In the face of serious diseases, we always look forward to miracles. Isn't it always said in novels that we are physically disabled and determined, brave enough to face the disease and finally overcome it? But in reality, we are more bankrupt and powerless.
Cousin's ending is the ending of most cancer patients in reality. I hope people who read the article can take warning and live a good life.
The last time I saw my cousin was at my wedding. I still remember the day when she sent me to get married. She smiled sweetly and happily, helped me fix my makeup, told me about her yoga experience, counted the interesting things we experienced together, and wrapped a big red envelope. I smiled and said, I'll take it first and pay it back when you get married.
Later, because they were busy at work, we didn't meet again. Even if everyone only has a few days off during the Chinese New Year, they are rushing back and forth to attend the party. More than a year later, there came a thunderbolt-like news that my cousin had liver cancer, advanced!
Because my cousin works in a distant province and is treated in a local hospital nearby, I can't visit her because she is in the third trimester. I only heard that she received various consultations, chemotherapy, lost weight and lost her hair. I don't video with her, and I can't even look at her photos. I am afraid to see her in pain, and I don't know how to comfort a person who is struggling on the verge of death. In the face of real diseases, any chicken soup discourse seems so pale and powerless.
My cousin's mood is also intermittent optimism and continuous collapse. When she can't control it, she will scream hysterically. We all know that under the torture of birth, illness and death, she can't care about anything. According to the diagnosis and the doctor's analysis, we all know the result, but we were extremely looking forward to a miracle, and later we lost to reality. Cancer cells spread rapidly to many organs of the body, which is incurable …
Two months later, I met my cousin in her coffin at her funeral. This year, she was 30 years old, just in her thirties. She has a steady and rising job and a boyfriend who is going to get married in Gao Fushuai. The road behind her was so long and beautiful, but she lay down forever.
Cousin is optimistic, cheerful and generous, especially fond of laughing. She is tall, with delicate facial features and black hair. She is a complete beauty. After work, she practices yoga diligently and insists on slimming. She used her saved salary to buy luxury cars, and often invited friends to have a big meal all over the world.
None of us can tell the exact cause of her liver cancer, and the doctor didn't give an answer, but I think it should be caused by irregular work and rest and unhealthy diet: my cousin is used to staying up late, often staying up until two or three in the morning, or even staying up all night, and continuing to work from nine to five the next day. As for what she stayed up late, we don't know, but we know from her circle of friends that she seems to be more addicted to staying up late and can't sleep at that point every night. Cousin also forces herself to stay slim. When exercise and fitness didn't achieve her goal so quickly, she went on a diet and often skipped meals all day. When she is hungry, she relies on some fruit to satisfy her hunger. If you persist for a while, you can also achieve the goal of slimming, but then slowly maintain and return to normal life. But cousin likes to eat big meals and overeat, especially when she can't sleep in the middle of the night, and then go when she is full.
How can a man be healthy once he can't eat well and sleep well? It's too late to regret losing your health!
The most painful and regrettable separation in the world is that a white-haired person sends a black-haired person, watching his cousin's parents haggard and loveless, and instantly hating her for not taking care of herself, for the sake of her elderly parents!
Every man must be or will be someone's son, husband, father, and every woman must be or will be someone's daughter, wife, mother, a piece of grass in the world, and a piece of sky at home. No matter who is missing, that home will no longer be complete, and everything else you risk your life for will become a cloud! So make more decisions for yourself, take care, take care and take care!