China people have always been very enthusiastic about women's proper performance in dinner, especially in the workplace. Eating and doing things are indispensable. Every company will have many dinners, dinners and receptions, and there are many places to pay attention to at dinners. The following share the proper performance of women in dinner.
A woman's decent behavior when eating 1 takes care of other people's feelings.
Whenever I eat with others, some women always eat their own food, regardless of other people's feelings. Once they find something delicious, they will grab it first and won't think about leaving it to others. And an educated woman usually thinks of others first, and only eats what she wants after consulting others' opinions, instead of wolfing it down from the beginning.
Understand the basic etiquette
In fact, many things can be seen at dinner, not just eating. Many women don't know the dining etiquette, just like at home. They don't consider anything, their words and deeds are particularly casual, and they don't care too much at all. As everyone knows, people with a heart are likely to judge your quality in a short time through these unintentional actions, and there is no need to do too much.
There should be proper dining etiquette.
Only a well-behaved woman is a truly educated woman. I will feel very comfortable with such a woman. Even if the other person hurt himself unintentionally, I will choose to forgive, and I will not always haggle over every ounce. Don't think that it doesn't matter whether a woman has self-cultivation, but she is beautiful in appearance. You know, times have changed, and only women with rich hearts can be beautiful forever.
Eating will not be too casual.
An educated woman, even when eating, will behave differently from others and always show her own style. No matter when, they will have strict requirements for themselves, and there will be no slack. As long as I appear in public, I will try to restrain myself. Even if I eat this little thing, I will not be too casual, but I will always pay attention to my image.
Not always picky about food.
Without self-cultivation, no matter what a woman does, she will always be self-centered and will not care about other things. Even if she is bored, a woman doesn't care about anything, just keeps doing her own thing. Even if I have dinner with others, I won't think about many things. I don't eat food I don't like, I will just pick it out.
Take the initiative to help others with food.
With an educated woman, I will be very happy and nothing will happen. I just need to play alone. No matter what happens, she will help herself solve it without any difficulty. When eating in private and * * *, she will take the initiative to help herself with food. As long as you have any needs, you can ask this woman for help, without thinking too much.
The proper performance of women in dinner II. First, take care of other people's feelings and pay attention to details.
I remember it was the annual meeting of the company, and I made a table with my colleagues. Some people know each other very well, and some people have never spoken. I wanted to put sweet and sour pork ribs in my rice, but I was embarrassed when there were too many people. I always turn to anything in front of me. I was about to reach out when the food was turned away. At this moment, a lady next to her saw it. When the food turned around again, she held the turntable with her hand to let me pick up the food and smiled at me. At that moment, I thought my little sister was an angel, who would take care of other people's feelings and care about small details. Now we are good friends.
Second: not always picky about food.
This is the most cultured behavior of my woman at the dinner table. There are many people, so be clean when picking vegetables. After all, there will be a lot of bacteria without chopsticks. If you toss and turn on the plate, pick and choose. Take other people's food or your saliva Some people eat hot pot, take a bite and find it is not cooked, so they will put it back. I don't think such people will want to go out to eat with you in the future, and the basic literacy of eating is still there.
Third: I won't take the initiative to help others with food.
If the child can't get it, you can help the child with chopsticks, but try not to take the initiative to pick up the food at the table of adults. You think you are hospitable, but you embarrass others. First of all, it is unsanitary for you to pinch others with China chopsticks. Secondly, if you get caught and the other person doesn't like it, but you want to eat it, it's also embarrassing. Therefore, an educated woman will be quiet at the dinner table, behave appropriately and eat slowly.
The correct performance of women in the dinner party is 3 0 1, and the dinner party is understood correctly.
The secretary of the boss of a construction group was promoted to director of the office, and the post of secretary was openly recruited. Because it is a good group company, it attracts many outstanding talents to apply. One of Kobayashi's classmates is a fierce "penholder" and won the first place in the written test, but there was an argument during the interview.
Xiao Lin is good-looking, articulate and equally excellent in the interview. Finally the interviewer asked her what else she wanted to ask.
Kobayashi asked: Will there be many dinners as a secretary?
The director asked: What do you think of dinner?
Kobayashi truthfully replied: I don't want much dinner and I won't drink.
The director was noncommittal. Other interviewers think Kobayashi is the best in this group of applicants. From the key ability of the position, writing ability is the most important, and Kobayashi should be admitted. The director did not object again, but simply said: Xiaolin's future development is limited.
Unexpectedly, four years later, Kobayashi is still working as a secretary, diligently arranging schedules, taking meeting notes and writing manuscripts. The former secretary was promoted to director in two and a half years.
Many people, like Xiao Lin, are unwilling to show themselves at the dinner, or even reject the dinner, and feel that they can be affirmed by the leaders by their own strength. But in a company with a cloud of talents, even if you are superior, it is difficult to compete with others. Smart women should not refuse a meal, but should correctly assess the situation and learn to use it.
02. Wisdom as a foil
Except for a few dinner leaders, most women are positioned as "foil" in the dinner, so we should abandon our usual arrogance and willfulness and skillfully be the "lubricant" in the dinner to promote the smooth progress of the dinner.
Dressing up is essential when going to a dinner party. Going to a party without makeup is a great disrespect to the other party, but you should also dress appropriately, especially for a cooperative dinner, so as not to steal the limelight of the other party's female companion.
It's simple to say, but people who step on the red line are here every day. Who makes female friends naturally love to dress up and compare with others, most afraid of being eclipsed in front of the same sex? To be honest, I will also secretly compete with my girlfriends when I travel, and I will not compare with each other.
Even if you try your best to satisfy each other's host and guest, but forget to take care of the "children in front of Yan Luowang", it may be impossible. After all, you can bring out people you trust around you, and a sentence or two is much more weighty than the wine you desperately drink at the dinner table.
03, cautious language expression
Women should take care of everyone when eating. If you don't speak properly, you will lose all the impression points.
"Do you want to have a meal?" This sentence may be blurted out at ordinary times, but what an indecent impression it gives at dinner!
"Are you hungry? I asked the waiter to serve. " Inquiries that seem to be concerned actually make it difficult for guests to answer. Are they hungry?
"How's business recently?" In case people's grades are really low, don't say it. Let's say: Are you busy recently? No matter how busy you are, pay attention to your health. There is neither risk nor worry about each other.
Of course, if you accidentally say something wrong, you should also save it in time. Appropriate self-mockery may turn the situation around: "Look at me, I usually talk casually, but fortunately I am one of our own, otherwise I would be ashamed to eat!" "
04. seat tips
Finally, I'll give you a hint of giving up your seat, but don't take the wrong seat!
The seat facing the gate is the most distinguished.
The left side of the topic is more differentiated than the right side, and the rest are arranged in turn.
Accompanying leaders should take the initiative to sit at the door, so as to pour wine, order tea and other chores.
Finally, you understand the seating order, but there is no guarantee that someone will take the wrong seat. It is better to remind him humorously: you are warming up the seat for General Manager Zhang.
Clever reminder that this is Mr. Zhang's seat relieved the embarrassment. Maybe the other person is already grateful to you!