Of course not. How can a person who really knows love and loves you deeply threaten you with "why don't you give me your love?" ? Making love before marriage is "love for making love", and false love takes cheating as its ultimate goal. Making love after marriage is "love for love's sake", with love and responsibility as the ultimate goal. The following is my opinion. Losing one's virginity before marriage is extremely unfavorable to a girl's life! In the face of this big right and wrong, we must be very clear Love a person, you should give care, consideration and tolerance, but you must never give up your "moral bottom line"! Besides, in the absence of formal marriage, it is the minimum respect not to defile each other's innocence and honor. If "you should give everything if you love someone", why doesn't the man even give "this minimum respect"? If a girl loves him, he should "use" her love to realize his inner greed and desire, right? If you really want to marry a girl, why not wait until you get married? If he has sex because he wants to tie the girl, it only shows that his ability and morality are serious. Otherwise, how could he think of such a despicable method?