We: I want to buy a BMW, but I can't afford it. I am in pain!

Zhang Chaoyang: I want to buy a car, Porsche or Maibakh? Lamborghini or Maserati? It's hard to choose. I am in pain!

Everyone has troubles, rich people are not necessarily happy, and people without money are not necessarily unhappy. It's true.

But the reality is that money can solve most unhappy troubles and difficulties in this world, especially so.

People standing at different heights or angles naturally see different scenery, each with its own ups and downs. We are still wandering in the streets, eyebrows and eyes are in a hurry, and food is for rice; Others are standing in tall buildings, trapped and worried about the city.

Therefore, Mr. Zhang said that he was suffering, which should be true, because he had gone beyond the troubles of survival at the grassroots level and was troubled by problems that ordinary people could not feel and understand.

But is he in pain? What do we care?

First of all, express my personal opinion. I fully believe in Zhang Chaoyang's pain.

I would like to share with you a passage from the classic "Caigen Tan": "Many Tibetans die thick, it is better to know that being rich is not as good as being poor and carefree; Those who step high are ill, and it is better to know that you are expensive than to be safe. "

The meaning of this passage is not difficult to understand, that is, to tell the world that the richer a person is, the greater the loss when he loses it again. So it can be inferred that the rich are not as carefree as the poor; The higher the status, the worse the fall, the more painful it is.

People like Zhang Chaoyang naturally have no worries about food and clothing for ordinary people, but it is difficult for ordinary people to get happiness as easily as after eating a big meal and buying a new dress.

Although the statement is a bit of a Q spirit, it is also true. So the poor have more troubles and happiness is easier to get. When the rich reach a certain stage, it will be more and more difficult to get real happiness through material aspects, so it will be more painful.

The world of the rich will certainly not be understood by the poor, with different levels and different realms.

Lao Zhang said that he could buy whatever he wanted. I believe that in 20 years, Sohu's annual revenue will be $750 million and its net profit will be $5 1 10,000. In 2065,438+09, Sohu also lost $65,438+0.28 billion, so the current development of Sohu is very good. As the boss of Sohu, Lao Zhang's personal worth is about $5 billion, which is enough for ordinary people to spend a lifetime.

Lao Zhang has so much money, but he is not happy at all. Everything is pain. I can only say with a smile that you have money, and everything you say makes sense. As Hangzhou Ma said before, "I haven't touched money and I'm not interested in it." For example, Boss Wang said, "Set a small goal first and earn 100 million yuan." These bosses are still very interesting to say, and they are a joke to us ordinary people. After all, we are still running for our lives, earning thousands of dollars a month and worrying about the house and car every day, and we simply can't understand the happiness of these bosses. But from the boss's point of view, what people say is true. Hangzhou is worth hundreds of billions immediately, and it can't be spent. Will it still be interested in money? Money is really a number in his eyes. Boss Wang said that earning 100 million yuan is a small goal, no problem. For others, it may be earned in a day and a week.

My wife brought a LV bag home for the Spring Festival at a price of 15000. My mother-in-law was very scared. She was busy blaming me for buying such an expensive bag for her wife. What my mother-in-law said made me laugh. "You don't want to sell this broken bag 20 yuan to me. It's too small, I can't even buy a cabbage. " After all, my mother-in-law can't spend a few dollars or earn a few in her hometown.

So different realms and levels have different understandings. I can't understand or believe what Teacher Zhang said. If I may, I want to say to Mr. Zhang: Give me your money and let me bear these pains. I'll take them.

I believe that his pain is similar to that of retired cadres, and his former scenery vanished overnight. People who used to walk around him took his place.

God is fair, and it does make Mr. Zhang frivolous in his career, and he can arrogantly get all the material wealth.

However, God also tightly bound his love and sense of belonging, and always kept him away from the emotional world.

Indeed, he needs a vigorous Platonic love so much that his impetuous heart can calm down, but it is difficult to find a bosom friend in the boundless love. Who knows his privacy? ...

Despair, mental fatigue, lingering thoughts, unhappy. ...

Annoying night, so long ...

Nothing in the world is difficult for one who sets his mind to it. All right! Physical abuse, career doesn't matter, the key is to forget the inner pain and go out. ...

Now is the time to save your soul:

The mountain is not high, but there are immortals and spirits!

Now his only choice is to call from a distance! ! !

Shanshan is my woman! ! !

Give vent and hug!

General Zhang's pain, maybe I can answer it.

After studying psychology, I found that most of people's mental illness is because they realize that they want to make progress and make a lot of money to be a big official, but they can't. So people feel very incompetent and helpless, and want to change this situation, but if they can't do it, they can't do it, they can't do it at all. People who can't do it envy people who can do it, so this person is very entangled, entangled and annoyed.

Therefore, as long as people want to make progress but can't succeed, they will definitely have psychological problems.

For example, if a person eats old money at a young age, if he doesn't take it seriously and eats old money seriously, who says he doesn't care, he won't have psychological problems; However, if he knows that he is wrong, he doesn't want to, but if he can't find a job anywhere, he will feel inferior and be depressed.

Behind Mr. Zhang's pain may be something he can't tell: in the rapid changes of Internet companies, Sohu fell from the first echelon to the third echelon's sorrow and struggle. At that time, Sohu had unlimited scenery, but in the wave of social media, Sohu failed to keep pace with the times, and no product caught the eye of users. It's behind. Mr. Zhang was in a hurry, but there was nothing he could do. So he stayed at home, ignored the world, and gave the company to someone he trusted, thinking that I couldn't do it, but people I trusted could always do it. But when he passed the customs, he found that the company not only missed the wave of social media, but even the mobile Internet fell behind. Then I caught it myself, and found that I might as well not catch it. Even Sohu video and Sohu mobile news client were caught dead. At this time, he will certainly blame himself, but he doesn't want to admit that he can't help it in public. He is in this tangle and tangle.

So he is very painful, maybe it is a kind of loneliness of "beauty dying".

I believe it's because Zhang Chaoyang, who became famous in his early years, didn't understand capital thinking and only thought he was great. In the future, corporate investors should not only be themselves, but also think about investing in others. It is not a listed company that integrates with the upstream and downstream industrial chain, ecological chain and future of its own industry. It is necessary to have more control over listed companies!

[People who eat melons] It's easy to get better, or it's not easy to get better. What can satisfy people? [Laughing and crying] What do you think of hobbies? I don't know what I want, what I want and what will happen. [making faces]

I believe.

Tell a story. If you are a maggot, born in a cesspit, eating dung all day, surrounded by the same kind, then you don't suffer.

If you are lucky enough to leave the cesspit and join a group of silkworms, they look similar, but every day others are spinning, and only you miss the career in the cesspit.

Pain comes from change and comparison.

I believe that with the rapid development of the Internet, Sohu can be said to be the first batch to do the Internet. When Tencent, Ali and Baidu were not obvious, Sohu was already very successful. On the other hand, Sohu's current market value is so bleak that it has been surpassed by many Internet stars. Zhang Chaoyang must have a bad feeling.