But in fact, having a boy is not equal to having a girl. Parents should take some measures when raising boys. Otherwise, it will teach bad children.
In college, there was a boy named Xiaoyu in our class.
Xiaoyu's parents are not rich, but ordinary rural people who make a living by doing small businesses. Because his father is very capable, his father gradually expanded the family business.
Although Xiaoyu's family conditions are not very good, Xiaoyu's family is never short of money because of his father's strong working ability. In terms of money, Xiaoyu's father is also generous.
And because Xiaoyu is the only child in the family, Xiaoyu's father has always been particularly fond of this son, and he supports him unconditionally no matter what he does.
Because of this, Xiaoyu became a very willful and selfish boy when he grew up, and he was also extravagant in spending money.
Unfortunately, Xiaoyu's father later failed in business, and his family's life fell from heaven to hell. At this time, Xiaoyu is still not sensible, often fighting, causing trouble, disrespecting his parents, and making the old couple miserable.
At this time, the old couple began to realize that their doting eventually hurt their children.
Professor Li Meijin is a famous professor in China Public Security University. She has studied juvenile criminal psychology for many years and knows something about parenting. Because of juvenile delinquency, something happened when Otawa was a child.
Therefore, Li Meijin knows a lot about parenting. Many of her lectures are deeply loved by parents.
Professor Li Meijin thinks that boys grow up differently from girls. Families with boys must pay attention to the following points when educating their children, so that children will be able to do so in the future. Let's take a look together.
First of all, when educating boys, parents must be careful not to spoil them.
Influenced by the family planning policy, many families in China are now only-child families. Parents in these families tend to spoil their children when educating them, and will give all their love to the only child in the family.
Therefore, many boys have been raised by their parents as "little emperors" since childhood. Such a child will easily become a dangerous person when he grows up in the future. Because these children are selfish, ungrateful and willful.
If parents don't want to harm their children, they must have a basic bottom line when educating boys. They can't listen to their children and spoil them.
Secondly, parents must pay attention to cultivating children's independent ability when educating boys.
There are also some parents who are very anxious. They are more afraid of getting hurt than their own children. Therefore, these parents always want to protect their children. As long as they want to do something, they will stand up and stop it, just because they think it is dangerous.
This practice of these parents seems to be a sign of loving their children, but it is not. Finally, this practice will only make their children completely lose their independence and make them grow into a disabled person who can't do anything well and can't be independent.
Secondly, parents must pay attention to cultivating children's sense of responsibility when educating boys.
Boys and girls will have different responsibilities when they enter the society in the future. As we all know, the image of men has always been indomitable spirit, so men have to bear greater responsibilities than women.
It is precisely because of this that when we educate boys, we should pay more attention to it. We must cultivate children's sense of responsibility and make them a person with a strong sense of responsibility, so that children can stand firm in the future.
Finally, when educating boys, parents must attach importance to their children's psychological healthy growth.
Because we are not teaching children to be brave, we are just asking them to suppress their emotions. If we always educate our children in this way, they will easily have some psychological problems, which will seriously affect their psychological healthy growth.
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Boys and girls are educated in different ways. If boys want to succeed in the future, their parents should be strict when it is time to be strict, otherwise the children will be lawless.