First, in order to educate excellent children, parents should first set an example. Parents are children's first teachers, and their words and deeds will have a very far-reaching impact on children. Children will imitate their words and deeds, so parents must standardize their words and deeds when they get along with their children, set a good example for them, and give them a good guidance and demonstration.
Second, don't spoil children too much. Although you have raised your children very poor and your daughters very rich, it is not a good thing for children to enjoy material things too much or to spoil them too much since childhood. Children will lose themselves in the life of indulging in money, and they will also lose their independence. Too much material will easily make children lose a correct mentality. To really enrich children, we must give them a rich inner world, improve their spiritual cultivation and enrich their souls.
Third, get along with children on an equal footing and respect their ideas. Don't always show your authority as a parent in front of children, and don't always force children to do things they don't like. Don't impose your ideas and opinions on children. You should go deep into your children's inner world, make friends with them and let them open their hearts in front of you. In life, we should strengthen communication and exchange with children, understand their thoughts, and let them have the right to choose their own lives.