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Stop loss in time: get married.
There are hundreds of ways to break up, different ways, different moods and different shadow areas.

Qian Duoduo never thought that her breakup would happen on the wedding day.

And all this, she did not know in advance.

If I had known that her boyfriend Zhang Ping's bad habits in her hometown were so bad, she would rather not get married, not listen to his parents and not respect the customs in her hometown.

1

"You can have a wedding in Yicheng, but you must first have a wedding in your hometown. There are many relatives and friends here. Who took the time to go there? Home is convenient, and there are many people who used to follow the ceremony. If you don't do it, you will lose. "

A week before the wedding, Zhang Ping's parents called and told them why they wanted to hold the wedding in their hometown.

"A lot, or do as my mother said. Although there are not many gifts in my hometown, they add up to thousands of dollars. All this money is for us. Besides, it is our custom that the newly married wife should offer tea to her in-laws at the wedding. My father has bad legs and feet, and my mother has never come out alone. They can't attend our wedding. Can we not be so polite? Right? "

Zhang Ping's way of transmitting information is ingenious. He knows that Duoduo has a strong working ability, and his monthly salary is more than 7,000 yuan, so he simply despises those thousands of dollars. He played the brand of filial piety.

"All right. It's not that I don't want to see my in-laws, mainly because I heard that your hometown got married too fiercely. I'm afraid I can't help but make the wedding very unpleasant. "

Zhang Ping's hometown is a village around Yicheng, and the phenomenon of marriage is very serious.

I heard from my best friend Xin Wei that when my cousin got married, the marriage was very serious. My best friend cousin, who has always been good-natured, was so angry that she dropped a vase and saved the maid of honor. You know, if it weren't for that trick, the bridesmaids would probably be stripped naked.

Their marriage is famous all over the country. Zhang Ping herself said that a bride in the village had a big fight with her husband's relatives because of her marriage, and it took several months to mediate before giving up.

So it has nothing to do with money, which is the main reason why Duoduo doesn't want to go.

Not only is marriage a terrible thing, but getting a license there is also a pile of shit. She went with Zhang Ping twice, either with a seal or a letter of confirmation, and so on, so that she didn't get a marriage certificate on her wedding day.

What are you afraid of getting a certificate one day earlier and one day later? Let's have a wedding first.

Mom and her mother-in-law have the same attitude, so she has to leave the marriage certificate alone for the time being.

No, Cheng Xiang, this matter has just stopped, and the marriage she had to face when she got married worried her.

"Don't worry, that's all in the past. Now I don't have many friends there, only two cousins and some primary school classmates. The elders won't make trouble, so you don't have to worry. I will protect you. I know the limit. "

"Many, my parents' generation pays great attention to statecraft. You have become a daughter-in-law. Even if we don't go there to live in the future, we should at least go through the motions to avoid being said that we are not sensible. Be obedient and go. "

What forced Qian Duoduo to agree to go to Zhang Ping's hometown for the wedding first was a courtesy to her in-laws, that is, "I will protect you" in Zhang Ping's mouth and "I don't want people to say that we are not sensible" in my parents' mouth.

She knows what her parents, who have always been reasonable, think and believes in Zhang Ping.

Love time is short, but people are very nice.

2

"29 years old, nominal age 3 1. According to your aunt, that boy is good, and he is a distant relative of her colleague. Why don't you go and have a look? "

At the age of 29, just a few months after breaking up with her ex who had been in love for 8 years, her parents couldn't wait to put her marriage on the agenda.

Ask her aunt for an introduction directly.

She can't refuse. If her aunt hadn't invited her to play in this city after graduation, she might not have found such a good job.

Nine to five, more than 7,000 a month, rarely working overtime. Although I have to be responsible for financial work in addition to my main duties, it is very easy.

After all, it's almost thirty, and I didn't come here until now. If it weren't for my good feelings, I listened to my predecessor and always focused on him. In order to cook for him, I changed jobs from the rental office several times. In the past ten years, although you can't say that you are worth nearly one million, you can at least save hundreds of thousands.

You know, her first job was directly poached because of a design award, with a salary of 7 thousand.

"Mom, I'll go. Don't worry. "

Idle is idle.

Qian Duoduo simply cleared up and kept the appointment.

The blind date is booked in a milk tea house, which is small in scale and elegant in environment.

Xiao Yan said that this was put forward by the man, because girls like to drink milk tea, and it is afternoon, not dinner time.

Aunt also praised each other's caution.

"Hello, my name is Zhang Ping. I am an editor of a cultural company. I am 30 years old ... What would you like to drink? "

Because it is afternoon, there are few people in the teahouse. As soon as she entered the door, the man in the seat next to her stood up and introduced himself in a dull and slightly nervous way.

She looked at the man, about 1 m 75, with fair skin. Visually, 78 Baidu's glasses are across the bridge of the nose, thin and energetic.

First impression, he gave her a good feeling. I thought it was a formality, but at this point, I found that his speech was extraordinary. At first glance, he is a man who loves reading. Every three sentences he says must be accompanied by a famous aphorism. He likes traveling, participating in various speech contests and keeping dogs.

All three of them like the same language and similar age, which gradually makes her feel good.

I didn't see it several times, so I decided to fall in love. Three months later, I put the marriage theory on the agenda.

three

"Toto, do you like this wedding dress?"

Zhang Ping is a typical ravine phoenix man. It's not bad to go to college and go back to work after graduation.

He mentioned many times that he is all the hope of his parents and the pride of the whole village.

Although the salary is seven or eight thousand, it is very economical to spend money at ordinary times, such as computers, which were configured several years ago. She suggested, why don't you change it?

But he said, it can still be used, and it can't be used any more.

For example, his jeans are all white on the knees, but he still says he can make do without changing them and can't wear them any more.

He tried his best to save money so that when he got married, he could take the bride price himself without worrying about his parents.

Of course, making money hard is also the reason why he has never had a girlfriend since he grew up.

Such people rarely ask her about more than 3,000 styles when choosing their own wedding dresses.

You know, the wedding dress is only worn once.

"No, we rent a wedding here. Go back to your hometown for a wedding and buy a Chinese two-piece suit. "

His parents prefer red to western-style wedding dresses.

This is what Zhang Ping revealed to himself. In addition, the mountain roads there are all dirt, so it is not convenient to wear wedding dresses, which is far less convenient than China's gifts.

What's more, there is marriage? Wearing Chinese style is definitely much more convenient than wedding dress.

At the thought of getting married again, she couldn't help worrying.

Worry comes back to worry, and you always have to experience it.

Isn't that a while ago? Just bear it and it will pass. Zhang Ping kept comforting her.

"Well, anyway, sooner or later, it's too early to worry. Then improvise. As long as it is not out of line, it should be nothing. "

So she comforted herself and decided not to think about it.

four

Toto, shall we go to his hometown with you?

A few days before the wedding, the bridesmaid group took care of it. Four bridesmaids, two girlfriends and two good classmates. Xin Wei, a girlfriend of mine, witnessed my cousin's wedding. She asked timidly on the phone.

"yes. But it doesn't matter. Zhang Ping said that he didn't have many friends in his hometown. He will say hello in advance, not too much. "

"Well, all right. I am your good friend. Arrive on time! "

Xin Wei thought for a moment and agreed.

Xin Wei's phone reminded her that in order to protect her four bridesmaids, she specially bought four sets of slim jumpsuits to prevent her best friend from making too much noise.

Before you leave, send them one by one and let them get dressed.

Marriage is a bad habit. From the news, from the mouths of people around her, from Zhang Ping's words, she knew that marriage at this time had already gone beyond the meaning of celebration and blessing, and most of them just maliciously violated girls in the name of marriage.

She doesn't want to hurt her friends because of her happy event, so she has to work harder to deal with the marriage than her own wedding.

Fear of fear, this day has come.

That morning, when she was brought into Zhang Ping's house by bridesmaids and relatives and friends, she found that everything was not like what Zhang Ping said: "There are few friends, so it won't be serious." As soon as she entered the door, she saw more than a dozen men about Zhang Ping sitting at the dining table in the yard, laughing or laughing, or booing. What's more, she said, "Let's eat quickly and be brides after dinner ~"

She thought that if they didn't have the custom of eating first and then getting married, I'm afraid they would have started long ago.

"Duoduo, don't be afraid, it's okay."

After a series of ceremonies, Duo Duo returned to her new house with her bridesmaids. Xin Wei saw her eyes alert and curled up nervously on the bed, unable to help but smile and comfort.

Speaking of which, Xin Wei is obviously more nervous than her. After sitting for a few seconds, she stood up and walked around, looking at the bustling guests in the courtyard outside the door.

The other three bridesmaids didn't seem to think too much, just eating melon seeds and laughing, talking about whether Zhang Ping's nose is handsome or not, whether Zhang Ping's mother gets along well and so on.

"I'm fine. Take a look at it for me. Is my hair messed up? "

She pretended to touch her hair easily, adjusted it a few times and touched the tassel on the hair clasp. This hairstyle is designed according to Wei Zi's daily style in Gege, Zhu Huan. The only difference is that it is set in the back and wears a golden hairpin, which is very clever and playful.

"Come on, let's take pictures. What a good opportunity. Everyone is beautiful."

A bridesmaid suddenly proposed marriage, and everyone agreed. Then she got busy, taking selfies, taking photos with each other, commenting after filming, leaving a beautiful circle of friends, and the cheerful atmosphere drove away all worries about marriage.

five

"Sister-in-law, why don't you drink just now? Where is the bride who doesn't drink? "

At two o'clock in the afternoon, after dinner, the men drank almost all the wine. Zhang Ping's cousin blushed and pushed open the door with a thick neck, and rushed over with a glass of wine.

The thick smell of alcohol instantly overflowed the whole room, and several bridesmaids stepped forward to stop it.

Xin Wei and other bridesmaids were caught by a group of men who broke in from behind before they could walk to Duo Duo. There were too many cooks and they were thrown into bed.

"Ah ~ ~ Let me go, let me go ..."

"Oh, oh ............."

Suddenly whistles, laughter and shouts seemed to lift the roof, and the bridal chamber that I had been worried about for a long time came.

"No, I can't."

Many people are helpless and busy getting out of bed and hiding in the corner. Unexpectedly, this dark-skinned man doesn't want to let her go. He gulped down the wine in the cup, put it on the bedside table and pulled her over. Because of the fierce action, her center of gravity was unstable and she threw herself into cousin Zhang Ping's arms.

"Sister-in-law, brother is really blessed ... haha"

Cousin Zhang Ping took the opportunity to hug her and gave her a hard squeeze on her chest.

She was anxious and tried her best to push her away. Unexpectedly, her strength is simply not enough. Cousin Zhang Ping clung to her, and her waist resisted her with all its strength. She vaguely felt the impulse in each other's blood and came at her through her pants.

She was scared, really scared, dragging her mouth and pleading, "Come on, I'm your sister-in-law, come on ..."

"Toto, bite him, bite him hard!"

At this point, Xin Wei, who was struggling in bed, quickly threw off other men, kicked her cousin Zhang Ping hard with her feet and bit him hard on the neck. Cousin Zhang Ping finally let go, stumbled and fell to the ground with a heavy load.

If Xin Wei hadn't run down from the bed and pulled up a lot, Zhang Ping, a reluctant cousin, would have wanted her to put it on.

Breathing heavily, I saw my clothes torn to pieces, but all the buttons on Xin Wei's upper body were torn open. If it weren't for the one-piece slimming suit, it would probably be all gone.

"Xin wei, come on, they-"

At the moment of getting up, the experiences of the other three sisters made her cry, and they rushed to bed in desperation.

Three bridesmaids were pressed on the bed by a dozen men, some pulling clothes, some pulling skirts, and some doing indescribable movements on them.

All their clothes were torn off. Because the zipper of the jumpsuit is hidden in the side, it takes some effort to open it, but some of it is torn, revealing the close-fitting underwear.

They laughed and laughed, without joy in their eyes, but full of catharsis and pleasure.

The three bridesmaids are like lambs to be slaughtered. Their red faces are full of tears, their mouths are red and swollen, their hair is messy, and they struggle desperately in vain. ...

Toto and Xin Wei pulled them hard and beat them, but they pinned them down again.

Men have innate advantages in strength, but no one comes to help them shout at the top of their voices, even Zhang Ping, a lot of husbands.

"ah! You-"

Seeing that it was out of control, he pulled out his hand with all his strength, pulled out the hair clasp on his head and plunged into the face of the man who was holding up Xin Wei's pants zipper.

six

The hair clasp was stuck in and suddenly pulled out, and the blood flowed out instantly, flowing down his face, and his shirt was dyed red and dripped on hi-bed.

The man suddenly let out a cry like a bomb and ran out quickly.

The room was quiet, and the other men stopped moving and looked at Duoduo in succession.

"Sister-in-law, you see, everyone is a new house? You, after you have done this, how will friends and relatives meet? "

Zhang Ping's cousin was frightened, too. He woke up half drunk and pretended to ask questions seriously with an unhappy face.

"Xin Wei, are you okay?"

She hesitated for a few seconds to help Xin Wei and other sisters, and gave her cousin Zhang Ping a white look.

Then calmly get out of bed and point at the door angrily. "Get out!"

Many voices are so loud and sharp that even other guests who are about to enter the door are scared to stand outside the door. Of these people, only Zhang Ping is absent.

"Good good, go for a walk, really disappointing. Zhang Ping's daughter-in-law can't clean up in the future. She suffered ... "

"Why? I won't make trouble in the bridal chamber and I don't know how to respect customs. "

"Ha ha ha, you don't know, I almost felt it just now ..."

The men shook their heads, sighed, laughed or soured, or played tricks, and walked out of the door.

"Sisters, I'm sorry ..."

After closing the door, she burst into tears. She took clothes out of the box and put them on. She kept apologizing. She didn't know what else to say except that she was sorry.

The bridesmaids were frightened and it took a long time to recover.

"It's okay, it's okay, we're okay, don't cry, today is a big day ..."

Are you happy? Is this called happiness? Her good sister was almost violated, and so was she. Didn't Zhang Ping say hello in advance? Why is it even scarier than she thought?

She didn't want to get married, so she tore off her headdress, changed her clothes, picked up her salute and went back with them.

"What's the matter? Is it worth it? "

Helpless, my mother-in-law and Qiyi tried to stop them, but they were blocked at the door and couldn't get out. Ten minutes later, Zhang Ping hurried back and asked grumpily.

seven

"That you say is it worth it? What did you just do? They almost raped my friend. Is it not worth it? Didn't you say it wasn't that bad? ……"

In despair, she shouted to him at the top of her lungs.

"We have this custom, the wedding. You said you stabbed someone. If I hadn't taken them to the clinic for dressing, if they hadn't been reasonable, you would have been in prison for intentional injury! How come? Your good sisters are human, so they are not human? "

She doesn't know when Zhang Ping's temper became so big. He has never been so angry in the past few months.

But so what?

Should such bad habits be forgiven? At present, these people have long constituted the crime of obscenity.

"Yes and yes, as long as you haven't finished your work, you can't lose a piece of meat if you touch it twice. That's how people in our village come over. Happy event, no trouble, no excitement. "

Mother-in-law also has confidence, and on one side, there is no pleading, and her eyebrows are low.

"I'm sorry, I am not from your village. I can't accept it! "

Toto immediately said, pulling up his sisters and rushing out.

"A lot, come on, we are fine. Noisy, because a little thing is not worth it. "

The sisters are busy persuading again.

Can know more, she has no impulse, she decided not to continue, what happened at the age of thirty? She's not afraid.

"Are you serious? You're not moved. What's your hurry? "

Zhang Ping's tone softened a little, but she began to blame her for going looking for trouble.

"Your cousin almost raped me, if he had time to take off his pants!"

Duoduo no longer cares about face, and every word is clear and full of indignation.

"That's not all right, you don't know, when you get married next door, it's terrible ..."

"I am really blind! I tell you, whoever stops me again today, I will die directly here! "

Zhang Ping's words completely angered Duo Duo. She vowed that she would rather die than live with a man who had seen a broken place three times. She turned back to the house and took a pair of scissors and shouted at her neck.

"No, no, how can you see blood on a big day?"

"Oh, come on, take it off for her!"

"Where did you find your new wife? Are her parents only concerned about life and not about teaching? "

……

The seven aunts and eight aunts were noisy, and they were mixed with laughter when they advised her. Without saying anything, they began to attack her face to face, but because they were afraid of the scissors in her hand, they retreated and made a way out.

Zhang Ping paused, but when she wanted to go forward, she was pulled aside by her mother. She comforted in a low voice, "Let her go and suffer less in the future."

eight

Many bulls came out with their sisters without looking back and boarded the bus directly back to Yicheng.

"Toto, what are you going to do?"

In the car, the sisters didn't speak.

Half an hour later, Xin Wei asked softly.

"Go back to the bride price. I don't believe it, I can't get married. "

She has made up her mind.

No wonder Zhang Ping once said that most men in their village can't find a wife. The custom is so bad, who dares to marry? Those who have poor psychological quality, have no resistance and do not know how to protect themselves are likely to be raped on the spot. It's strange that they haven't entered the bridal chamber yet, so they can live a good life in the future.

When I arrived in Yicheng that evening, I transferred the bride price to Zhang Ping.

"A lot, mom sorry you. If I had known, I shouldn't have encouraged you to go there. "

She told her parents what happened, and her mother choked with love on the phone.

"Mom, don't be sad. Your daughter is not ugly. Now there are more men than women. I don't know if I can find someone handsome, rich and young. "

Comfort my mother a lot, and I don't feel lost in my heart.

I was lucky to see him earlier.

With what sense of loss and relief, she smiled.

But Zhang Ping couldn't laugh. After receiving the returned bride price, he discussed it with his mother for half a night before coming back to find Duoduo.

"You don't say, I can't continue to marry you. I'm glad I didn't get the license now. Otherwise, you will lose a lot. "

Open more doors and stop him before he can talk.

"No, it's not, you don't get me wrong. I'm here to ask for the thousand dollars, which was a gift from my mother. In addition, do you want to pay half of the banquet at home? After all, we didn't form it Can't I bear all the losses? "

"Oh, well, I'm sorry, I forgot. How much, you say. "

Duoduo only hesitated for two seconds, then quickly recovered, turned and walked to the sofa to get his mobile phone, and asked and said.

"1000 gift money and 2000 banquet money, one * * * three thousand."

Zhang Ping speaks slowly and looks at her like a stranger.

People who don't know the inside story will never think that they almost got married, but more like buying something to pay for it.

There is no emotion in the tone.

Besides, their family only has a few tables of dishes, and it's not a Manchu-Chinese banquet. A * * *, won't want two thousand pieces? However, this is not important. Let him go quickly is the business.

"I turned around, not a few minutes."

Laughed a lot, and was about to close the door, but Zhang Ping stopped hard until the news came from the mobile phone, and he confirmed it himself before he went downstairs with confidence.

(End)