I thought that my long-lost appearance would be blessed and welcomed by netizens. Unexpectedly, it attracted overwhelming humiliation and ridicule from netizens.

In this appearance, Gina wore a slim dress, which highlighted her belly fat.

You know, since Lang Lang and Gina got married, she has been on hot search for many times with her proud figure, especially holding Ying Ying's "water snake waist".

This sharp contrast aroused many people's inner dark psychology, and they began to ridicule Gina's figure in a way:

I don't know why, people are always full of arrogance and malice about the figure of pregnant women.

After giving birth to a child, Gina, who lost her good figure, instantly changed from a goddess admired by everyone at the beginning to an object of ridicule at will.

On October 20th, 654381this year, Gina and Lang Lang played the piano hand in hand.

The original intention of the couple is only to record the good times during pregnancy.

But in some people's eyes, they will only see the fat on Gina's belly, which was about to be produced at that time, and they will ridicule it rudely.

On February 25, some media exposed the shot of Gina shooting a new advertisement, when she had just given birth to a baby less than a month ago.

In the exposed photos, although Gina is wearing loose pajamas, she still can't stop her loose stomach.

Many people sarcastically spit out: so much fat, so eager to come back. Is the family short of money to this extent?

To tell the truth, I am really chilling to see everyone's ridicule.

After giving birth, all the functions of the body have not recovered.

In addition, in order to ensure adequate nutrition intake during pregnancy, they will force themselves to eat nutrients they don't like, and they will have to breast-feed after pregnancy, so it is normal for them to be out of shape.

But some people just like to selectively ignore the pain of these mothers.

They are used to the full screen of long legs and small waists, and gradually forget the shape of their bodies. This is the true portrayal of postpartum mothers.

What lies behind these sarcastic remarks is unfair treatment of women and discrimination against the sacred profession of mothers.

It is the most vicious and cruel thing to kidnap her by satirizing her postpartum mother's figure.

Being pregnant and having children is a hurdle for women, even strong women and actresses can't escape.

Giving birth to a child brings not only physical discomfort, but also the pain of childbirth, deformity of figure, aging of appearance and the cost of career suspension.

However, the attitude of public opinion towards postpartum mothers has always been so harsh and so double-marked.

In recent years, the situation of pregnant mothers has become more and more difficult, suffering from more and more disgusting abuse and humiliation.

In 20 19, Zhang Xinyi, who just became a mother, visited her husband Justin's crew and was met by netizens in a restaurant.

I was accidentally photographed by netizens, and the "ugly photo" that she has not recovered since giving birth was made public.

In the photo, she is bloated and getting bigger and bigger, becoming what they call an "aunt".

As soon as this group of photos was uploaded to the Internet, it immediately aroused heated public opinion.

They don't care about Zhang Xinyi's postpartum health, but they mock Zhang Xinyi's deformed figure.

Every time Zhang Xinyi appeared, they mocked him as if it were a funny thing.

Subsequently, Zhang Xinyi responded to this group of photos and comments from netizens:

"I just want to be a mother quietly. Is it so important that I am out of shape? Can you not talk about this? "

Between words, full of anger and helplessness.

Originally, she just wanted to be a mother who raised her children well and didn't care about things outside the window, but she never wanted to get involved in the darkness and decay of this world.

To be honest, after seeing these remarks, I can't let go for a long time.

Why does every woman need to be asked to keep slim?

What's more, for a lactating mother, why does being out of shape become an excuse for being laughed at and humiliated?

You only see Zhang Xinyi's figure out of shape, but you don't know that she has to go through a three-hour milk pump alarm clock after delivery, suffering from postpartum hair loss and memory loss, and suffering from a toothache for the baby for one year. ...

In order to breastfeed, they can't go on a diet to lose weight, lack sleep and are on the verge of collapse at any time.

Do you think they want to lose weight and become bloated?

They also want to be beautiful and attractive, but they can't.

For the sake of children, you can only give up your youth, beauty, figure, career and even everything.

All their sufferings are just to enable their children to be born and grow up healthily.

Just like all our mothers.

But what happened?

Those people turned a blind eye to the pain and suffering endured by their mothers that ordinary people could not see.

In their eyes, for children, only their bloated and deformed bodies, only those "ugly" fats.

But have you ever thought that when your mother gave birth to you, she changed from a girl to a fat aunt like them?

If your mother knows your dirty words, aren't you afraid of chilling them?

People who can say these words are not worthy to be human at all.

Giving birth to a child is definitely not as simple as a woman giving birth to a life in ten months.

The birth of every life is bought by the mother's struggle against death.

Last year, Ella, a member of the SHE women's group, first exposed the video of her production process.

When Ella gave birth, her husbands Lai Sixiang, Selina Selina, Herbie Hebe Tien and many other relatives and friends were with her in the ward.

At first, Ella gave birth in the water, and the temperature of the water eased the pain.

Unexpectedly, from the beginning, Ella's production process was very difficult.

The pelvis is not open enough and the birth canal is not open. No matter how hard she tried and howled, the baby just couldn't be born.

In desperation, everyone had to transfer Ella to the hospital bed for production.

At this point, ella was speechless with pain.

Looking at Ella's painful contractions in the hospital bed, everyone present cried.

Subsequently, the doctor chose to use suction cups, and then asked several nurses to press their stomachs to cooperate with the production.

I didn't expect to go back and forth for more than a dozen times and failed. As a result of every failure, Ella bled a lot.

All the people can't bear to see such a cruel scene, and they are secretly wiping their tears, not to mention Ella, who is in an embarrassing situation.

Even so, ella, or mother, didn't give up. She screamed in pain again and again, and she kept trying.

Fortunately, through the difficult process of childbirth, the child was finally born smoothly.

Hearing the child crying, everyone cried happily.

Because this cry represents the arrival of a new life, but also represents the terrible childbirth torture is finally over.

This is what a mother needs to go through to bring her children into this world.

As "Shengmen" said:

"Production is a door. Outside the door is the joy of waiting for a new life, but inside the door is a thrilling struggle with death. "

The word "childbirth" implies a mother's desperate courage and love for her children.

Seeing this, do you still have the face to say those unbearable words to them? How dare you say such a trivial thing as mother's appearance after childbirth?

If you haven't experienced the tenth grade pain of giving birth and the fear of going to the gate of hell, who are you to blame a mother?

Mother is lucky to be alive.

Who can say that a filial child like the weak can repay his mother's love like the sunshine in spring?

Once upon a time, when we mentioned the word mother, everyone's eyes sparkled with respect and love.

I didn't expect that with the development of society in the present era, postpartum mothers would suffer such abuse and humiliation.

Now some people seem to forget where they came from.

For a mother, instead of respecting and caring, they try their best to insult and satirize.

They forget the torture their mother suffered when she was pregnant, fail to see the difficulties of life and death that her mother had to go through when giving birth to a child, and ignore some sequelae after giving birth to a child. In their eyes, they only see their deformed bodies after giving birth.

Sheep have the grace of kneeling and nursing, and crows have the meaning of feeding back.

Even animals know that some people are always worse than animals to their mothers.

I really can't figure out how a smelly and rotten stomach can be so vicious to a mother.

Is a person's heart so cold and shameless that even his mother can ridicule him at will?

Are all the people who say these words orphans?

The birth of every child is hard-won, and the sacrifices made by the mother in the process of giving birth to life are unimaginable.

A woman who dares to be a mother is great enough and selfless enough.

They have a hard life, so we shouldn't rub salt in their wounds.

We should give them gentle care, take care of them and be considerate as much as possible.

Let them know that we can all see their pain and suffering.

You should see it, too