Men have several shortcomings. As we all know, everyone's quality is different, but now we pay more attention to a person's inner quality. Among them, excellent men must have their own lives. Here are some of the main shortcomings of men.
Several major shortcomings of men 1 first: poor image.
Image is very important to a man. No matter how powerful and fluent you are, if your image is not good, it will leave a stain on others' hearts more or less. A bad image will not only make colleagues and leaders crowd you out, but also leave a bad impression on girls when dating, so men need to dress up more to change their image.
Especially for men who work outside the home, besides shaving regularly, their nose hair also needs to be trimmed regularly. If they accidentally lose a nose hair, they will be embarrassed to be seen by others.
Second: not good at words.
Men must not be stupid. In today's society, sometimes a good word may change your life, and a wrong word will ruin your reputation. When doing business or working, you can win more customers, thus improving your own value, and it is easier to attract the attention of others and even leaders, thus taking development opportunities into your arms.
So now men who think highly of themselves will try their best to exercise their eloquence, because eloquence is really important in today's society. These books record many ways of speaking, which can be more powerful when applied.
Third: Affected by emotions.
People are often influenced by emotions, so I ask you, no matter how bad your emotions are, can you solve the current problem? No, not only will it not solve the problem, but it will also affect your daily life. Do you think it's worth it? On the contrary, no matter what problems you face, as long as you can control your emotions, you can find a solution to the problem in a good state. Good mood can improve work efficiency and mental strength.
There will always be many experiences on the road of life. Instead of creating bad feelings for yourself, it is better to accept and face it with an optimistic attitude, so that you are more likely to succeed.
Fourth: poor thinking ability
Thinking ability is also very important for a man. You have a fresh and rigorous thinking, you can do things less detours and find the best ruling method faster. Men's thinking ability is clear and it is easy to win a lot of room for development.
Fifth: low emotional intelligence.
Compared with IQ, EQ is particularly important. Emotional intelligence can be cultivated through nurture. In social life, we will encounter many things and deal with many people. However, high EQ is often a magic weapon to survive in society and even win more development opportunities. The process of social life is the process of contact between individuals. If you do well in dealing with people and learn more communication methods, you will naturally find that many things you do go smoothly.
I'm not afraid that your emotional intelligence is not high, but that you won't change yourself. These good books can teach you how to put in a good word with others and win good interpersonal relationships.
Several major shortcomings of men 2 1, lewd.
Desire is everyone's nature, born with it. But don't use this nature as an excuse to have an affair with others and steal others outside. Once it happens, the consequences are unimaginable. A man with a knife on his head must control himself. Don't always think with his lower body. Just think about something in your mind. Don't take them seriously, otherwise it will easily lead to breakup and marriage breakdown. Women want their men to be single-minded and don't want a third party in love.
2. Smoking and drinking are regardless of occasion.
It is understandable that men like smoking and drinking or smoking and drinking for entertainment. But smoking and drinking on any occasion are endless, which makes women particularly annoying. Especially drunkenness makes women feel fear and insecurity. Never do anything like drunk driving or hitting people after drinking.
3, stingy
Buy buy buys double eleven, buy buy buys double twelve, and buy buy buys birthday presents. On important days, men must be generous, don't be stingy, buy things for women, even if you have no money, but buy her some small gifts. What a woman sometimes wants is not necessarily how rich and expensive she is, but maybe as long as you simply care about her. Be natural and graceful in front of friends. Don't haggle over every ounce there and pull a long face.
4. Idle around and do nothing.
Men can't idle around all day and do nothing. Even if you are unemployed, don't be idle. Learn to constantly improve yourself and work hard. As a man, you must have a sense of responsibility and care about your lover and your family. A man should be the pillar of a blue sky for his family.
5. Domestic violence
I remember a saying: the most extreme violence in this world is war and killing, followed by domestic violence, which is also the most common and hidden. This affects thousands of families, and the victims are often women, children and unarmed elderly people.
Indeed, no matter what the contradiction is, never use violence to solve the problem. Violence is by no means the antidote to the world. As the saying goes, a gentleman talks but doesn't do it. We should face each other with reason and broad mind.
6. Lying
A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts June. Lying is as sad as swearing. We should be honest with the woman we love. However, sometimes white lies can be told, which can add more interest to life.
7. mutual disrespect
Don't complain that others don't respect you, ask yourself whether you respect others first. We should learn to respect others, especially the woman we love. If we don't even respect our lover, let alone respect others.
In public, don't say that your woman is cheap, mean and bitchy. We should learn to appreciate and accept others, and don't do things that hurt others' personality.
8. No motivation
If you are studying, you have no motivation and lose the motivation to study, what will happen to your studies? If you are working, have no self-motivation and lose the motivation to move forward, what will your promotion space be like?
Learn to set goals for yourself, go forward bravely, make persistent efforts when encountering setbacks, and stick to the end, and life will become more and more exciting.
A man with no ambition makes a woman see no hope for the future. We should be self-motivated, don't give up, and take our beloved woman to the other side of happiness.
Men have several shortcomings. First, they have no respect.
Respect is a very beautiful quality, and words about respect can be seen everywhere. Men in China have worshipped power and wealth since ancient times, and they naturally flatter those who have the right and wealth. Even if it's not that serious, at least it's flattery. It should also be from China, Bai Yang, with obsequiousness in his bones. No wonder men with thousands of years' history in China have vividly educated generation after generation. Power and financial resources represent the right to speak, status and glory.
In the government, in the company, in the school, as long as there are people, there is flattery. As long as people have a flattering attitude, they will not have a good face, which is also a strange circle layer by layer. If you fall in love with someone who is psychologically unbalanced, it will be transferred to those who think that they are not as good as themselves. The word "respect" is more on paper. In fact, there is no concept of equality for all. Therefore, this face change from top to bottom makes China men have no truly happy people.
Second, the virgin complex.
This complex is simply speechless. They have a strange thinking that a woman is either a virgin or a big loss. In their words, just thinking that this woman has had another man makes them more disgusting than eating flies.
What they value is a film, which is more important than a woman's personality, quality, accomplishment, culture, tacit understanding and so on. But for them, marrying an ugly virgin is harder than killing them. And how many women they have had is insignificant and unreasonable. Men with virgin complex are suffering from their own pain and deserve to live in suspicion and anxiety.
Third, too selfish, too self-righteous, too violent.
China has always given birth to sons, and any son is much more precious. In the past agricultural era, the son was the labor force, which ensured that the family forces would not be bullied. Just like a family with a son, the daughter always has to marry and pour water. Not to mention the only child now, almost all the people who are most concerned and loved are sons, and they are also the sons' greatest hopes.
I have been used to being a center since I was a child, and I have been used to being a center with myself since I grew up. They will like cats and dogs and care about cars and computers, but they often turn a blind eye to the people around them.
Besides being selfish, you are self-righteous. You always seem to know something. If you don't agree with them, you will often jump up and doubt them, as if they were questioning the truth. There are also ignorance, naivety, geographical discrimination, gender discrimination, work discrimination, rich-poor discrimination and so on.
Cyber violence and language violence are everywhere. If you don't use foul language, it will be violent, ruin people, let people roll, and never turn over. Seeing these violent noises is like the rebirth of the Boxer Rebellion. Sometimes I wonder if there is such a thing as love in China. Can't love, can't love life, can't love yourself. Beating heart, is there anything else besides profit?
Fourth, do not pay attention to the image.
Times are different now. Walking in the street is full of people with bare necks. Whether in suits or casual clothes, people who are dirty are rarely seen. But this doesn't mean anything, such as making a loud noise in public places, taking off your shoes everywhere when you are tired in tourist areas, picking your nose and blowing your nose in public places, making phone calls in concert halls and cinemas, littering, and not giving up your seat to the elderly on buses. There are often such people. Anyway, there is no one around, it doesn't matter what you do, and you are not afraid of what strangers think.