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Let Go —— Notes on Chantarot's Story-telling Case 2
I was lazy the other day when my good friend called me to draw a Zen tarot card.

I knew she was faced with a job choice, but I didn't expect to make a decision so soon. In recent years, her work has been very idle, and she has a lot of time to do what she likes. However, not long ago, their company was acquired by another company. Company leaders have officially informed employees that their work, content and income will be rearranged. Compared with now, the new position not only lost her former leisure, but also required her to greatly increase her investment in her work.

Now the retirement age is far away, and she doesn't want to work as hard as she did when she was young. Most importantly, she doesn't like her job! I want to resign voluntarily and do what I like with peace of mind, but I am worried: after all, this choice is related to the quality of life in the future.

Before drawing tarot cards, I asked her, do you understand your question?

She said, well, I want to ask what should I do?

I said: The clearer your question is, the clearer your hint will be. You want to ask: what should I do? Can you express it more clearly: choose a new job or resign, which is better for you at present, can you?

She said: Good! It's not that I can't do my new job, but that I really don't want to do my old job anymore! I just want to do what I really like.

I asked: Have you ever considered what the future will be like to do what you really like? ?

Yes, I know the income may be lower than it is now, she said. I can accept this and be prepared.

Me: What other cards do you draw? ! Do what you have to do! Hahaha!

She: No, no, I want to smoke. I want to know what will happen if I choose to follow my heart and do what I like?

Me: Actually, you already have the answer in your heart, but you're not sure whether to listen to your heart or not. So, let's draw a card like this and have a look: about your current situation and troubles, please ask Chantarot to give you a hint that is most suitable for your current state, ok?

The card she drew was "water", and number 8: "Let go".

The picture on the card is very beautiful. There are a few shiny drops of water on the lotus leaf, one of which is about to fall into the lake below. There are some ripples on the lake, which were caused by a drop of water falling into the lake before.

She studied the card carefully. After a while, she said, I feel very quiet, comfortable, comfortable and cheerful.

I asked her what advice she had received about the choices she was currently facing.

It's not about doing what I like or staying in the company, she said. No matter what I choose, this card reminds me to enjoy this moment. Work hard when you stay in the company, do what you like when you quit, and temper your heart in the process of doing things.

I teased her: Isn't this chicken soup? Hahaha!

She continued: I still think this is a reminder: be a pure water drop that goes with the flow. Don't go against the laws of nature! Being evaporated is also death, flowing into the lake is also death, and it is also death sooner or later, but it is still very different to die with death and let nature take its course. .......

She's amazing! I can totally accept Chantarot's suggestion.

Water drops are like our "self", hoping to shine! Shiny! Always shine! I hope I am beautiful, famous, rich, seen by the only one, and certainly loved.

After the water drop (self) drops into the lake, although it is still a drop of water in essence, it still exists, but its own "light" disappears. You can imagine how the water drops that fell into the lake struggled, resisted, chose and finally let go, from "shining" to "disappearing".

Choosing to "let go" into the lake is very different from the previous "shining". Before, "Jingjing" was like a lonely little star, but after falling into the lake, the space of water droplets was wider, surrounded by the same kind, and the water flow became wider because of her participation. This is a process of stepping out of the original mode of thinking and behavior, trusting the unknown, welcoming new changes and expanding oneself.

I like playing tarot cards, because tarot cards are like a mirror, which truthfully presents everyone's inner state at the moment. She said that this card reminds her to enjoy this moment, that is, her mental state at this moment: accepting, knowing her choice and knowing the future of the two choices.

She said: My wife's attitude towards me going out for a growth course is neither support nor opposition. However, when I offered to resign, my lover clearly disagreed! He wants me to choose to stay in the new company and do it first. .....

I asked: When faced with some important events, did you make a decision for yourself?

She said: no wow. Growing up, I never made a decision for myself. I also want to listen to my lover, but I am worried that if I don't choose to do what I like now, I will definitely regret it when I get old.

I asked: Are you willing to make a decision for your future and bear the consequences? For example, there is no income that satisfies you after several years; For example, your lover nags about your choices all day; For example, colleagues who choose a new job seem to have more money and status than you; take for example .....

She said: You say that as if you don't make a decision for yourself, and you don't want to bear the consequences of failure. I dare not make a decision after thinking about it myself. In fact, like my wife, I also have concerns about my future income. But if I go to a new job and feel unwilling, I still hope to do what I really like in my life and nourish myself!

After listening to her talk about her confusion and choices, I shared with her some gains from my recent growth:

In recent years, we are growing, learning, breaking through ourselves and changing ourselves. You should be a free man and your own master. Teacher Lin used several characters in Journey to the West to tell a person's spiritual growth story and the process of learning from the scriptures is particularly accurate.

I find that life always gives me one meal after another. What I can do now is: eat slowly! Sometimes I can know what I am eating when I am conscious; Sometimes only when you are full can you be conscious; Sometimes you can know in advance what the next dish will be; Many times I am in a state of ignorance. I eat whatever I give, and it is tasteless!

Although I have been trying to lose weight, this goal is far from me because my attention can't be constantly "present"! Even so, I will always remember my goal: slimming! Stay sane when you are awake and watch yourself eat! Knowing that I should eat less and exercise more, and realizing that I am indulging my taste ... this is my own choice. I know I eat more but exercise less, and I have less responsibility, which is the consequence of not losing weight.

In the process of "how much to eat" and "going to exercise" every day, I constantly correct my mistakes, return to my original heart-slimming, and then step by step towards my goal. One day, I will be as thin as a bolt of lightning! Hahaha! ?

She asked: what is the initial heart?

Huh? ! Initial heart, as we say every day, what is the "initial heart" that is closely related to me and her?

Slimming is one of mine!

Live freely, count me in!

Be your own master, count me in!

....

It seems that there are a lot of initial intentions!

For the choices she is currently facing, the initial intention is what kind of herself she wants to live for the rest of her life, whether to follow her inner guidance or to succumb to her inner judgment.

Back before birth, choose to come to this world, choose to let our souls evolve through this body, learn unconditional love, experience pain and fear, and always remember why this life came. This is the initial heart of every life. In the vision of life, the initial heart should be one: the story of living a good life! Always remember your original heart: what do you really want in this life? You can always be yourself.

There is a passage in Ran Ran's book "The more you write, the more you understand": Write, read, explain and comprehend. Through the complete interpretation of this passage, I realized the beauty of this incident for my soul, and it was no longer just that my emotions were stuck in vain. How beautiful the word "goodwill" is. From the perspective of life, after returning to the "initial heart", let's look at the so-called "setbacks" encountered in daily life and the "choices" before entanglement. Every crossing has made a more textured soul.

My understanding of this "let go" card is to let go of the fear of the future and let go of the "shining" again and again, and live in every moment of the moment, watching, waiting and not judging!

It seems that we are both moved by our "initial heart" before birth, and we stare at each other as if we met for the first time! ?

I said: If you know what you want, you can make a conscious choice. If you make up your mind, your lover will not stop you.

She nodded!

I said: If you decide to resign, don't tell your lover that you are looking for me to draw cards when you go back today! Hahaha!

The number 8 stands for abundance, which also means that she has been in the same situation for a long time, and it is time to change. Water element is a kind of spiritual feeling, which shows that her understanding of life needs to be improved and can accommodate more possibilities.

Want to drink hot tea, you need to pour Leng Cha tightly. Let go first, with the exploration of the unknown, trust in life, and out of the comfort zone, there will be new possibilities. This is what she needs to learn, isn't it also a topic that I need to learn? ?

Before she left, I showed her the number 9 of the "water" element: "Laziness".

Remind her and remind ourselves that when we choose to follow our hearts, let go of the past, overcome our fears and do what we really like in our hearts, it is still not our final destination, it is just a new beginning, and there are still several layers of sky waiting for us to explore!

I don't know how she will choose when she goes back, and how she will communicate her decision with her lover after the choice, but I am also very happy to see her happy to go home after that day! Thank her for pulling me out of the frequency of lazy cancer, telling stories through Zen tarot cards, looking at the problems I am facing at the moment from the perspective of "self", making choices with peace of mind, and completing the homework of my soul with peace of mind. It feels like jumping to a higher dimension, wandering around and returning to the ground, and really doing what you have learned in life.

That night, a book club partner wechat me, first of all, a lot of voices, to the effect that my wife always denies my practice, but obviously I am right! Is he a little insecure?

Knowing some stories between her and her lover, I asked her: If you are willing to give up insisting that you are right for a good relationship, will you die? Ask yourself, do you want to prove that you are the right person in the world, or do you want "happiness" and "good relationship"?

.......

Finally, she said, well, I know he's just honing me!

Ha ha ha, right, right, it's all arranged. Let's come together! ?

In less than five minutes, she sent a long joke about her lover's failure to listen to her advice several times, which led to the failure of investment! The implication is to prove that you are right to let me give up myself, so that I can get happiness and a good relationship! However, irrefutable evidence, if you don't listen to me, the consequences will be very serious!

Look at her long speech, because it involves money, so it has to be a long-winded homework. I feel that at my level, I can't explain it in words on WeChat.

So, I had to throw a bunch of questions, let her take back the attention of their seeds:

Why did you choose not to stick to your own ideas when making a decision?

Why always choose hindsight?

Why are you always collecting examples of your lover's investment failure?

Why do you always choose to be hurt when you are strong in your bones?

Why do you choose to only see your lover deny you?

Why do you choose to prove yourself right with old stories, beliefs and prejudices day after day?

Why not consciously choose to sit down with your lover, have a good talk, discuss and look forward to the future together?

If you can't let go of the old stories, why not focus on growing yourself and changing yourself?

In life, when we unconsciously put our attention into "error correction", we receive N variants of "error". The problem of "self" can never be solved. If you want to continue to play such a story, just go quietly!

I suddenly remembered the eighth card in the afternoon: let go! Finally, I replied to her: try to "put down" the past story. She gave me some thumbs. I think this conversation is over. Will she let go of the old story, rewrite the life story and live a good story? Just because I shared my story with her, I began to look forward to her!

Stop it!

I heard that:

It is the right way to "let go" yourself!

Yes, on the same day, two people actually reminded me with different stories: let go! Do it, do it!