We love our children 200%, but parents love them in their own way and don't understand the laws of children's brain development. Parents may affect their children's brain development in the wrong way. Worrying, blaming and complaining will affect children's brain development. When parents realize that the problem is serious, it is often too late.
How unworthy it is for parents to turn love into an obstacle to their children's growth and even hurt them. Missed the critical period of children's growth, so the biggest cost of education is time, not money, and the problem that money can't solve is the big problem.
If the child is very capable but in a bad state, his grades will also be discounted. Understand the state of brain energy consumption through reasoning, analysis and brain evaluation. It is the basic method of low energy consumption to make children happy, free in mind and standardized in behavior. Respecting children's development law, paying attention to emotions, accepting emotions, and correct parenting and communication methods, including sensory integration training, can reduce brain energy consumption.
Long-term high energy consumption will damage children's brains.
Complexity: it is the complexity of brain network and intelligence.
Brain energy consumption is the energy consumed by the brain.
Heart-brain coupling state: psychological state, emotional intelligence.
Brain power spectrum: thinking mode, path.
Brain energy consumption affects the state of heart-brain coupling and brain power spectrum, which is a cycle.
Brain energy consumption is the core of brain development and can be controlled. It is easier to adjust children's brain energy consumption than to improve children's brain complexity. The change of children is also inversely proportional to age, and the smaller the age, the greater the change.
The lower the energy consumption, the better the learning state. High energy consumption, it is difficult to enter the learning state, and children always say that they are tired and can't learn. For example, if a child feels very tired when he gets up in the morning, he will generally think that the child is anemic and in poor health, and will go to the hospital for physical examination. A brain assessment is equivalent to an anemia test for the brain.
Today, children's average brain energy consumption is relatively high, because:
First, when you are in poor health, you will feel tired when you study again, and you can't work when you are sick.
Second, lack of sleep will also affect brain energy consumption. Before 8- 12 years old, you should go to bed before 9: 30 and develop good sleep habits. Replenish energy.
Third, emotions. Being in a negative emotional state for a long time will lead to high energy consumption in the brain. If the needs are not met, there will be emotions.
1, before the age of six, parents should play games with their children, and their children will be in a good mood. Oversatisfaction is also bad for the brain, which will make the power spectrum of the child's brain simple and affect the complexity of the brain.
2. If love is not satisfied, children will try their best to get it. On the surface, toys and food may be needed, so rules should be established for children. Give children enough love and trust and build a good sense of security.
3. Children will accept their mothers' emotions, and their mothers' anxiety and depression will affect their brain development. Mother and child are connected! Children have a self-consuming rest and need 24 hours to accept their mother's emotions, so children will be very tired. Husband and wife have a bad relationship. After more than two months, the child's brain will definitely change.
Most of the deep-seated needs come from families. Don't plant such seeds for children. I can't control my emotions, often because the seeds planted in Origin and Fate have not been dug up and my emotions have not been released.
Fourth, let children do things they don't want to do for a long time. The child is depressed and irresistible.
Let the child establish an interest and then stick to it. Brain assessment will also allow children to analyze their dominant brains and let them do what they like.
Fifth, the ability to resist setbacks is poor and requires perfection. This is also related to the requirements of parents, and children are influenced by their parents.
Four, five and two points are also related to emotions.
The damage to the brain is irreversible. A high-quality brain consumes a lot of energy and does not perform well. Nowadays, children generally consume a lot of brain power and can't give full play to their abilities.
This is a good way to make children excited and happy. Exercise is a good method. Sensory integration exercise should keep enough, including games, and at the same time build up the ability to resist setbacks. You should know what to play with children and do different projects, not just running.
Parents should support their children and learn what to support. Let children be physically and mentally healthy and adapt to the environment and society. If you don't study well, you can cope with it in society. Depression is a long-term accumulation process. Let parents learn how to lead their children, which is what we really need to do.
I study preschool education. I think I know enough about children, but there are many things I can't do with my two children. Knowing children and knowing yourself is not superficial. It is not enough to know, but to do the right thing. When I couldn't do it before, I would complain that my family background didn't give me enough strength, but now I can't find any reason after studying for so long. Not enough company with children, not enough sensory exercise every day, and not enough books to accompany children! Don't feel guilty, it's not too late to work hard from now on.
Come on! A happy mother gives her children the best family background. I not only want to be happy, but also want to be happy with a group of mothers. Personal strength is limited. When an aura is formed, it will have an effect. You are lucky to have such a good teacher and a group of like-minded people to accompany you and finish the road of parenting happily. When the child is older, I will proudly say that my mother gave you the best love!