
6, exquisite women will not be reckless, leave two points in everything.
I have met many capable and talented women. But the real contact makes me feel that there are not many beautiful things. Why is this happening? Because they are pushing too hard! They will be flushed with others because of a typo; Will fight with colleagues and friends for a particularly small list; Will let her husband bow to her in public in order to prove his charm; Will children be endlessly forced to participate in various off-campus remedial classes? And in the end, they will tell you helplessly: with the rapid development of society, backwardness will be beaten. Is it okay not to be serious and not to prepare early? To tell the truth, such a woman has no beauty at all.
A truly exquisite woman is not like this. They know how to leave two points for themselves in everything. Just like eating, even if she likes something again, she will only eat eight subcontracts. There are three reasons for this: first, being full is good for your health; Second, delicious food needs to be shared with others; Third, they need to leave room for food that may come suddenly.