For example, food, music, movies, travel, looking forward to each other's circle of friends, signature, shared music, status, constellation, messages, comments and so on.
If you are classmates and fellow villagers, you have similar growth experiences and childhood memories. , you can say that.
For example, she is a fan of Jay Chou, and you grew up listening to Chairman Zhou.
She likes Sichuan food, and so do you. She likes comments, especially the exchange of ideas. You too. Besides, you recently watched a movie together, and you both like Marvel comics.
Here's a little trick.
At first, set a limit. Because girls don't know you well, it's best for boys not to put themselves in a close position first, with' you' as the mainstay and' me' as the supplement.
Because most girls like to discuss and care about themselves, I hope the topic is to interpret and focus on themselves (girls want to be loved psychologically and get the attention of the opposite sex). )
However, if you meet some girls who are not safe enough, please' expose' yourself appropriately first.
When the relationship is getting closer and closer, we can join' we' appropriately.
For example, "Do you think ..." "Me too?"
"What a coincidence, our ideas have come together."
Start with praise, interspersed with' appreciation' and occasionally play the role of' listener' and' comedian'.
For example, she sent a beautiful circle of friends today. People just praise you. You can say, "This pink dress really suits you." Cherry earrings are very cute. Your temperament is really that no style can beat you. '
More is to guide girls' emotional input and emotional interaction in interaction, which is often reflected in some casual details.
Finally, when she expresses strong interest, she should stop for serious reasons. Prepare for the next chat.
For example,' I should go to the gym. You should have fun with the kitten first. ...'
Then,' I haven't seen you for hours. "Did your little baby miss me?" We went on to the last topic.
The interaction of relationships is that you can't see each other and don't want to talk, but you keep asking. Interaction is the key.
It's hot when the other person is hot, and you should back off when the other person is cold.
At the same time, affirm each other's good,' it's not easy for you to listen to a girl.'
And praise each other's uniqueness appropriately. You are a unique girl. You are the most special girl I have ever seen.
It is not difficult to find a topic. There are several key places to help you start a conversation.
First, the comment category in the circle of friends. And, questions and help about friends circle.