The article was exposed to four relationships after two years of divorce.

For 14 years, they have no light in their eyes.

Since the divorce, articles have rarely appeared in the public eye.

However, recently, some media have photographed articles that are intimate with mysterious women, and it is suspected that a new relationship has been exposed.

After his divorce from Ma Yili, he had four relationships in less than two years, but none of them was approved by him.

Speaking of articles, Ma Yili must be an unavoidable person.

It was 2005, when Ma Yili was 29 years old, and the article was 2 1 year old. At that time, Ma Yili had been in the entertainment circle for 9 years, and the article was still a young guy.

A "Royal Guards" introduced them to each other, and they became attached to the drama. When they collaborated on Struggle again, they got together.

At that time, they didn't know that the silk thread of fate had quietly intertwined them, and this entanglement was 14.

Many people are not optimistic about this relationship, but the age difference of 8 years old can't stop two loving hearts. Two years later, they got married, and in September of the same year, they welcomed their first daughter, named Wen.

They took part in programs and were interviewed, and their love stories were told in the streets. For a time, they became model couples in the entertainment circle, and everyone admired them.

If the days can go on like this, it should be very good: successful career, loving husband and wife, beautiful and smart children.

But when a man loves you, he is really sincere, and when he changes his mind, he is really heartless.

In August of 20 13, Ma Yili, who was pregnant with a second child, should have heard the rumor that the article was cheating.

Perhaps because of the uncertainty of love, life has been seemingly "calm" for a while.

Surprisingly, they are not divorced.

After the incident, Ma Yili, like many first wives, chose the overall situation of "doing and cherishing". Like many men who cheat, the article says that it is painful to regret returning to the family.

To this end, they spent five years sewing up their feelings and going around for the second time, trying to set an example for couples who had extramarital affairs through the demonstration effect of public figures.

Whether it is a show of love by proposing marriage again in public or a new attempt with Qi Fei, they are trying their best to prove to those who sing them down:

"We are very happy."

(Quoted from: Liu Na's "New Love Exposure: Three Facts about the War between Men and Women")

But that betrayal was like a dead fly falling into the treasure of love. Ma Yili still has a sore throat every time he thinks about it.

So they finally divorced.

In fact, if there is no derailment, their love will really make people envy; If it weren't for that, they might still live together. If it weren't for that affair, they might have raised their children together and lived together forever.

Unfortunately, there is nothing like this. ...

From the beginning to the end, there was light in my eyes. After 14 years of entanglement, they are no longer young and their love is completely dead.

Men are "proud of the spring breeze" after cheating.

Everyone knows what happened later. It is nothing more than "one colleague is half, one is two wide". I am lingering in love every day and now I have become the most familiar stranger.

But it is impossible to say that it has no effect. After this storm, Yao Di and other three people's lives and careers have been greatly hit.

Regardless of Ma Yili, although it can't be compared with before, the situation of articles is always better than that of Yao Di.

The article was exposed in August of 20 13, but it is still active in the entertainment circle, appearing in many TV series and even winning many awards.

I just intercepted a few paragraphs on Baidu:

According to the rough calculation of this picture, since August 20 13, as many as 13 TV plays have starred, directed, participated, shown or won prizes, which is still incomplete statistics.

On June 5438+065438+ 10, he also won the best actor for Snow Leopard, and he was still receiving the award in 20 17.

It is hard to say whether the film and television awards should consider the personal morality of the candidates. But I have to say that this society is too tolerant of men's infidelity.

Even this time, because of the hot search for new relationships, someone spoke for him in the comments section.

It doesn't matter if you cheat, you are still mixed in the industry, even your love life is not affected, and there are beautiful women who "throw themselves at each other."

Extramarital affairs exposure

Women always suffer the most.

But the two heroines in the story are not so lucky.

Ma Yili once admitted that his life was not good after the divorce.

Suffering from procrastination, unable to get out of bed, angry with children, prone to crying, and even seeing a psychiatrist.

"Last year was really not so good. Sitting in the car every day, I feel in a trance, and my mind is in a daze. Then I have little strength to do anything.

Then for the first time, I realized the feeling that someone couldn't talk about it. I have tried acupuncture, and I have tried acupuncture, and the cost is 654.38+100000. Then watch sports rehabilitation, have a psychologist, and talk every day. "

While Ma Yili was trying to get out of the trauma caused by divorce, ironically, the article had an affair with four women in succession.

But the worst is Yao Di.

On the variety show, I tried to wash away the dust with a song "So you are still here". Once I sang until I choked, but I still screamed.

Once a real girl, now she can only be a supporting role;

Send a Weibo casually, and be scolded by netizens as "You don't deserve to live".

Even if they marry a boyfriend outside the circle, some people will curse and abuse the title of a third party.

(Quote: Her magazine featured article "The article and the private photo of the mysterious woman" was photographed, which triggered a hot discussion on the whole network: he chose "Yao Di" after four times of love in two years? 》)

Said these didn't mean to defend the third party, Yao Di was wrong, and she also paid the due price for her mistake.

If the man still defends her, should she be nailed to the shelf of shame and humiliated as a slut forever?

There are only a handful of original videos of playing mistress on the Internet. Obviously, both men and women are at fault, but it is always women who are slapped and torn in the street.

There are many cheating incidents in the entertainment circle, and the treatment suffered by men and women is also very different.

For example, Michael Chen and Zhang, now Zhang is tantamount to quitting the entertainment circle. I haven't had a job in recent years, and my career is almost ruined.

Cheating is harmful to all three parties. One cheating, three victims.

However, if we must compare the degree of injury, at least in China society, in most cases, women are much more hurt than men. Those who have resources and status in the entertainment circle, not to mention ordinary people, are inseparable.

Cheating divorce is less harmful to men.

How do women save themselves?

Although an affair requires the "participation" of both men and women (except homosexual love), too many examples have explained the truth: after making mistakes in love, women bear much more costs than men.

After a storm, men may continue to flourish, while girls may lose their careers and reputations, live with the label of "slut" all their lives, and be nailed to the shame frame and never turn over.

This is enough to wake us up: First of all, the most important thing is that no matter how unforgettable your's love is, don't be a third party or cheat.

This is not asking you to be a "chastity moral model", but to save yourself. Because as a woman, you really can't afford the consequences of cheating.

This is not to say that it doesn't matter if a man cheats. Read the article. Although he still has a bite to eat in the entertainment circle, his career will develop better without cheating. That's for sure. There is no denying that he is a good actor. With his previous qualifications and resources, he may even mix with an actor.

But nothing can go back.

People can promise not to betray themselves, but they can't control their partners not to betray themselves. What should we do at this time? This is my second point: what should we do when we are betrayed?

Again, you should take good care of yourself at any time. When I say safe, there are many aspects:

Save your property.

Because no matter what happens, you need to settle down first, you need to live, you need to dress, eat and have a house to live in.

If possible, take care of your pre-marital property, and if possible, buy a house of your own before getting married.

Because according to the provisions of the new marriage law, if the house down payment is made by the man or his parents, even if the woman's name is written, it is very likely that the house will not be obtained after divorce.

Make sure you have a certain cash flow.

Men are not necessarily reliable, but money is the most reliable. Parents will get old one day. In case your parents are ill one day, you won't be cornered.

If you still have spare capacity, stocks, funds, shops ... choose an area where you are good at investing.

With the "after-sleep income", you can boldly and confidently give yourself a holiday to heal, and have no worries.

Save your world.

Don't let marriage become everything to you, so even if it collapses, your world will only collapse a little, and you can make up for it with other things.

This thing can be your career, your circle of friends, your hobbies ... Everything else, you can't throw away.

We must constantly improve our business ability. Your career can not only earn a few small money, but also be an important source of your sense of accomplishment.

Don't cut off contact with friends at ordinary times. Many times, they can give you spiritual comfort.

At best, you should have one or two hobbies. Love can last. It can fill your soul and make you live for yourself for at least one moment in a day.

The most important thing is to save your heart.

You should cultivate a strong heart, don't let a change of heart destroy you easily, you will always have the courage to start again;

Even if you are alone for a while, you can live well. When the next true love comes, you can continue to love as if you have never been hurt.

You can learn some necessary psychological knowledge. When the mind is in crisis, that kind of knowledge will not let you down, and even pull you back and save you in some dark moments.

Read as much as possible, and read more miscellaneous things. History, philosophy, masterpieces, biographies, etc. You will know something about the subtlety of human nature, the vastness of the universe and the delicacy of history. Knowing the complexity of the world will make your heart bigger, so few things can knock you down.

You cook delicious and healthy meals and buy flowers once a week. You will make your room beautiful, keep a lovely pet and cover it with soft and clean sheets. ...

A person can live well. Love for you is just icing on the cake. Without this flower, you are still a beautiful brocade.

You are ready for your best self, ready to accept the coming of true love.

In fact, true love will come soon.