How to train your wife
1. Men should learn to coax.
Women like to be coaxed. Of course, just coaxing is not enough. Women should praise, affirm and praise. For example, if you cook a good dish, you should praise it in person, because she will get better and better if she is motivated.
2. Men should learn to love women.
Women are used to love and hurt. Most women are kind and soft-hearted. If a man wants to get a woman's heart, he must love and hurt. A happy and good woman is the pain of her husband's love, not to mention that love is mutual. The premise of a good woman and wife is to have a husband who loves her and loves her;
3. Men should learn to hug and kiss.
After getting married for a long time, the intimate actions between husband and wife will be less and less, but experts say that hugging and kissing are the best medicine to resolve the disputes between husband and wife, which is also the reason why it is difficult for husband and wife to resolve conflicts when they are separated by telephone. With a kiss and a hug, a woman can smile through tears, which is what a good woman should do;
Men should learn to criticize.
No, women need to get used to it, but not too much. So I will occasionally talk about my shortcomings and shortcomings, and indirectly criticize them, so that she can know where she is not doing well. Nothing can go to extremes. No matter how good a thing is, it will become a bad thing if it is overdone.
5. Men should learn to show weakness.
There is no shame in showing weakness in front of your own woman. Even if you are strong, sometimes you need a woman to comfort you. At the same time, it will stimulate women's motherhood and sense of responsibility. Few women will abandon a man who can't leave her and is attached to her. Of course, this man can't be too weak.
Training your wife's skills
1. To train a wife, you must first know how to care with love. In many romantic movies or novels, Bian Xiao thinks that the most romantic words are used by women to love and hurt. Most of them are sharp How can a man care for a good wife if he doesn't love or hurt? Love is mutual.
Teach your wife to spoil her like a child. Women are short-tempered. To love her is to tolerate her strengths and weaknesses. Even if she is unreasonable occasionally, you should coax her, or give her praise and praise at the right time, so that she has a certain sense of existence and feels valued. Naturally, she will slowly move in the direction you want and become your ideal little woman.
If you want to cultivate a woman, you should always be with her. If you can't even get the most basic companionship, how can you cultivate her? You think she is lazy because you don't give her the motivation to work hard. Even boring housework will become fun if men are willing to share it with women. In fact, women don't want much, even simple companionship is very romantic.
However, you need to knock at the right time. Maybe some women give in too much and get carried away. As soon as you talk about her, she will be very angry and lose her temper like you. If so, you are too kind to her. Usually, if there are contradictions, we should communicate more, and don't blindly accommodate them. If it is wrong, it is right, it is right. In any case, you should stick to the principle of truth. Although you can't reason with women, communication is still very important. Nothing can be done too much.
Sometimes, properly showing the vulnerable side is also telling her that her importance in your mind will stimulate women's motherhood. I believe that many women will not hurt a husband who shows weakness to themselves. Of course, this man can't be too weak. If a man wants to cultivate the woman he wants, he must first improve himself.
My wife doesn't know how to train.
The best way to train your wife is to seize the opportunity. Let her cultivate her when she is in a good mood and when she needs you. You'd better train her after you have sex. Better use good words. Don't blame her in front of everyone, remember!
It can be said that communication between husband and wife is very important. She won't understand unless you say what's in your heart. You have to put her in another position. If we only talk about her shortcomings, there will be a big fight if we are dissatisfied with her. She will think that you think she is not good and communicate calmly. If she doesn't change and annoy you, then use her unique skills! Be indifferent to her, don't indulge her, she will be afraid and change slowly.